Muab tag nrho cov tsev neeg tsis muaj kev lom zem rau ntau yam. Piv txwv, yog tias ob peb muaj kev sib nrauj sib nrauj, tsis muaj me nyuam thiab tsis muaj kev sib koom ua ke, ces kev sib yuav yog muab los ntawm RAGS.
Tab sis tus kws lij choj tau pom zoo txawm tias thaum muaj kev tso cai ntawm ob tog los mus sib hais los ntawm lub tsev hais plaub, yog li ntawd qhov ntawd ib nrab tsis tau hloov lawv cov ntaub ntawv raws sij hawm.
Yuav ua li cas rau ib feem? Ua ntej, txoj kev sib nrauj sib faib tau rau hauv kev sib haum xeeb thiab kev sib cav.
Qhov tseeb, hauv qhov no, lub tsev hais plaub tsuas paub txog thiab qhov tseeb ntawm qhov kev sib tawg ntawm txoj kev sib yuav. Qhov no version ntawm kev sib nrauj yog tus ceev tshaj plaws thiab "bloodless".
Hauv feem ntau, ib tus txij nkawm tau mus sib hais rau lub tsev hais plaub, thiab lwm tus tawm tsam sib nrauj. Hauv qhov no, txoj kev sib nrauj sib nrauj yog ncua sij hawm tsawg kawg peb lub hlis, txij li thaum lub tsev hais plaub muab lub sijhawm "rov qab sib kho dua". Yuav pib nrog, peb qhia koj kom nrhiav kev pab ntawm ib tus kws lij choj los yog tsawg dua tau txais tswv yim kev cai lij choj. Nws yog zoo dua yog tias cov lus hais ntawm kev thov yog sau los ntawm ib tug kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. Thiab tus pib ntawm qhov kev sib nrauj yuav tsum ua kom tiav. Lub rooj sib foob yuav tsum qhia: qhov chaw thiab lub sijhawm ntawm kev sib yuav, kev ua neej thiab tus naj npawb ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas muaj lub hnub nyoog thiab, qhov tseeb, qhov kev sib nrauj (sib cais, tsis muaj txij nkawm, thiab lwm yam).
Sau thiab kos npe rau ib daim ntawv thov rau kev sib nrauj yog vim lub tsev hais plaub ntawm qhov chaw nyob ntawm ib tus txij nkawm. Peb muab rau nws daim ntawv pov thawj sib yuav, daim ntawv pov thawj hnub yug ntawm tus menyuam thiab daim ntawv pov thawj los ntawm qhov chaw nyob, nrog rau daim ntawv hla tebchaws. Thov kev sib nrauj, koj tuaj yeem thov kev pab them nyiaj yug - qhov no koj yuav tsum xav tau daim ntawv pov thawj ntawm tus menyuam qhov chaw nyob. Tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum them tus nqi hauv lub xeev thiab cov nqi ntawm cov ntaub ntawv thiab cov kev pab txhawb ntawm rooj plaub thiab muab xa rau daim ntawv foob tau txais kev them nqi.
Tam sim no hais tias tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv rau kev sib nrauj tau sau, lawv tuaj yeem xa mus rau lub tsev hais plaub chancery thiab tom qab ntawd tos ib lub hlis thiab ib nrab ntawm cov txheej txheem, uas yuav hu koj ob leeg tuaj rau lub tsev hais plaub. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov txheej txheem poob rau hauv ntawm tus txij nkawm. Yog tias koj nyob qee lub neej, nrhiav qhov chaw nyob uas koj tus txiv tam sim no nyob. Yog tias tus txij nkawm nyob qhov twg tsis paub, daim ntawv foob yuav tsum xa tuaj rau nws qhov chaw nyob ntawm nws qhov chaw nyob los sis ntawm nws qhov chaw nyob.
Koj tus cwj pwm hauv tsev hais plaub yuav nyob ntawm seb qhov twg yog qhov ntau. Tsis txhob xav tias ntau dua koj quaj hauv lub tsev hais plaub los yog qhia qhov kev ua txhaum, qhov ntse tshaj koj yuav tsum sib nrauj thiab faib khoom. Tus kws lij choj ua haujlwm nrog cov pov thawj tseeb, thiab koj tus cwj pwm ntau dhau tsuas ua tau ntau yam teeb meem. Nws txawm muaj txoj cai los suav lawv tias yog ib qho kev sim rau "kev tshaj tawm" hauv lub tsev hais plaub. Qhov tseeb tiag, poj niam tsis tshua muaj cuab kav yuav nyob twj ywm thaum lub sij hawm txoj hmoo ntawm nws cov me nyuam los yog tsev apartment txiav txim siab. Thiab tsis tau, yog tias txoj kev sib nrauj yog sib luag, thiab koj ntshai tsam tsis muaj kev xav nrog tus cwj pwm, ces tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm ib tus kws lij choj koj ua tsis tau.
Yuav ua li cas yog tias tus txiv tsis tuaj rau ntawm lub rooj sib hais? Lub tsev hais plaub tuaj yeem txiav txim siab txog koj rooj plaub yog tias tus txiv tsis tau txais lus ceeb toom los yog hais rau lub tsev hais plaub ib qho laj thawj uas nws tsis tuaj yeem tshwm sim. Yog tias nws tau txais ib tsab ntawv ceeb toom, tab sis nws tsis tshwm sim thiab tsis qhia tawm cov laj thawj rau nws tsis tuaj, ces lub tsev hais plaub muaj cai xav txog qhov teeb meem tsis muaj nws.
Daim ntawv cog lus sib yuav
Hollywood txawj ntse hais tias: "Koj yuav tsum vwm kom yuav tsis muaj kev sib cog lus sib yuav." Peb, ntawm chav kawm, tsis nyob rau hauv Hollywood, tab sis nyob rau hauv peb lub teb chaws paub kws lij choj tawm tswv yim ua ntej sib yuav kom xaus ib tug sib cog lus daim ntawv cog lus. Qhov kev sib nrauj sib nrauj yuav tau txo kom tsawg kawg nkaus. Qhov no yog ib qho kev pom zoo ntawm txoj kev faib khoom. Cov kws lij choj pom zoo rau daim ntawv ntawm daim ntawv, uas koj tuaj yeem tsim tau tus tswv ntawm cov tswv cuab thiab rau lub sijhawm sib yuav, thiab thaum muaj kev sib nrauj. Yog tias, piv txwv li, tus poj niam tsis tau ua hauj lwm thaum sib yuav, tab sis tau koom nrog tu vaj tse, ces tom qab kev sib nrauj nws yuav pom nws tus kheej nyob rau quandary. Yuav kom tsis txhob muaj qhov no, koj tuaj yeem muaj xws li hauv daim ntawv cog lus xws li ib yam khoom: "Thaum muaj kev sib nrauj, cov cuab yeej hauv qab no nkag mus rau tus tswv ntawm tus poj niam: chav tsev, khoom siv, hniav nyiaj hniav kub."