Nws twb paub lawm taug kev, tab sis qhov teeb meem yog, nws tseem tsis tau kawm los hais lus. Tiam sis kev coj txawv txawv nws zoo nkauj, tab sis thaum lub sij hawm no niam txiv txhawj txog lawv tus me nyuam ntau dua lwm tus, vim tias nws nyuaj rau kev ua neej, paub tias tus me nyuam, twb tau 2 hnub, poob qab ntawm tus txheej txheem. Niam yog txhawj txog qhov no. Tab sis nws yog txhua yam hauv vain, ntxov los sis tom qab tus me nyuam yuav hais lus, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias nws yuav tsum tsis muaj kev tsis sib haum. Thiab, yog hais tias nws yog li ntawd, muaj feem tseem yog qhov tsawg tshaj plaws - kom muaj siab ntev.
Peb tham txog seb tus me nyuam pib tham nrog me ntsis. Cas nws pushes nws ntawm nws? Nws puas to taub qhov nws tau hais rau thawj zaug? Cov no yog cov lus nug yooj yim, cov lus teb uas tsis paub ntau. Yog li ntawd, cia peb pib ua li ntawd. Tus me nyuam, thaum pib, yuav yuam kev rau dictaphone. Peb paub tseeb tias koj tau pom thiab tuav lub dictaphone. Qhov no yog ib qho cuab yeej uas khaws cov ntaub ntawv khaws cia yam tsis xav txog nws sau. Koj nias lub pob - tus ntaus ntawv pib sau, thiab thaum twg nws yuav tsim nyog ua si nws - nws yuav yooj yim ua nws. Tab sis peb tsis nco qab tias qhov no tsuas yog ntaus ntawv xwb. Muaj twb ntsia lub microphone thiab hais lus, microchips thiab lwm yam ntsiab lus. Ua ke, tag nrho cov no tuaj yeem ua haujlwm tam sim ntawd. Tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab tias qhov no yog ib qho khoom siv xwb. Nws pib ua ntaub ntawv thiab muab tsim tawm. Muaj tsis muaj teeb meem txhua, vim hais tias cov dictaphones yog yooj yim heev.
Tam sim no cia wb tham me ntsis txog tus neeg lub peev xwm los tham. Saib, thaum twg ib tug neeg hais, nws txo nws txoj lus rau hauv txoj cai, ces cia cov pa nrog ib qho ceev. Los ntawm kev ua cov yeeb yam no, thiab hloov cov di ncauj nrog kev taw, ib tug neeg ua suab nrov, sib txuas nrog, peb tau txais lo lus. Tsis yog phem, puas yog?
Qhov no yog txhua yam, zoo, tiam sis peb tsis nco qab txog ib qho tseem ceeb: tus me nyuam tsis yog ntaus ntawv, thaum yug nws tsis tau txais "firmware" (tej yam lus qhia uas nws yuav siv los hais lus) thiab tsis pib hais nws tus kheej. "Phem" nws tseem tsis muaj, thiab tsis muaj leej twg muab tau rau nws. Tab sis tom qab tag nrho, tsis muaj leej twg forbids nws los tsim ib tug tshiab "firmware" ntawm nws tus kheej. Nov yog qhov tseeb.
Tus me nyuam, saib cov laus, mloog cov lus lawv hais, nco cov suab nrov thiab pib sim hais lus lawv, muab cov lus hauv lwm txoj hauj lwm. Ntawd yog, nws thawj zaug kawm lub suab, ces mam li rov los sib haum rau lawv cov lus. Nws feem ntau tsis tau txais nws tam sim ntawd. Yog tias peb tham ntev thiab tho txawv, peb yuav to taub tias tus menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem kawm sai sai, thiab muaj ntau yam rau qhov no.
Lo lus nug "Yuav ua li cas pab tus me nyuam tham? "Muaj ntau leej niam txaus siab. Tab sis lawv tsis to taub tias lawv yuav tsis hnov cov lus teb thaum lawv tab tom nrhiav lo lus teb rau lo lus nug no. Vim li cas? Nws yooj yim. Tus me nyuam yuav tsis kawm sai dua, txawm tias nug. Tom qab tag nrho, nws tsis yog 15 xyoo tseem. Nws tsis tu thaum nws pib hais lus. Tab sis kuv niam - tsis tau. Niam ntshai, nws tsis paub yog tias nws tus me nyuam yuav txawj hais lus, txawm nws tab tom kawm tam sim no.
