Cia peb ua tus qhev. Nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov niam txiv, tus me nyuam tau txais ntau yam kev qhia, tab sis feem ntau lawv tsis situational, thiab tsuas yog paub tseeb tom qab xyoo. Cov niam txiv muab txhua yam - tab sis cov me nyuam pib siv nws los ze zog mus rau 30 xyoo ciam, thaum, raws li tau hais nyob hauv qhov paub zoo tshaj plaws, "nws yog tsim nyog yuav tau mloog kuv niam."
Tib lub sij hawm, txawm tias qhov tseeb ntawm tus qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm, kev cai thiab kev ntseeg feem ntau yog los ntawm tsev neeg, raug pom los ntawm cov neeg tseem ceeb, cov tub ntxhais hluas tseem muaj kev txhawb nqa. Feem ntau, cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas txawm yog cov xibfwb qhia ntawv zoo dua lawv niam lawv txiv vim lawv cov menyuam kawm ntawv, vim lawv tsis sib haum xeeb thiab sib cav sib ceg, lawv tau mob siab ntau dua.
- Lawv tsis yuam ua haujlwm
Tsis muaj leej niam leej txiv yuav tsis ua lim hiam txog kev thov thiab xav tau ntawm lawv tus me nyuam, ua phooj ywg. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv hnub kawm ntawv peb tau txais kev mob siab tshaj plaws, tiam sis qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua neej. Lawv yuav tuaj ua ke ntau tshaj ib zaug.
Thawj thawj zaug uas tus me nyuam tau ntsib nrog qhov tseeb tias ib tug neeg tsis tshuav nqi nws, txawm tias nyob hauv kindergarten. Tab sis lub hnub nyoog no yuav suav hais tias yog hnub nyoog ntawm tsis nco qab lawm. Thiab tag nrho kev sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg uas tsis yog lub luag haujlwm yuav tsum mloog, nkag siab, uas nws txoj haujlwm yuav tsum ua kom tiav - pib ntawm tsev kawm ntawv.
Cov phooj ywg hauv tsev kawm ntawv hauv qhov kev npaj no yog qhov tseeb cov xibfwb qhia ntawv zoo tshaj plaws rau tus menyuam, dua li cov niam txiv, vim hais tias lawv yog neeg siab phem thiab tsis xav tias yuav tsum tau ua. Kev ua phooj ywg thiab kev saib xyuas, kev saib xyuas thiab kev ntxub - tag nrho cov no sweeps hauv cov cua daj cua dub ntawm cov cwj pwm txawv thiab zoo li nyob rau hauv qee yam kaleidoscope ntawm ntau yam xwm txheej.
- Lawv sib luag
Kev sib txuas lus ntawm kev ncaj ncees, thiab tsis nrog cov laus uas tseem ceeb dua thiab tseem ceeb - qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv lub hnub nyoog kawm ntawv. Niam txiv yog menyuam yaus, tab sis "yuav tsum". Yuav tsum ua cov ntawv kawm, nqa cov khoom pov tseg, pab nrog tsev ua haujlwm, mus xyuas cov ntawv pov thawj thiab ua lub siab zoo. Nrog leej twg los ua si lwm tus cwj pwm, xav tias koj tus kheej nyob nrog rau?
Cov viv ncaus thiab cov kwv tij tsis tshua muaj npe lossis menyuam ntxaib, yog li ntawd nws hloov tawm tias tag nrho cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv txawv mob. Koj muaj hnub nyoog - muab tso rau hauv. Koj yau yau - mloog lus. Thiab nrog leej twg yog nws muaj kev ruaj ntseg rau pokomandovat thiab tau txais ib qho kev pom zoo tseeb? Cov xib fwb zoo dua cov niam txiv, nrog lawv cov phooj ywg tsev kawm ntawv - nws muaj kev ruaj ntseg rau lawv kom tau txais kev tsis pom zoo lossis hnov qhov lawv tsis qhia qhov tseeb nyob rau hauv ob lub qhov muag. Tej zaum tom qab qhov tseeb no, txawm ua rau kev sib ntaus los yog pokonkurirovat. Thiab qhov no muaj feem xyuam nrog kev qhia thib peb ntawm tsev kawm ntawv cov phooj ywg - kev sib raug zoo.
- Lawv pab kev sib raug zoo
Yuav ua li cas nrhiav tau koj qhov chaw nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb, yog tias ib txhia saib koj saum toj no (niam txiv thiab cov xib fwb), thiab lwm tus - hauv qab no (yau cov kwv tij thiab muam)? Yuav ua li cas to taub dab tsi koj muaj nqis, dab tsi yog nyog? Brave los yog cowardly, tham lossis loj uas ntsiag to? Yuav ua li cas lwv rau cov txwv - cov tub hluas zoo nkauj, npaj txav hnoos, lossis cov menyuam ntxhais uas saib tag nrho cov neeg nyob hauv qhov qub?
Tag nrho cov no yog los ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv ib puag ncig thiab kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus - tib cov menyuam kawm ntawv. Ah, cov vevxais no tawm hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv - nrog lub siab thiab kev siab phem lawv rov qab nco txog tom qab xyoo! Thiab tseem ceeb, kev muaj peev xwm los tiv thaiv ib tus neeg nyiam, sib tw thiab yeej (los yog kawm poob), txawm nyob hauv ib tus ntxhais qhov chaw, kawm ua haujlwm - tag nrho cov no tuaj yeem pom hauv tsev kawm ntawv xwb.
Ib tug nco ntawm tar nyob rau hauv ib lub thoob ntawm zib mu
Muaj ntau tus neeg tau to taub tias vim li cas cov menyuam kawm ntawv yog cov xibfwb qhia ntawv zoo, thiab tseem muaj lub siab phem rau cov niam txiv, lawv tsis paub txoj kev hlub tshua. Yog li ntawd, nws tseem ceeb heev uas tsis tas tso koj tus me nyuam rau hauv lub sij hawm - kom nws muaj lub cib fim kom to taub lwm tus thiab paub nws tus kheej, nws cov kev xav tau thiab cov ciam teb. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau saib xyuas tias qhov kev tu plaub ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv no tsis tuaj yeem ua ntau yam ntxiv. Yog hais tias xws li "kev cob qhia" ua rau kev tsim txom, ua tsov ua rog; Yog tias tus me nyuam ntshai tsam nws mus kawm ntawv, yog hais tias nws yog thab plaub - ces nws yog hais txog qhov "yeeb ncuab" loj tshaj qhov xav tau. Thiab ntawm qhov point (los yog zoo dua - tsawg kawg me ntsis ua ntej), yuav tsum muaj leej niam thiab leej txiv tom ntej. Kev tiv thaiv qhov kev txaus siab ntawm tus me nyuam, kom paub cov ciam teb ntawm kev tso cai tsis yooj yim li nws zoo li.
Xa ib tug tub los yog ntxhais mus kawm ntawv thiab xav tias "nws (nws) teb lawv", yam tsawg kawg, nws yog dag. Cov xib fwb tsis mus ntawm lub siab zoo ntawm tus ntsuj plig thiab lub siab xav ua kom lub ntiaj teb zoo dua. Lub tsev kawm ntawv muaj kev txhoj puab heev, txaus ntshai thiab ntxim siab heev. Thiab tib lub sij hawm - thiab lawv cov me nyuam. Nws yog los ntawm lawv tias nws tsim nyog tiv thaiv lawv tus menyuam rau lawv niam lawv txiv.