Dab tsi yog cov me nyuam ntshai?
Cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yog ntau yam. Rau qhov ntawd. yog li ntawd tus me nyuam pib muaj kev ntshai kev ntxhov siab, koj xav tau lub zog nrawm, ua txhaum cai. Feem ntau nws yog niam txiv quarrels, scary movies los yog cartoons, khoom txawv, nrov nrov, thiab qee zaus cov lus tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm cov laus. Cov dab neeg txheeb npe txog Babayka los ua kom muaj ntau yam kev ntshai ntawm ntau cov me nyuam.
Tsis tas li ntawd, cov me nyuam zoo siab tias lawv niam lawv txiv lub siab nyiam. Yog tias cov neeg laus ntshai los ntawm ib yam dab tsi, ces tus mob no kis rau tus me nyuam. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom nyob twj ywm nrog me nyuam yaus.
Cov me nyuam yaus hnub nyoog zov me nyuam yuav muaj kev ntshai txog kev mob thiab kev ntshai nrog kev mus xyuas tsev kho mob, kev ntshai ntawm cov cim thaij duab. Yog li ntawd, thaum nyeem ntawv fairy tales rau tus me nyuam, nws muaj nqis muag soft image ntawm heroes.
Cov menyuam loj hlob tuaj ntshai tsam muaj teeb meem loj dua. Piv txwv li, cov me nyuam uas muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv, paub lawv tus kheej hauv lub neej thiab kev tuag ntawm cov niam txiv. Lawv pib txhawj xeeb tias lawv muaj peev xwm tuag dheev los yog tsis tau hlub. Tej zaum cov kev ntshai yuav ntes lawv tag nrho.
Cov me nyuam loj dua ntshai tsam tsis nyiam nws, lawv ntshai kev ua yuam kev thiab kev rau txim, kev rau txim thiab kev poob. Cov kev ntshai lawv twb zoo ib yam li cov laus txoj kev xav.
Txhaum me nyuam rau kev ntshai yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb. Qhov no tsuas yog ua kom muaj qhov xwm txheej ntxiv xwb. Tus me nyuam yuav kaw. Thiab rau nws thawj ntshai yuav ntxiv kev ntshai ntawm raug txim. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau deviations loj nyob rau hauv psyche, neurosis thiab enuresis.
Yuav ua li cas nrog kev ntshai?
Ua ntej koj yuav tsum paub qhov txawv ntawm qhov kev ntshai thiab kev phobias. Phobias yog obsessions uas tsis tawm hauv tus menyuam. Cov kev ntshai ntawm kev ncaj ncees tshwm sim txij li ib ntus mus rau lub sijhawm thiab dhau mus sai sai.
Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog kom tshem tawm ntawm tus me nyuam pom tej yam uas ua rau nws ntshai, piav qhia rau nws tias nws lub neej thiab kev noj qab haus huv tsis raug tsim txom, los ua pov thawj rau txhua txoj kev. Tsis txhob sim radical kom tshem kev ntshai, piv txwv li, yog tias tus me nyuam ntshai ntawm qhov tsaus ntuj, koj yuav tsis xauv nws hauv chav tsaus ntuj. Qhov no yuav tsis txo kev ntshai kom tsis muaj, tab sis tsuas yog ntxiv dag zog rau nws los yog ua rau muaj kev siab phem. Nco ntsoov tias koj tus kheej yog menyuam yaus, qhov tseeb, koj ntshai ntawm ib yam dab tsi. Yog li, tsis txhob ua rau me nyuam yaus li koj tsis xav kom kho. Txoj cai golden no ua haujlwm zoo kawg li.
Npaj ib qho chaw ntsiag to hauv tsev neeg. Tshem tawm txhua yam kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab kev quarrels, tu tus me nyuam ntawm kev ntxhov siab. Nyeem rau nws cov ntawv uas tsis txhob ntshai tus me nyuam, tsis txhob cia saib cov yeeb yaj kiab uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntshai. Thiab sim tham ntau li ntau tau nrog tus me nyuam txog dab tsi uas nws txhawj xeeb rau nws. Cias tus menyuam, tab sis txhob zais qhov tseeb. Piv txwv, yog hais tias tus me nyuam ntshai tias koj yuav qee zaus tuag, tsis cog lus tias nws yuav tsis muaj qhov no. Qhia rau kuv tias koj tab tom sim ua txhua yam los ua qhov no tshwm sim sai li sai tau, tom qab ntau, ntau xyoo. Tus me nyuam tsis yooj yim xav txog tej lub ntu ntawd, hais, 50 los sis 100 xyoo, yog li qhov kev piav no txaus siab heev.
Yog tias qhov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai tsis dhau, ces koj yuav tsum tau nrog ib tug kws kho mob tham txog kev pab tswv yim thiab kev pab. Qhov no yuav pab daws koj qhov teeb meem kom sai dua thiab tshem tau cov kev tshwm sim. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog to taub hais tias kev ntshai thaum yau hnub nyoog muaj qhov tsis zoo kiag li. Kev hloov los ntawm cov qauv, lawv tsuas yog ua tau yog tias lawv cuam tshuam nrog lub neej qub, tab sis qhov teeb meem no tam sim no yuav daws tau sai thiab zoo.