Cov khoom ntawm tsev neeg keeb kwm ntawm peb lub neej

Phau Vajlugkub hais tias: "Cov niam txiv tau noj txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntsuab, thiab cov menyuam tau hnav ua lawv cov hniav." Thiab qhov no txhais tau hais tias tsis yog txhais hais tias yog vim li cas yog tias koj rov kho cov keeb kwm ntawm koj tsev neeg thiab sau cov tsiaj ntawv ntxaws ntxoo nrog cov hnub thiab cov xwm txheej tseem ceeb, koj tuaj yeem teeb rau ntau ntawm koj cov teeb meem thiab tsis yog yuav tsum to taub, tab sis kom tshem tau lawv!

Fabkis cov kws kho mob Anne Anselin Schutzenberger pib nrog nws tus kheej, tshuaj xyuas cov xwm txheej rov qab tshwm sim hauv nws tsev neeg (kev tuag ntawm ib tug me nyuam yaus). Yog li ntawd, nws tau qhib ib txoj kev tshiab ntawm kev kho tus mob hlwb thiab tsim ib qho kev tshawb fawb txog kev tshawb fawb txog kev yau - kev xav txog kev ntxhov siab, ntxuav kom yoojyim rau txoj kev ntxhov siab ntxhov siab thiab kev poob siab feem ntau tsev neeg dhau los.

Tsev Neeg Kev Txhim Kho
Peb txhua tus tuaj thaum yau los. Thiab qhov zoo nkauj tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv peb, thiab kev raug mob hnyav, feem ntau yog los ntawm muaj. Cov me nyuam tsis xaiv lawv niam lawv txiv los yog qhov teeb meem uas lawv loj hlob tuaj. Thiab tag nrho cov khoom thauj ntawm nws hom, tag nrho cov "qub txeeg qub teg" ntawm leej niam thiab leej txiv, pog thiab yawg, pog thiab yawg koob ces nqa lawv lub xub pwg nyom. Tab sis tsis muaj tsev neeg tsis muaj teeb meem! Yav dhau los ua tsov ua rog, kev sib cav sib ceg, kev sib cais sib ceg, kev pov hwm ntawm txhua tus neeg - txhua yam no hnyav hnyav rau peb, xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv. Ntau tsev neeg keeb kwm tau ploj mus nyob rau hauv ntau pua xyoo, lwm yam tseeb yog txhob txwm nkaum - thiab ces tawg mus rau hauv qhov chaw nrog peb cov kev ntshai thiab kev ntxhov siab, kev tsis xwm yeem ...

Nqa tsawg kawg "tsev neeg accounting" - ib qho kev tsis tuaj yeem ua haujlwm ntawm kev sib txheeb ntawm kwv tij neej tsa. Peb txhua tus muaj kev ncaj ncees rau tsev neeg. Twb tau qhov tseeb tias peb cov niam txiv tau tsa peb, siv lawv lub zog, tso peb rau ib qho kev vam khom: muaj ib qho nqi uas yuav tsum tau xa rov qab. Tab sis nws hloov, hauv tsev neeg txaus, cov nuj nqi raug muab los ntawm cov saw: niam txiv - rau peb, peb - ​​rau peb cov me nyuam, thiab cov neeg - rau peb cov xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv. Txawm li cas los xij, ntau leej txiv thiab leej niam khaws lawv cov me nyuam nrog lawv, ua rau lawv xav tias kev txhaum. "Kuv txi ntau npaum li cas rau koj!" Qhov no ua rau cov xwm txheej: tus ntxhais tsis nyiam nws tsev neeg lub neej vim nws saib xyuas nws niam nws txiv; Tus tub tsis yuav txiv mus thov nws niam ... Manipulation! Tsev neeg accounting system yog ib qho nyuaj kawg nkaus. Cov txheeb ze tuaj yeem thov tau hais tias koj them cov nqi ntawm cov neeg dhau los - thiab koj twv tsis tau. Tib lub sij hawm, muaj kev xav hais tias koj tab tom siv. Tab sis yog tias koj to taub qhov twg "txhais ceg loj tuaj" los ntawm, koj tuaj yeem kos tus kab tsis pom ntawm qhov tam sim no thiab yav dhau los.

