Koj tus menyuam loj hlob thiab xav kom muaj lwm yam. Thiab koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb tias los ntawm kev pom zoo nrog qhov no, koj poob kev thaj yeeb thiab tswj kav. Kuv yuav ua li cas? Kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov hluas tsis yog lub ntsiab lus yooj yim, tab sis psychologists qhia kom tsis txhob muaj lub sij hawm no kom muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb. Hauv qab no yog cov tswv yim tseem ceeb ntawm cov xwm txheej.
Teeb Meem 1. Nyob ntawm lub qhov rooj rau nws chav tsis ntev dhau los dai ib daim ntawv hais tias: "Thov khob." Nws pib kaw nws rooj tub rau khoom nrog ib qhov tseem ceeb - nws tsis txawm cia nws kov nws. Rau lo lus nug "Koj muaj dab tsi?" Cov lus teb tias nws tsis muaj kuv cov lag luam. Tsis ntev los no nws tau thuam thaum kuv qhib nws lub tsev kawm ntawv lub hnab ev ntawv (kuv xav muab nws tso rau hauv ntawv, uas tshawb xyuas). Kuv tus tub tau pib qw hais tias kuv tsis muaj cai kov nws tej khoom, tias qhov no yog nws qhov chaw thiab nws lub neej. Yog nws theej thaum ntxov - thaum 13 xyoos? Kuv yuav ua li cas rau cov kev tawm tsam no thiab kuv yuav ua li cas?
Tswv yim ntawm cov kws tshwj xeeb:
Kev paub txog txoj cai tsis pub leej twg paub nws tus tub, koj ua kom tseeb tias koj hwm nws. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, "tus neeg sib txig sib luag" yog tsim los ntawm niam txiv thiab cov me nyuam hluas. Cov me nyuam tsis xav mloog cov neeg dig muag. Yog tias koj xav tau ib yam dab tsi ntawm lawv, pov thawj rau koj qhov kev thov. Yog tias koj nyiam ua dab tsi - tsis txhob hais lus teb. Koj tus me nyuam tau loj hlob thiab xav ua kom tau qhov ywj siab, nws xav tau ib qho chaw uas cov neeg laus tsis muaj. Qhov kev khawb hauv nws cov khoom yog tsis muaj kev hwm rau tus me nyuam, ua txhaum nws txoj cai rau tus kheej. Tsis tas li xwb, nws tsuas yog ua rau kev sib ceg, tus me nyuam yuav nyob ze ntawm koj thiab koj txoj kev sib raug zoo yuav yog qhov nyuaj rau koj tsim. Tab sis qhov no tsis txhais tau hais tias lub neej ntawm ib tug tub ntxhais hluas tus menyuam yuav tsum tswj tsis tau. Muaj qee zaum thaum cov niam txiv xav tau kev cuam tshuam rau lub sij hawm - piv txwv, thaum koj xav tias tus me nyuam siv cov tshuaj. Tab sis txawm tom qab ntawd yooj yim interrogation thiab soj ntsuam yuav tsis pab - koj yuav tsum tau tus me nyuam txoj kev ntseeg, koj yuav tsum tau mus nrog nws. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav qhia nws secrets rau koj, raws li nws yog qhov nyuaj heev rau cov tub ntxhais hluas kom cov khoom zoo li no hauv lawv tus kheej. Hauv qib no nws hloov tawm tias qhov kev ywj pheej tsim nyog uas koj muab rau tus me nyuam - qhov kev sib txuas lus ntxiv nws yuav yog rau koj. Nws yuav cia siab rau koj, hwm koj, nws yuav tsis xav kom secrets los ntawm koj. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog tseem tseem me nyuam thiab xav tau tswv yim, kev taw qhia thiab kev txhawb nqa. Muab nws txoj kev ywj pheej - thiab tswj kev ua haujlwm.
