Nws ua tib zoo xav txog nws qhov chaw nyob, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv cov menyuam yaus. Cia peb txhua tus nco ntsoov peb tus menyuam thaum yau, nws zoo li cas? Ua li cas rau xyoo no?
"Vim li cas cov me nyuam xav tias lawv tsis nyiam? "Yog ib qho qub qub uas koj paub zoo. Yog tias koj tau nyeem ib qho ntawm peb cov khoom ua ntej, ces koj yuav tsum paub tias txhua tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab ntawm cov laus, lawv txoj kev hlub thiab kev kho mob. Cov me nyuam, vim yog lawv cov me nyuam hluas, tseem tsis tau paub lub neej, tsis txhob to taub tias muaj teeb meem ntau npaum li cas. Lub neej zoo li lawv ib tug fairy taleas nrog kev zoo siab xaus. Tab sis nws tsim nyog nws rau txim rau kuv tus tub los yog tus ntxhais ua txhaum, tsa nws lub suab me ntsis thiab ... Dab tsi? Cov me nyuam xav hais tias lawv tsis nyiam. Yog vim li cas? Yog vim li cas thiaj li xav tias qhov kev xav mob heev ntawm lub ntiaj teb ib puag ncig peb. Txhua tus neeg tau ntsib teeb meem zoo li nws lub neej. Muaj tseeb koj xav txog nws. Cia peb sim paub seb vim li cas rau cov kev xav phem no.
Muaj ntau ntau yam rau qhov no. Piv txwv: txij thaum tseem yog me nyuam yaus, me nyuam yaus yog nyob puag ncig los ntawm kev tu thiab saib xyuas ntawm leej niam, txiv, pog thiab yawg. Nws tsis tso txhua yam. Tag nrho nws cov whims yog instantly tiav. Lub me nyuam tau siv los ua txoj kev ntawm lub neej, nws tiav niam txiv txoj cai, nyob rau hauv lwm txoj kev thiab tsis tau! Qhov no yog qhov kev nkag siab ntawm cov menyuam yaus qhov tseeb ntawm txoj kev hlub los yog kev pom zoo tias lawv nyiam.
Thiab mam li nco dheev muaj cov kev hloov mus rau ... Kindergarten. Tsev kawm ntawv. Cov luag hauj lwm, kev cai siab. Tej zaum, tsis muaj ib tug neeg twg uas nyiam ua raws li qhov xav tau ntawm lwm tus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws yog siv rau lwm lub neej. Txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm cov me nyuam. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog rau cov neeg laus los ua kom pom tseeb, paub meej tias, thaum me nyuam pib xav tias qhov no yog kev pom zoo tias lawv tsis nyiam. Niam ua rau kuv ua kuv cov ntawv ua tom tsev, nws tsis nyiam kuv. Cov niam txiv thuam rau cov qhab nia phem - lawv tsis nyiam kuv. Ntxiv - ntau. Koj tsis tuaj yeem mus pw nrog koj cov phooj ywg - lawv tsis nyiam nws. Tsis txhob muab nyiaj pocket - tsis txhob nyiam. Thiab yog li ntawd.
Cia peb xav txog, piv txwv tias, qhov teeb meem no, thaum ib tug me nyuam los ntawm thawj hnub ntawm nws lub neej yog siv rau txoj kev qhuab qhia nruj heev, loj hlob thiab mloog lus, ua tiav txhua yam ntawm nws niam txiv thiab cov laus. Nws yog to taub tias thaum xub thawj nws zoo li nws qub. Nws tsuas tsis xav txog lub neej txawv, lwm yam kev sib raug zoo. Nws tau siv rau txoj cai: tus neeg laus lo lus yog txoj cai. Nws mob siab kawm, pab cov laus hauv tsev neeg, saib tom qab nws tus nus yau thiab tus muam, mus tom khw. Thaum thov thawj zaug, nws ua tiav tag nrho cov kev thov ntawm niam txiv. Nws yuav zoo li tias txhua yam yog ib txwm, nws yuav tsum yog li ntawd nws yeej yuav. Tab sis, ntxov los sis tom qab ntawd, tus me nyuam yuav pom, pom txoj kev sib raug zoo hauv lwm tsev neeg. Kawm txog lub neej ntawm lwm cov me nyuam. Cov menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm los sib piv, xav, txheeb xyuas, tab sis ua raws li txoj kev xav. Lawv tuaj txog qhov xaus. Tias lawv yog vim li cas rau tus cwj pwm no rau lawv. Lawv tsis nyiam li ntawd. Lawv tsis nyiam lawv. Cov me nyuam pib ntseeg tias lawv ua tej yam tsis yog. Yog tias cov niam txiv txwv tsis zoo rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ces cov me nyuam pib ntseeg tias lawv ruam. Yog tias leej niam tsis qhia kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas, nws yog vim lawv (cov me nyuam) phem, ugly. Cov menyuam yaus tab tom nrhiav ua rau lawv tus kheej. Thiab lawv muaj ib lub teb. Lawv paub tseeb tias lawv tsis nyiam.
