Yuav ua li cas ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag yuav tsum ua

Nws xav kom zoo li muaj zog.

Nws cov style: ib tug txiv neej tiag. Thiab ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag yuav ua li cas? Nws tsis tau hais txog nws cov teebmeem, tawm ntawm cov nqe lus hais tias "Txhua yam yog tswjhwm." Tab sis nws nug txog koj tej teeb meem thiab categorically declares tias txhua yam yuav tsum tsau. Nws tus kheej. Thiab ces nws sau zaj dab neeg ntawm kov yeej cov yeeb ncuab. Dab tsi yog qhov teeb meem: Koj puas nco qab li cas thaum pib ntawm koj tus romance koj tau vwm txog kev nqa koj nyob rau hauv koj txhais tes thiab tshuab tawm unwary hmoov av hmoov? Koj xav kom nws ua li no, thiab koj tus hluas nraug tsis muaj dab tsi ua, tiam sis sawv cev rau tus txiv neej tiag tiag. Nws ntshai lees hais tias nws ua tsis tau nws - tab sis yog tias koj saib nws nrog ib tug tsis muaj zog thiab tawm?

Ib nrais muag yav tom ntej: nws tseem tswj hwm nws cov teeb meem, tab sis koj tseem tsis tau daws. Nws tshwm sim hais tias nws cov inventions tsuas yog ruam tag. Koj npau taws, thiab nws snarls, tias koj yuav tsawg kawg ua ib yam dab tsi koj tus kheej.

Lifebuoy: sim mus pw lub crown thiab hloov tus cwj pwm. Qhov tseeb yog qhov teeb meem uas twb tau txhawj txog koj, yog li maj mam piav rau tus txiv leej tub: koj xav tau (thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, koj tuaj yeem) nrog koj tus kheej teeb meem rau koj tus kheej, vim tias txwv tsis pub koj yuav hnov ​​tsis muaj zog thiab siv tsis tau, thiab nws tseem yuav nyob twj ywm ib tug txiv neej tiag. Tab sis koj yeej ib txwm zoo siab nrog nws lub tswv yim thiab kev pab. Thiab nug nws kom muaj teeb meem, vim koj hlub nws thiab xav pab. Raws li koj "hnyav" cov rog rog, koj tuaj yeem ua tau ntau heev.

Sim nrhiav kev tshwj xeeb.

Nws cov style: ib tug neeg paub txog zaj dab neeg. Nyob rau hauv kindergarten, nws tau txais kev cawmdim ntau pua tus neeg raug kaw, thiab ib xyoo dhau los nws tau pom nyob rau hauv lub club thiab hu ua dance ntawm Broadway, tab sis nws tsis kam los ntawm kev xav ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo. Ua zoo. Tab sis, qhov no yog ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag.

Yuav ua li cas yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm: lub banal insecurity nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej dua. Tus txiv leej tub ntshai hais tias nws yuav poob rau hauv keeb kwm ntawm koj lwm tus kiv cua, los yog nws xav tawm koj tus ex (ntawm chav kawm, nws yog lub ntiaj teb tau zus hauv karate thiab feem ntau ib tug txiv neej tiag). Rau koj paub, tus neeg pluag yog npaj txhij txua txhua yam, thiab ua txhua yam.

Saib mus rau yav tom ntej: sai dua los sis tom qab koj yuav pom tau tias tag nrho qhov no yog lus dag. Li ntawd, koj poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog ib tug txiv neej uas tsuas tsis muaj nyob? Zoo, tsis txhob ceeb yog tias nws hais goodbye tias nws dag rau koj vim hais tias ntawm ib qho hauj lwm tseem ceeb ntawm tsoom fwv.

Lifebuoy: Yog tias tus txiv leej tub no yog tus hlub heev rau koj, coj nws mus rau hauv koj txhais tes. Nws ua tsis tau zoo hais ncaj qha tias koj paub txog nws cov lus dag - raug ntes nyob rau hauv lus dag los ntawm ib tug neeg ze ze yog phem thuam. Ntau zaus nug txog cov khoom qub tshaj li qub thiab tsis txhob hnov ​​qab nws txawm nyob rau hauv trifles (tab sis txhua tus tib yam rau qhov teeb meem).

Julia Sobolevskaya , tshwj xeeb rau lub site