Feem ntau ntawm cov poj niam cov neeg sawv cev yeej paub tseeb tias cov txiv neej nyob rau hauv kev sib deev muaj kev xav tau kev pab. Qhov no lub tswv yim yog erroneous. Kev ntshaw ntawm txhua tus txiv neej yog tshwj xeeb. Yog tias koj saib ntawm qhov kev pom ntawm kev xav txog kev xav, ces qhov kev xav ntawm cov txiv neej ntawm qhov kev kawm no yog nyob ntawm, nyob rau hauv ib feem, ntawm lawv lub hnub nyoog. Thiab yog li ntawd, ua li cas txiv neej xav tau kev sib deev hauv cov hnub nyoog txawv?
20-30 xyoo - lub ncov ntawm kev sib deev
Lub sij hawm no tuaj yeem hu ua lub sij hawm mus sib hais thiab yuam kev. Hauv lub hnub nyoog no, hloov cov neeg sib deev, lawv tau txais kev paub, uas ua kom muaj kev ntseeg siab thiab tus kheej ntawm tus neeg ntawd. Rau cov txiv neej ntawm lub hnub nyoog no, yees rau cov tub rog thiab qhov tsis paub tseeb. Los ntawm kev ua raws li qhov xaus uas xav kom lawv paub lawv tus kheej thiab tsim kev txaus siab rau lawv tus kheej, qhov chaw tshwj xeeb yuav tsum raug muab rau kev ua tsis ncaj ncees. Raws li kev sib deev kev sib raug zoo, ntawm no, tseem ceeb heev yog qhov tseem ceeb. Qhov no xam nrog, piv txwv, kev ua si ua si thiab txhua yam uas muaj feem nrog lawv.
Thiab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tau qhia rau koj tus khub, koj kev qhuas rau nws. Vosphischenie nws tus cwj pwm, deeds, tsos, daim duab, khaub ncaws, thiab lwm yam.
30-40- xaiv lub sijhawm
Nyob rau lub sij hawm no hauv lub neej, kev sib deev muaj ntau dua ntawm qhov tsis tseem ceeb. Hauv cov hnub nyoog no, ib tug txiv neej pib xav txog dab tsi tseem ceeb hauv nws lub neej, ntsuas cov hom phiaj thiab kev xav tau. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw, tsis muaj ib tsos, tab sis kev txawj ntse muaj peev xwm.
Yog li, nws muaj peev xwm yuav xaus lus tias cov khaub ncaws tsis yog tus yuam sij rau kev nyiam. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tus ntsuj plig, lub siab, kev muaj peev xwm los sib tham thiab mloog, ua ib tug zoo interlocutor. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug neeg ntawm xws li ib tug me nyuam hnub nyoog, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev los ua ib tug phooj ywg. Txais nws li nws yog. Hauv lub hnub nyoog no, tus neeg sawv cev ntawm qhov kev sib deev muaj zog tau txiav txim siab rau nws tus kheej qhov kev cia siab ntawm qhov chaw, thiab, tau kawg, paub tus poj niam nws xav tau dab tsi.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog to taub lub npe uas tos koj, thiab seb koj puas tuaj yeem ua raws li cov kev cai thiab kev xav tau.
Nrog rau kev sib deev lub neej, hauv lub sijhawm no twb txhais, muaj kev xav tau thiab xav tau. Yog li ntawd, tsis muaj ib qho yuav tsum tau tsim tej yam tshiab no. Nws tsuas yog tsim nyog kom paub tias qhov saj ntawm ib tug neeg hlub, nws zoo li tsis muaj, seb nws yog ib co poses los yog thawj khaub ncaws, ntawm no txhua yam yog tus kheej. Yog li, thiaj li hais rau txoj kev sib raug zoo los ua kom muaj zog, nws tseem ceeb kom tau cov yuam sij rau tus txiv neej nyob hauv txhua hom kev npaj.
Cov laus tshaj 45 xyoo
Qhov no yog hnub nyoog thaum kev nyiam poj niam txiv neej pib ploj. Yog li ntawd, rau txoj kev sib raug zoo, nws tsim nyog los tsim ib qho chaw. Siv sij hawm thiab qhov chaw kom koj tuaj yeem nyob tau ib leeg, muaj kev phooj ywg, txhawj xeeb rau qhov zoo. Tsis tas li ntawd, rau ib qho kev vam meej polovikhotnosheny yuav tsum tau soj ntsuam ib txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo, vim thaum muaj hnub nyoog no, mob khaub thuas ua rau mob khaub thuas. Yog li ntawd, ib tug poj niam yuav tsum tsim kho kev xav tau ntawm cov txiv neej nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo. Kev sib deev kev sib raug zoo kuj yuav tsum raug coj los siv rau hauv qhov laj thawj thiab qhov xwm txheej zoo li qub vim qhov no ntev vim qhov kev ua haujlwm ntev yog qhov ua kom txhua tus tib yam nkaus. Thiab kom rov qab sib raug zoo ntawm qhov no yog qee zaum nyuaj heev, yog li nws yog zoo dua tsis pub rau qhov no.
Nyob rau lub sijhawm nyoog no tsis muaj kev mob siab rau yav dhau los, yog li ntawd nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau hloov me me, uas thaum xub thawj siab zoo li tsis tseem ceeb. Nws tuaj yeem ua tau zoo nkauj, sighs, hugs, txhua yam nyob ntawm koj lub tswv yim. Xwb yuav tsum tau ntxiv ib hom "zest" thiaj li ua rau kev nkag siab ntawm kev xav.
Nws kuj tseem ceeb teev cia hais tias ib tug txiv neej tom qab 45 xyoo xav tias nws yees rau erotic kev sib raug zoo tsis zoo li qub. Tsis muaj ntau yam hauv lub tswv yim lub hlwb npaj rau qhov no, uas tuaj yeem ua rau tus yeeb yam, tus cwj pwm, kev ntshaw, ntawm no koj tuaj yeem rov qab mus rau qhov qub. Zoo sib xws, nrog rau lub hnub nyoog ntawm 20-30 xyoos nyob rau hauv relation mus rau ib tug txiv neej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau kev qhuas nws daim ntawv, tsos, nws lub zog thiab ntawm kev kawm txog kev sib deev. Txhawb txhua hom kev ntshaw ntawm koj ib nrab thiab, unforgettable coj yam tshiab.
Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias hnub nyoog tom qab 45 xyoo ntawm lub neej tsis xaus, tab sis ntawm qhov tsis sib haum, qhov no yog lub sij hawm thaum cov kev qhib tshiab qhib rau koj ua ntej, lub sijhawm qhib lub neej yav tom ntej. Seb nws yog kev mus ncig ua si, mus ncig ua si, kev ncig tebchaws. Koj tuaj yeem sim ua tej yam tshiab, ib yam dab tsi uas yuav ua rau zoo rau koj thiab koj tus txiv neej. Tsis txhob tso tseg koj tus kheej li no. Thiab tom qab ntawd koj txoj kev sib raug zoo yuav tsis ploj mus, tab sis nrog txhua xyoo tsuas yog muaj zog xwb.