Tej zaum cov qauv no yog me ntsis exaggerated, tab sis, hmoov tsis, nyob rau hauv peb lub neej lawv tsis yooj yim dua. Kuv xav tias koj tau ntsib cov tsev neeg zoo sib xws thiab koj paub tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txog teeb meem. Qhov no tuaj yeem tshwm sim hauv kev sib txawv. Hauv qee tsev neeg, cov me nyuam khiav tawm hauv tsev, pib hlob, tsis muaj kev tswj hwm ntawm niam txiv. Feem ntau cov neeg tua tus kheej, uas, tseeg, yog qhov feem ntau qhov kev xav thiab kev tsis ncaj ncees ntawm qhov kev kawm no.
Kuv yuav ua li cas? Paub thiab zaum ntawm cov lus nug ntau tshaj plaws. Qhov tseeb tiag, vim li cas cov menyuam ho xav li ntawd thiab cov niam txiv yeej tsis nyiam me nyuam yaus? Thiab qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb yog tias cov neeg laus tsis nco qab txog qhov tseeb tias peb cov me nyuam yog peb cov kev sib txuas, nws yog ib feem ntawm peb kev nrhiav nyiaj, hauv chaw ua hauj lwm thiab kev ntxhov siab, hauv kev ua haujlwm hauv tsev thiab niaj hnub ua haujlwm, teeb meem ntawm tus kheej thiab nrhiav tus kheej , tsuas yog me me xwb. Thiab yog tias peb coj lawv mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no, ces peb tsuas yog yuav tsum ua txhua yam uas nyob ntawm peb, kom lawv paub zoo nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no. Pab lawv to taub txoj kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov neeg. Peb lub neej yav tom ntej nyob ntawm peb xwb. Leej twg, yog hais tias tsis yog cov niam txiv, yuav pab cov me nyuam yoog raws li nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb neeg laus, npaj lawv rau lub neej. Thiab koj yuav tsum pib nrog ib qho yooj yim. Nrog thawj tus me nyuam nws yuav tsum hais tias koj hlub lawv. Tig lawv hla lub taub hau, khawm thiab hnia dua, cov me nyuam yuav tsum xav tias koj qhov sov so ua ke thiab lub cev. Lawv tsuas yog yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias txhua lub sijhawm, thaum muaj teeb meem, lawv yuav tsis muaj teebmeem ib leeg, lawv yuav tsum paub tseeb - lawv niam lawv txiv yuav tsum pab, nws yuav pab lawv tas li. Lawv yuav pab, qhia kom sai, qhia tawm, paub qhov teeb meem tsis zoo. Lawv yuav tsis qw, lawv yuav tsis liam txhua yam, tab sis ua ke lawv yuav to taub qhov nyuaj. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias lawv niam lawv txiv txoj kev xav ntawm lawv cov menyuam. Yog tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thiab koj tsuas xav tau ib tug neeg uas mloog, to taub, tau hais lus, txhawb, txhawb, ces koj yuav tsum ua txhua yam kom koj cov me nyuam paub tias thawj tus neeg uas ntseeg siab yog thawj tus neeg los qhia txhua yam, thawj tus neeg ib tug neeg to taub thiab pab txhua yam kom to taub - nws yog niam thiab txiv, tsev neeg. Qee lub sij hawm peb tsis pom tias peb cov menyuam nyob rau qee hnub nyoog tsis sib koom nrog lawv cov lus, tsis txhob tham txog lawv cov kev ntshai thiab kev xav, thiab qee zaus peb tsuas txhuam lawv, hais tias koj muaj teeb meem nyob rau ntawd, peb muaj cov khoom txaus, nrog lawv paub nws. Thiab qhov no yog qhov pib ntawm qhov teeb meem. Cov me nyuam tab tom nrhiav rau cov neeg uas to taub lawv, mloog, txhawb, sim, qhia tawm ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb. Leej twg paub leej twg koj tus me nyuam yuav pom. Xav txog nws. Sim tsis txhob muab lub sijhawm rau koj ntawm lub neej kom loj hlob ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag, tuaj yeem tiv thaiv hauv lub cua daj cua dub lub neej, muaj peev xwm paub meej txog txhua yam uas tshwm sim ib puag ncig.