Ib qho piv txwv ntawm lub neej
Varya thiab Lena yog ob tug kwv tij txheeb ze. Varya nyob hauv lub nroog, thiab Lena - nyob hauv ib lub nroog me me. Nws xa nws tus tub mus kawm hauv Moscow thiab npaj mus nyob nrog Varya. Txawm hais tias qhov ib thiab lub tsev loj, tab sis nws tsis xis nyob uas lub tsev yog ib tus neeg laus: Vary muaj ob tug ntxhais, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem txwv. Ua hauj lwm nrog ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsoog yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev: thaum lub sij hawm ua tsov ua rog, pog Vari nyob hauv nws tsev neeg tus muam-thiab-vim-nws-tus-tus-law-thiab tsuas yog vim li no, nws tau dim. Tus viv ncaus no yog Lena tus pog raws nraim. Yog li, hauv Lenin lub tsev neeg muaj ib txoj kev ntseeg ruaj khov tias Varina tsev neeg yog "them" rau lawv.

Skeletons nyob hauv lub txee dai khaub ncaws
Lawv muaj txhua tsev neeg. Cov lus tseeb uas lawv nyiam kom nyob twj ywm: Cov menyuam tsis raug cai thiab tsev lojcuj yav dhau los, thuam thiab ua phem rau yus tua ... "Tus neeg tuag tsis pom, tab sis lawv tsis tuaj yeem" - cov lus hais ntawm Blessed Augustine no muaj tseeb rau hauv qhov no.

Kev paub tsis meej ntawm tsev neeg muaj kev ywj pheej ntawm peb lub neej! Nws tuaj yeem txiav txim siab xaiv cov chav kawm, cov haujlwm ua haujlwm, thaum uas tseem tshuav qiv rau peb tus kheej. Raws li yog ib yam hauv peb ua rau peb xaiv txoj haujlwm no, tus txiv neej no (txawm tias qhov tseeb peb xav rau lwm tus!). Qhov no tshwm sim li cas? Cov kws kho mob tshwj xeeb hauv daim teb no qhia tias cov lus qhia uas raug txwv tsis pub hnov ​​los ntawm leej niam mus rau tus menyuam mos. Thiab tus neeg nyob, zoo li ib tug crypt, nyob rau hauv uas yog ib tug "dab" nyob rau ntawm no. Nws xav tias nws tsis nyob nws lub neej, tab sis nws tsis nkag siab dab tsi yog lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem.

Ib qho piv txwv ntawm lub neej
Galina - qhov kev xav ntawm kev txhawj xeeb rau menyuam yaus. Cov teeb meem me me ua rau muaj tshuaj tua kab mob. Ib tug poj niam to taub txhua tus stupidity ntawm xws li tus cwj pwm, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi yuav ua txog nws. Mam li nco dheev nws pom tias nws niam tau muaj ib tug kwv yau uas tau tuag thaum muaj rau xyoo puag thaum yau. Thiab rau pog, thiab rau nws niam ua qhov xwm txheej. Nws meej meej qhov twg qhov kev ntxhov siab tsis ntseeg los ntawm.

Anniversary Syndrome
Yog tias koj qhia koj cov kab mob genosociogram - daim ntawv cog lus nrog cov npe, cov xwm txheej tseem ceeb thiab keeb kwm (tsis yog yug thiab tuag xwb, tab sis kuj sib yuav, nkag mus rau kev kawm qib siab, yug me nyuam, muaj mob, muaj teeb meem), ces yuav muaj ntau yam kev sib thooj. Piv txwv li, nws yuav qhia tau tias txhua yam tseem ceeb hauv tsev neeg raug khi rau qee lub sijhawm ntawm xyoo (ua ntej Easter, tom qab Christmas) los sis ib tug xov tooj, hais, 12. Los yog nws yuav pom tau tias tus tub, txiv thiab yawg muaj lub neej nce mus raws li qhov zoo sib xws scenario: thawj sib yuav tom qab lub chaw - yug ntawm ib tug ntxhais - kev sib nrauj - ob txoj kev sib yuav ... Cov coincidences yog hu ua "hnub tseem ceeb hnub". Lawv tau piav qhia los ntawm kev tshuaj ntsuam genetic memory, tsis muaj dab tsi xav ua kom khi lawv lub neej rau zaj dab neeg ntawm ib tug neeg txheeb ze uas yog ib txoj cai. Qhov tsis nco qab tias muaj zog uas qee cov tib neeg xav tias lawv yog "kos los ntawm ib qho pom tsis muaj zog" rau hnub no los ua qee qhov kev ua.