Qhov teeb meem 2. Txij li yav tas los, kuv tau nyob ze nrog kuv tus ntxhais. Nws ib txwm nyiam chatting nrog kuv, cia siab rau tag nrho nws secrets. Peb tau tham ntev ntev txog tsev kawm ntawv, hais txog nws cov phooj ywg, txog cov xib fwb ... Hmoov tsis, qhov teeb meem hloov, vim hais tias 6 lub hlis dhau los tus ntxhais tau ntsib ib tug tub thiab, zoo li, nws nyiam nrog nws. Kuv tsis tau hais dab tsi phem txog nws - nws yog ib tug tub zoo, qab ntxiag nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov respects. Txij li thaum nws nyob hauv peb koog chaw, kuv pom lawv nrog kuv tus ntxhais txhua hnub. Tab sis qhov no tsis qhia kuv dab tsi. Thaum lawv nyob hauv tsev, lawv txawm kawm lossis saib TV. Txawm li cas los xij, kuv tsis muaj lub tswv yim dab tsi lawv ua ke ua ke sab nraum lub tsev - ib tug ntxhais ntawm 15 xyoo, thaum lub hnub nyoog no txhua yam tshwm sim. Kuv sim nug kuv tus ntxhais cov lus nug, tiam sis nws tsuas yog ua nws tus kheej xwb thiab tsis hais dab tsi. Kuv tsuas paub tias lawv yog hnia, tab sis dheev txhua yam twb tau ploj mus ntxiv!! Kuv sim ua raws li qhov teeb meem no zoo dua qub, vim kuv tsis xav kom kuv tus ntxhais rhuav tshem nws txoj sia.
Tswv yim ntawm cov kws tshwj xeeb:
Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau tsis xav nrog lawv niam lawv txiv tham txog lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog kev sib deev thiab lawv txoj kev hlub thawj zaug. Qhib thiab hais lus ntawm lwm cov ncauj lus, lawv yuav ua raws li cov lus nug no rau lawv tus kheej. Daim ntawv no yuav tsum tau txais los ntawm koj. Tsis txhob yuam kom koj cov me nyuam tso siab rau koj nrog kev sib luag, vim qhov no yuav ua rau cov nyhuv txawv. Nws yog to taub hais tias koj xav paub ntau li ntau tau txog koj tus ntxhais lub neej sib luag, thiaj li tiv thaiv nws ntawm kev pheej hmoo cev tsis tab seeb. Tab sis koj nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no yuav tsum muaj tswv yim, txawj xav thiab coj los xav txog qhov tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam yog ib tug tub hluas loj hlob. Koj tus ntxhais yuav tsum tau ua ntej txhua yam hnov ntawm koj qhov tseem ceeb hauv qhov kev txuas thiab yog vim li cas. Cov hluas hluas no, txawm hais tias kub, feem ntau tsis ruaj tsis khov, yog li koj yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus ntxhais qhov essence ntawm kev sib deev raws li kev hlub. Lub ntsiab lus pib rau cov lus piav qhia no yuav tsum yog lawv tus kheej kev paub, lub tswv yim ntawm cov neeg hwm leej twg uas tus me nyuam paub thiab respects. Koj tus ntxhais yuav xav tau kev txhawb nqa thiab paub tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog nws lub neej yav tom ntej. Nco ntsoov tham ncaj nraim txog kev tiv thaiv kev tiv thaiv! Ua ncaj ncees thiab qhib - koj tus me nyuam yuav qhia tawm hauv koj lub siab dawb paug. Cov menyuam yaus thaum tseem muaj hnub nyoog tseem ceeb heev kom paub tias lawv tuaj yeem suav koj cov nyiaj pab thiab cov tswv yim.
