Ib lub tsev loj muaj peev xwm los ua ib qho chaw uas ib tug menyuam poob nws lub siab nyiam. Tawm? Ua kav khw! Hysteria ntawm lub txee - rau qee cov niam txiv qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem tiag. Yog vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim rau peb cov me nyuam, nws puas ua tau kom tsis txhob muaj tus cwj pwm phem thiab yuav ua li cas rau cov xwm txheej zoo li no? Yog li, tus vagaries ntawm tus me nyuam thiab txoj kev kov yeej lawv - nws yuav tsum paub los ntawm txhua tus niam.
Zoo siab sau
Yog koj tsis tuaj yeem tawm hauv tus menyuam hauv tsev thiab koj yuav tsum nqa nrog koj mus rau hauv lub tsev muag khoom, nco ntsoov tias tus menyuam mos yog nyob rau hauv cov dab zoo: tag nrho, zoo so thiab tsis heev overexcited. Tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam yog ib qho zoo. Qhia rau kuv seb koj yuav mus yuav dab tsi, tab sis tsis txhob muab tso rau hauv cov ntawv tsis txaus siab: "Peb tsis yuav khoom qab zib los yog khoom ua si hnub no." Cov menyuam yeej txawj ntse txaus kom tuaj txog cov tswv yim ntawm lawv tus kheej.
Sib tham nrog tus me nyuam ua ntej nws xav tau dab tsi. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum pom ua ntej nws lub hom phiaj ntawm kev mus rau tom khw, ib yam li koj. Nco ntsoov tias cov menyuam tsis nyiam mus yuav khoom ntev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias lawv yuam kev zaum hauv lub laub thiab tsis muaj lub sijhawm los cuam tshuam rau cov laus. Tuaj koom nrog qhov kev pom zoo, hais tias los ntawm cov menyuam muaj npe tau npaj koj yuav npaj yuav, thiab dab tsi - tsis muaj. Tsis txhob hais tias: "Kuv mam li yuav koj qhov no, yog tias koj tsis qw." Qhov no yuav tsuas ua rau cov me nyuam tsis muaj zog. Tsis txhob "yuav" nws tus cwj pwm zoo, txwv tsis pub nws yuav tau siv rau qhov tseeb tias nws muaj nqi.
Yog tias koj tus me nyuam twb npaj tau scenes hauv khw muag khoom noj, nco ntsoov tias koj yuav mus tom khw mus yuav khoom hauv daim ntawv teev npe ntawm niam. Ceeb toom tias yog nws yuav quaj, ces koj yuav tau tawm hauv lub khw tsis muas.
Txhua yam, siv txoj kev zoo. Piv txwv, ua ntej tawm hauv tsev, hais tias: "Koj yuav pab kuv nrhiav khoom thiab muab tso rau hauv lub tsheb." Tsis txhob hais tias: "Koj khiav tsis tau ntawm lub khw, thiab tsis txhob kov dab tsi!"
Ua ib daim ntawv yuav khoom. Qhov no yuav ua rau koj xav kom sai li sai tau, thiab tus me nyuam yuav tsis muaj sij hawm kom nkees. Ua ib daim ntawv teev npe rau tus me nyuam. Yog tias nws tsis paub nyeem li cas, daim ntawv yuav ua tau duab. Piv txwv li, kos ob pob ntawv cov nplej zom, ib lub thawv kua txiv, ib pob cookies, thiab lwm yam. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tau tshem ntawm tej teeb meem, thiab tus tub ntxhais hluas yuav paub zoo thiab kawm tau ntau. Qhov no yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj rau menyuam yaus lub siab.
Thawb lub tsheb!
Hauv khw, nco ntsoov tias tus me nyuam zoo nkaus li xis, nws cia li tawm ntawm nws lub tsev los yog tej yam zoo nkauj. Nug tus menyuam kom tau tswv yim, piv txwv li cov ncuav qab zib xaiv los yog qhov twg tig lub laub. Yog tias koj tsuas xav ua lag luam, thiab tsis txhob them nyiaj rau lub pob zeb, tus me nyuam yuav hnov nws thiab qhia nws qhov kev tawm tsam. Yog li, qiv ib yam dab tsi nrog cov tes thiab lub taub hau ntawm tus me nyuam.
Cov menyuam yaus uas pab thawb lub nraub qaum, nqa lub thawv uas nyiam cov ncuav qab zib, suav cov kua mis nyeem qaub, xaiv ob qho tib si, tsis muaj lub sij hawm thiab tsis muaj lub siab xav ua. Zoo li ib tug me nyuam yaus uas rub ib lub taub hau me me pem taub hau nws thiab nws cov khoom siv rau ntawm tus kheej sau.
Hauv qev nyiaj ntawm lub rooj nyiaj txiag tus me nyuam tuaj yeem pab koj tso cov khoom ntawm daim kab xev, thiab yog tias nws tseem tsis tau nyob hauv nws lub hwj chim, qiv nws nrog qee yam khoom ua si. Qhov kawg ntawm qhov kev ntsug tsis nco qab qhuas tus menyuam kom coj tus cwj pwm zoo.
Kev ntsuas huab
Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv kev tiv thaiv ntawm tus me nyuam, thiab txoj kev kov yeej lawv tsis ua hauj lwm? Tus me nyuam puas tau qw quaj qw thiab quaj? Txiav twj ywm, tsis txhob sov txog qhov teeb meem no. Sim ua kom cuam tshuam tus me nyuam, hloov nws lub luag haujlwm kom zoo: "Saib, zoo li cas txiv ntseej, cia peb xaiv qhov loj tshaj plaws." Yog tias tus me nyuam tau raged thiab tsis paub txog koj cov lus, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom tawm hauv lub khw tsis muaj khw. Ob ntawm koj yuav poob siab, tab sis lwm lub sij hawm, thaum koj tuaj rau ntawm lub khw, qhov kev qhia yuav tas rau hauv cov me nyuam nco. Los ntawm txoj kev, ua ntej koj mus rau hauv lub tsev lag luam, koj tuaj yeem "cob qhia" hauv ib lub khw me me ze lub tsev.