Txheem
Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus me nyuam tuag los? Txhawm rau saib kev tuag ntawm lwm tus me nyuamYuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus me nyuam tuag los?
Cov poj niam uas tsis muaj menyuam yaus pom tau qhov no - tus cim ncaj qha tias nyiaj txiag yuav sai sai no, tab sis tus poj niam cev xeeb tub uas tau pom nws tus me nyuam mos liab los yog tus me nyuam tuag thaum yug tus me nyuam, yuav tsum pib ua ntej. Psychologists txhais tau qhov kev pom zoo no yog lub cim ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm tus poj niam nws tus kheej, leej twg ntshai pub yug thiab ntshai tias nws yuav tsis tiv nrog lub luag hauj lwm lub luag hauj lwm ntawm leej niam.
Yam me nyuam mos liab npau suav txog, nyeem ntawm no .
Cov poj niam uas loj hlob tuaj, tab sis ib tug me nyuam tuag hauv lub siab xav, yuav tsum ua tib zoo mloog lawv cov xeeb ntxwv. Nws tsis muaj cais tawm tias lawv yuav koom tes nrog rau lub tuam txhab tsis zoo thiab nws lub neej thiab kev noj qab haus huv yog qhov muaj teeb meem. Sim nrog koj tus menyuam tham kom maj mam tiv thaiv nws kom tsis txhob ua phem.
Feem ntau kev npau suav ntawm kev tuag ntawm lawv cov menyuam yaus raug kho nrog kev tseeb thiab lwm txoj haujlwm. Piv txwv, koj tus tub yog tam sim no mob heev, thiab koj ua npau suav tias nws tuag lawm. Qhov no txhais tau hais tias tsis ntev tus me nyuam yuav rov qab los, thiab sai txaus. Thiab yog tias koj cov me nyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv, ces kev npau suav ntawm lawv txoj kev tuag yog ib qho zoo rau txhua qhov. Nws cog lus tias nws yuav yug tau txoj sia ntev thiab zoo siab.
Cev xeeb tub npau suav tom qab npau suav txog kev yug me nyuam ntawm tus me nyuam tuag yuav tsum tuaj rau tus kws kho mob. Txawm hais tias thaum lub sij hawm nws tus me nyuam yav tom ntej tsis raug teeb meem, nws tsis txhais tau hais tias ib tug poj niam tuaj yeem tiv thaiv tus yam ntxwv tsis zoo uas tsis vam khom nws.
Txhawm rau saib kev tuag ntawm lwm tus me nyuam
Tus txhais lus ntawm kev pw tsaug zog, uas koj pom li cas tus me nyuam uas tsis paub koj, raug kho me ntsis txawv.
- Tug tuag tug poj niam ua cim tseg rau ntawm sab ntsuj plig. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nws txhawj xeeb muaj tswv yim zoo. Tom qab npau suav, lawv yuav tsum tos kom nres rau hauv txoj haujlwm thiab tos ntev ntev rau lwm qhov "nres" kev tshoov siab.
- Cov neeg ua lag luam kuj yuav tsis zoo siab heev rau pom ib tug me nyuam tub tuag nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav, vim hais tias qhov no tseem ceeb teeb meem ntawm kev ua lag luam. Koj tuaj yeem yuav tsum tau tshem tawm cov khoom siv mus ib ntus, uas yuav cuam tshuam rau koj cov nyiaj txiag.
- Nws kuj tshwm sim rau hauv kev npau suav koj pom tus me nyuam uas tuag lawm. Qhov no tsis yog ib qho zoo kos npe, uas qhia tias qhov kev npau suav lub neej tsis pib zoo heev. Nws yog tsim nyog los muab cov dej num ua dej num los yog cov kev tshab tshiab, vim lawv yuav raug ua tsis tiav ua ntej.
- Yog tias koj sim pub tus menyuam tuag rau hauv kev npau suav, ces koj yuav tsum muaj kev lav phib xaub rau koj qhov kev nyiag nyiaj. Yog hais tias koj yuav tau tsuas yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab tsis txhob ua haujlwm rau cov khoom siv khoom kim heev thiab kev lom zem ua si, ces koj yuav muaj kev vam meej kom tsis txhob muaj nyiaj tag nrho.
Cov poj niam, zoo li cov quavntsej ntau dua, ua rau lawv xav tau kev npau suav thiab ua rau lawv cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj teebmeem. Tab sis, raws li koj pom, tsis muaj qhov tshwj xeeb tsis zoo txog kev tuag ntawm cov me nyuam los yog tus me nyuam, yog tias nws raug txhais kom raug thiab suav tag nrho cov ntsiab lus thiab cov ntsiab lus. Thiab cov poj niam nyob rau hauv ib txoj hauj lwm nthuav dav, thiab feem ntau yuav tsum coj zoo dua qub thiab tsis ua siab zoo rau txoj kev tsis sib haum xeeb.