Kuv yuav ua li cas?
Ua ntej, cov menyuam yaus raug tshawb los ntawm kev tshawb nrhiav qhov yooj yim: ntawm no kuv muaj ib rab ntsom, nov yog lub qhov ncauj, tab sis ntawm no dab tsi? Thib ob, thaum lub hnub nyoog no nws tuaj yeem ua kom tau ib qhov kev txiav txim siab banal - nyob rau hauv cov menyuam yaus sai sai yog muaj kev sib kho rau lub sij hawm zoo siab thiab tsis kaj siab. Nws yog txaus kom tso tus me nyuam rau hauv ib lub thawv txias ib zaug, yog li ntawd tus me nyuam yuav tsis mus rau lub lauj kaub no. Tib yam tshwm sim thaum tus me nyuam kov cov qoob loo thiab qhov sib txuam nrog qhov tseeb uas yog vim li cas nws thiaj li zoo siab. Piv txwv li, nws tau txais kev zoo siab, luag ntxhi, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws chim siab. Thaum muaj kev lom zem los ntawm qhov kev ua no, tus me nyuam hauv lwm qhov kev kuaj xyuas - thiab thaum twg lwm tus nws tuaj yeem ua haujlwm tau? Tus menyuam muaj qhov kev lees ua kom tiav, tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.
Yuav kom tiv nrog lub cwj pwm, qee qhov kev txwv tsis pub muaj kev txaus ntshai. Nws yog qhov yooj yim dua thiab tsim nyog kom hloov ib tus cuj pwm nrog lwm tus, zoo dua. Yog tias cov niam txiv lossis cov kws qhia ntawv tau pom tias tus menyuam kov cov poj niam, koj yuav tau hloov tus me nyuam mus ua si, rau qee cov chav kawm. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, thaum muaj hnub nyoog kev sib tw, tsis txhob hais "Tsis txhob kov! ". Thiab koj yuav tsum tau hais, piv txwv tias, "Mloog, cia peb mus nrog koj thiab peb mam li pleev xim" (hu rau pog, so plua plav, hnav ib qho hnav ris tsho, thiab lwm yam).
Peb yuav tsum tau paub qhov txawv txav. Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus stroke qhov genitals thaum lawv tau tu siab, npau taws los yog nkees, ua ntej yuav mus pw. Peb yuav tsum tau saib seb tus menyuam txoj kev pw tsaug zog zoo li cas thiab seb lub sij hawm tom qab raug txim dhau los. Piv txwv li, niam ua rau me nyuam yaus, coj nws mus rau hauv kaum tsev, thiab ntawm no nws ua nws tus kheej zoo li no - kuv tau cem, peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov txog qhov no, kom nplij siab. Saib seb qhov no tshwm sim, thaum twg thiab nyob li cas. Ntawm no qhov teeb meem yog nyob rau hauv kev ua hauj lwm thiab. Yog tias niam tso ob los yog peb qho khoom ua si rau tus me nyuam, thiab nws mus tham ntawm lub xov tooj rau ib teev thiab ib nrab, tus me nyuam kawm txog khoom ua si thiab tig mus rau tus hlub.
Kindergarten
Raws li rau qhov teeb meem nrog rau kindergarten, kuj muaj kev tsis txaus siab. Tus me nyuam tsis pw thaum nruab hnub, thiab nws muaj nws tus kheej nrog rau ib yam dab tsi. Koj tuaj yeem txiav hlais li ib xuab moos ntawm ib teev, hais tias, ua ntej sawv ntxov, tus me nyuam yuav nrawm nrawm thiab siv pw tsaug zog thaum nruab hnub. Yog tias qhov no tsis ua haujlwm thiab muaj sijhawm los coj tus menyuam mus pw, nqa nws, yam tsawg mus ib ntus (so mus ncig xyuas, kos ib pog). Yog tias tsis muaj lub sijhawm li no, nws zoo dua yog tias tus xibfwb pom zoo tsis pub ib tug menyuam tsaug zog, tabsis muab sijhawm rau nws ua si hauv siav. Muaj ob qho kev xaiv ntawm no: xws li npaj ib hnub kom zoo, los yog tsis pub nruab hnub thaum pw tsaug zog hauv lub sijhawm nyoog no. Raws li txoj cai, nannies nyob rau hauv kindergartens unknowingly tighten qhov teeb meem no los ntawm attracting rau nws. Txhua yam kev nthuav qhia rau cov niam txiv nyob rau hauv xws li ib txoj kev uas lawv tau ntshai, lawv pib ua raws li tus me nyuam hnub thiab hmo ntuj.
Thiab tom qab tag nrho, raws li kev soj ntsuam ntawm psychologists, lub sij hawm no yog kiag li tag nrho cov me nyuam. Tsuas yog cov menyuam yaus uas to taub tias vim li no nws thiaj li tau txais qee yam khoom plig, so kom txaus thiab siv ib ntus thaum siv no kom txog thaum tsis muaj hloov. Uas yog, sai li sai tau thaum muaj kev ua si, kev sib txuas lus nrog phooj ywg, kev sib txuas lus nrog cov niam txiv, nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas ntawm kev sib deev kabmob yog tsis tsim nyog lawm. Thiab qhov cwj pwm no sai sai.
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev xaiv yog mus sab laj ib tug kws kho mob kev nyuab siab kws kho mob. Qee zaum qhov no yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov organic (muaj ib co pathology ntawm cev xeeb tub, yug menyuam). Feem ntau, thaum yau masturbation muaj tshwm sim hauv cov menyuam uas muaj qhov sib txawv ntawm cov organic raug mob rau lub hlwb. Qhov no tsuas yog txiav txim siab los ntawm ib tug kws kho mob hlwb nrog lub hlwb lub hlwb thiab lwm yam kev tshawb fawb. Thiab txawm tias yog li no, tus me nyuam tuaj yeem ua tau thiab yuav tsum tau hloov, qhia, yuav ua li cas yuav so, ua si, yuav ua li cas muaj kev lom zem. Tam sim no koj paub tias yuav ua li cas yog tias tus me nyuam kov cov qau.