Yog li, Niam, koj paub. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam hnov, ces nws sim hais lus.
Thiab tam sim no, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, cia li mus rau ib qho kev tshawb nrhiav ntau ntawm qhov teeb meem no. Dab tsi ua rau cov niam txiv feem ntau ua kom me nyuam tham? Lawv tham nrog nws. Qhov no, hauv txoj cai, yeej muaj tseeb. Tus me nyuam yuav pom tseeb li cas koj txav koj daim di ncauj, nws yuav hnov koj zoo. Tab sis tsis tau khwb ntawm tus me nyuam nws tus kheej, nws yuav tsis yog qhov tseeb. Ua qhov kev sib tham hauv chav kawm ntawm kev sib tham rau tus me nyuam, zoo li nws twb paub hais tias kev hais lus, nug koj, thiab lwm yam.
Koj yuav tsum paub tias muaj ob txoj kev los xyaum hais lus: passive thiab active. Passive yog kev nkag siab ntawm kev hais lus, thiab nquag hais lus. Raws li nws yog tam sim ntawd meej, passive hais lus tsim sai npaum li cas. Twb tau nyob rau hauv 10-12 lub hlis tus me nyuam to taub tias qhov kev sib tham yog li cas. Paub cov npe ntawm cov khoom, tab sis tsis tau hais, alas. Tsis txhob ceeb yog tias tus me nyuam tsis hais lus ntev txog li ob xyoos. Nws to taub txhua yam, txhob txhawj. Nws lub sijhawm yuav los, thiab.
Thiab lub sijhawm no tuaj yeem tshwm sim heev, uas yog, tus menyuam txawj hais lus nrawm thaum tsis muaj leej twg xav tau nws. Thiab qhov no yog qhov ncaj ncees thiab nkag siab. Xav txog: tsuas yog ob xyoos xwb koj nco qab cov lus, tab sis tsis muaj peev xwm hais dab tsi. Thiab ces ... thaum kawg, hnub no los! Thiab koj pib qhia txhua yam koj xav tau 2 xyoos. Ntawd yog, koj tus menyuam thaum nws muaj hnub nyoog peb hauv kev loj hlob tuaj yeem cuam tshuam cov me nyuam uas tau kawm ntxov dhau los, vim tias tsis muaj dab tsi txhawj txog.
Tam sim no saib ntawm txoj hauv kev los pab tus menyuam.
Nws yuav tsum to taub tias thaum tus me nyuam hais lus ib qho ntawm niam txiv txoj kev thov, nws tsis txhais hais tias nws hais nws tus kheej. Nws cia li rov qab tom qab koj, qhov ntawd yog txhua yam. Tiam sis thaum nws paub txog kev hais lus, nws yuav hais meej thiab to taub meej meej tias nws hais li cas.
Tau, nws yog tseeb, tsis muaj cov laus, ib tug me nyuam kawm tsis tau hais lus,
Tib lub sijhawm, nws yog pom tseeb tias thawj lo lus tshwm sim hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog ib tus neeg laus xwb. Tiam sis kev sib txuas lus ntawm ib tus neeg laus thiab ib tus menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem txo qhov yooj yim kom luam suab tau. Lo lus yog thawj zaug thiab foremost ib qho cim uas qhia txog lub npe ntawm ib qho khoom. Ntawd yog, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau qhia tias qhov kev sib tham yog li cas, txwv tsis pub nws yuav tsis to taub qhov kev sib tham yog li cas. Piv txwv, koj tuaj yeem ua si nrog menyuam mos thiab cov khoom ua si. Zoo thiab sib txuas lus, ib txhij. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav to taub qhov kev sib tham yog li cas. Cov khoom ua si yuav dhau los ua khoom rau kev sib txuas lus. Koj yuav tsum ua si ua ke, tsis yog ib leeg xwb. Yog tias nws ua nws tus kheej, ces nws yuav tsis tau thov ib tus neeg los pab. Yog tias nws nug, koj yuav tsum tau pab tus me nyuam.
Zoo, ntawm no peb tau soj ntsuam cov yam ntxwv ntawm kev qhia me nyuam kev sib tham. Raws li koj tau pom, tsis muaj dab tsi nyuab rau hauv no. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog sib txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm muaj kev ua yeeb yam, ua tib zoo saib xyuas nws, tiam sis tsis yog tshaj. Ua li no, thiab koj tus me nyuam yuav hais lus.