Lub meejmom ntawm lub hnub tseem ceeb tuaj yeem paub nws tus kheej rau hauv cov xwm txheej muaj kev lom zem: kev yug menyuam, kev txais khoom plig, kev tiv thaiv ntawm kev thesis. Tiam sis peb feem ntau siv tej yam zoo li no: rau ntawm no, kuv ua ib qho piv txwv los ntawm cov yawg! Thaum ib tug neeg tau hais tias nws ntog mus rau hauv lub log uas yuav rov qab ntxiv rau nws lub siab nyiam, nws yeej sim xav paub tias yuav ua li cas txwv. Thiab kev rov txhim kho ntawm tsev neeg yav dhau los muab sijhawm rau kev vam meej.

Nyob rau hauv tib txoj kev, thaj, tsev neeg thiab "kev yug menyuam" ua rau tsev neeg. Cov nyhuv ntawm lo lus muaj zog, hais ntawm lub siab tshaj plaws ntawm tus cwj pwm (author head) (head of the genus), ua rau rov qab ua rau cov xwm txheej muaj kev txhawj xeeb precisely vim hais tias nws unconsciously pushes neeg rau tej yam ua. Tus txiv neej "yuav tsum tau" paub txog kev foom phem - thiab nws ua nws txawm tawm tsam nws lub siab nyiam!

Ib qho piv txwv ntawm lub neej
Tanya ntshai ntawm hnub tim 10 Lub Kaum Hli. Thaum nws muaj 15 xyoos, nws tau raug mob thaum nws tabtom kawm, vim nws tsis txawj ua ntxiv rau gymnastics. Nyob rau hnub no, kev sib nrauj pib nrog nws tus txiv. Lub Kaum Hli 7, Tanya yog nyob rau hauv kev sib tsoo. Tom qab tsim qhov genosociogram, nws hloov tawm tias Lub Kaum Ib Hlis 7, Tanya lub pog koob yawg koob, tus uas nws zoo li, tuag. "Yog tias koj ntseeg tias hnav ib lub kaus mom pem taub hau koj yuav pab tau cov rho npe, nws yuav. Tshaj ntawd, qhov kev cia siab ntawm kev tsis ua hauj lwm ntawm "fateful day" provokes nws, "psychologist Tanin piav qhia txog kev ruaj khov rau lub Kaum Hlis 7.

Hunting rau secrets
Sim ua kom koj qhov kev xeeb tub. Yog koj ua qhov no, koj yuav kawm tau cov secrets uas tsis pub leejtwg paub dhau ntawm tiam dhau los, qhia qhov koj ua thiab, qhov tseem ceeb, hloov koj lub neej. Tom qab qhov kev txheeb ntawm cov kev sib txuas thiab lawv cov "seev suab" yuav tswj lawv! Koj tuaj yeem tsim ib qhov project ntawm koj tus kheej lub neej ntawm koj tus kheej lub siab nyiam, thiab tsis nyob rau ntawm txoj kev xav ntawm cov neeg txheeb ze ntev.

Pib qhov twg? Los ntawm cov dab neeg ntawm niam thiab txiv, pog / yawg. Sau lawv cov lus tim khawv thiab tom qab ntawd ntsuas. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, ua kom zoo dua qub rau yav dhau los mus rau lub xya cuaj leej ntawm pawg neeg, tab sis xws li ib txoj hauj lwm yog feem ntau unbearable. Nyob hauv kev qhia meej txog lub neej ntawm nws tsev neeg, txhua yam tseem ceeb yuav pab tau: pov thawj ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg zej zog, cov rooj sib tham thiab sib tham nrog cov txheeb ze, tsis muaj ntawv pov thawj, cov phau ntawv teev ntuj, mus ncig xyuas cov teb chaws ntawm cov poj koob yawm txwv. Cov ntsiab lus zais cia nkaum hauv txhua yam khoom me me: cov ntawv, cov ntawv sau, kos npe hauv qab yees duab. Kos ib tsob ntoo ntsej muag thiab ua kom tiav txhua yam tseem ceeb, thiab muab piv nrog rau tam sim no, nrog cov teeb meem uas koj thiab koj cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau nrog. Ntseeg kuv, qhov kev daws yog nyob ze!