Qhov teeb meem 3. Kuv tus ntxhais tau xyaum nyob hauv Internet, thiab nws tsuas yog 12 xyoos xwb! Tom qab tsev kawm ntawv, nws khiav mus rau hauv lub computer thiab zaum tom qab nws mus txog rau yav tsaus ntuj. Nws nyuam qhuav tswj tau nws mus zaum rau qhov kev kawm. Tab sis txawm nyob ntawm no nws rushes rau lub computer txhua txhua feeb dawb xa lwm cov lus los yog teb nws. Nws muaj nws tus kheej chav, Kuv tsis pom nws pom dab tsi tiag tiag ntawm qhov screen los yog nws hu rau hauv Internet. Kuv, ntawm chav kawm, qhia nws tias nws yuav tsum tau ceev faj, vim nws muaj peev xwm khiav mus rau hauv ib co pedophile. Tab sis kuv xav tias tus ntxhais tau coj nws tiag. Kuv txwv tsis pub nws nkag mus rau cov nplooj ntawv hais txog kev sib daj sib deev - nws tej zaum yuav thuam lwm tus duab liab qab lossis duab. Kuv nyob rau quandary vim tias, ntawm qhov one tes, Kuv tsis xav ua tus saib xyuas ntawm kuv tus ntxhais, thiab ntawm lwm tus, Kuv tsis ntseeg nws kiag li. Nws tshwm sim rau nws tias nws tsis rov qab los ntawm nws cov phooj ywg thaum lub sij hawm teem tseg, tab sis kuv kawm txog qhov kev ntsuam xyuas tsis zoo hauv tsev kawm ntawv tsuas yog los ntawm peb tog. Tej zaum kuv yuav tsum pib tswj kuv tus ntxhais ntau dua kom nws tsis zaum ntev heev hauv lub computer thiab tsis tsim teeb meem ntxiv?
Tswv yim ntawm cov kws tshwj xeeb:
Txawm hais tias lub ntiaj teb virtual yog fascinating, tsis tsuas yog rau cov me nyuam, tab sis kuj rau cov neeg laus - qhov kev pheej hmoo uas cov tub ntxhais hluas tau raug yog prohibitive. Hauv Internet yog ib lub ntiaj teb uas txhua tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm ntsib tau leej twg, los ntawm lwm tus neeg lub zog thiab pom tej yam uas tsis haum nws lub hnub nyoog. Koj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj tus menyuam hauv lub ntiaj teb li cas thiab nws txoj kev tshwj xeeb rau cov neeg laus? Tswj koj tus ntxhais. Thiab ntawm no nws tsis yog txog tib neeg txoj cai los yog tus kheej qhov chaw ntawm tus me nyuam - txhua yam yog qhov loj dua tuaj ntawm no. Qhia rau koj tus ntxhais tias koj yuav saib cov keeb kwm ntawm qhov chaw uas nws mus xyuas. Piav qhov mos mos no, tab sis xav hais tias: "Kuv tsis xav kom leej twg ua kom koj raug mob, yog li ntawd koj lub neej tsis yog yuav tsum tsis pub leejtwg paub." Koj tuaj yeem tsim kho tus niam txiv qhov chaws xauv khes hauv ib lub tshuab computer, uas yog ib feem ntawm cov tsev kawm ntawv yuav raug txwv rau kev saib tsis muaj tus password tshwj xeeb. Qhia meej rau cov chaw uas muaj kev nyab xeeb (piv txwv li, cov kev qhia ntawv) qhov twg tus me nyuam hluas tau txais ntau cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb. Cov kev saib xyuas no feem ntau ua rau me nyuam raug mob, tab sis nws tseem ceeb heev. Qhov no yuav tsis ua rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov hluas, thiab nrog txoj kev zoo nws yuav tsuas ntxiv dag zog rau lawv. Tus menyuam yeej xav paub txog tias koj mob siab txog nws. Nws xav pom koj txoj kev xav thiab kev saib xyuas. Thiab txawm hais tias tej zaum lawv tawm tsam - tom qab ntawd lawv lees tias lawv muaj kev ris txiaj rau lawv niam lawv txiv rau kev txheeb sij hawm thiab kev txhawb nqa kev xav.