Koj puas ntshai ntawm txhua yam hauv lub neej? Cov neeg feem coob yuav hais tias yog, tab sis ib txhia yuav tsis paub dab tsi ntshai. Cia saib kev ntshai rau hauv peb lub qhov muag thiab sim nkag siab tias lo lus "kev ntshai" txhais li cas tiag.
Kev ntshai yog ob qho tag nrho lub cev thiab lub hlwb. Tab sis nws yog qhov zoo dua mus ntxiv thiab nug koj tus kheej tias dab tsi yog kev ntshai nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej. Koj puas xav tias kev ntshai ntshai txawm tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej los yog nws ib txwm nrog ib yam dab tsi? Thov, xyuam xim rau nws, qhov no tsis yog kev qhia lossis kev qhia, tsuas yog kev sib tham, sim xav txog lo lus no ntawm nws tus kheej. Koj kuj tuaj yeem saib nws, thiab qhov tseeb ntawm qhov no tsis hloov. Li ntawd, ceev faj thiab saib xyuas: koj puas ntshai tsam muaj kev ntshai los sis ntshai ntshai? Muaj, peb feem ntau ntshai ntawm ib yam dab tsi: poob ib yam dab tsi, tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi, ntshai yav dhau los, lub neej yav tom ntej, thiab qhov no, thiab qhov no ... Thov mus ntxiv thiab pom: peb ntshai nyob ib leeg, , peb ntshai ntshai muaj hnub nyoog, kev ploj tuag, peb ntshai ntawm tus neeg ua haujlwm phem, peb ntshai mus rau hauv txoj haujlwm qaug zog lossis ntsib kev puas tsuaj. Yog tias koj xav tau - peb tseem ntshai kev mob nkeeg thiab mob lub cev.
Koj puas paub koj tus kheej ntshai? Nws yog dab tsi? Dab tsi yog li phem heev uas peb, neeg, yog ntshai ntawm no? Vim li no, peb txhua tus xav kom muaj kev nyab xeeb, lub cev thiab lub hlwb, peb xav tau kev tiv thaiv, kev nyob ruaj khov? Thaum muaj ib yam dab tsi ua rau peb lub cev, peb cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb yog kev tiv thaiv tus kheej. Koj puas tau nug koj tus kheej txog qhov peb tiv thaiv? Thaum peb tiv thaiv peb tus kheej, cawm peb tus kheej, ntshai los yog ua haujlwm ua haujlwm?
Yog tias yog vim li cas ho ua li cas, vim li cas ho tsis ua rau peb xav ua qhov kev xav ntawm tus kheej, puas siab puas ntsws ntshai?
Vim li cas tiag tiag ua haujlwm ... "rationally." Yog li ntawd, thaum muaj kev ntshai, koj yuav tsum to taub tias koj lub hlwb raug muab tua - thiab nyob rau ntawm qhov ceeb toom. Qhov ntawd yog, tsis txhob ua siab ntev rau nws los yog txhawb nqa nws, tab sis kom pom thaum twg thiab thaum twg ntshai, tsis nrhiav kev piav qhia thiab kev tsis txaus siab yav tom ntej los yog yav dhau los.
Feem ntau cov neeg xav kom tshem tau lawv cov kev ntshai, tab sis lawv tsis muaj kev nkag siab txaus txog qhov tseeb. Cia peb saib txoj kev ntshai tuag. Cia peb sim los soj ntsuam seb qhov no txhais tau li cas rau peb tus kheej:
Qhov no yog qhov ntshai ntawm qhov tsis paub? Ntshai ntawm qhov uas peb muaj thiab peb yuav ploj mus li cas? Ntshai cov kev lomzem uas peb tsis tuaj yeem paub dua?
Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav ntau yam kev sib txawv ntawm kev piav qhia vim li cas peb paub txog kev ntshai kev tuag. Thiab tsuas yog ib qho kev piav qhia tsis zoo - qhov ntshai ntawm kev tuag nws tus kheej. Nws tsis tuaj yeem ntshai qhov koj tsis paub ... Thiab leej twg paub qhov tuag? Txawm li cas los, peb txhua tus ntshai nws, ib txoj kev los sis lwm tus.
Yog li, yog tias ib tug neeg ntshai ntawm qhov tsis paub, nws txhais tau hais tias nws twb muaj qee lub tswv yim ntawm qhov tsis paub. Yuav kom nkag siab tias kev ntshai yog dab tsi, koj yuav tsum to taub dab tsi txaus siab, qhov mob, muaj siab thiab ua li cas nws tag nrho los rau lub neej - thiab ua li cas peb ntshai poob txhua yam. Qhov ntawd yog, ntshai kev xav hauv nws tus kheej tsis muaj nyob - nws yog ib qho kev tawm tsam rau peb lub tswv yim hais tias peb tuaj yeem plam ib yam dab tsi los yog muaj ib yam dab tsi uas peb tsis nyiam. Thaum ib tug neeg to taub qhov ua rau muaj kev ntshai - nws yuav ploj mus. Thov cia li mloog, sim nkag siab, saib rau koj tus ntsujplig - koj yuav pom tias kev ntshai ua haujlwm li cas, thiab tso koj tus kheej ntawm nws.
Peb lub tswv yim rau koj: tsis txhob ntshai rau trifles los yog tsis muaj lub laj thawj zoo. Yuav kom tsis txhob ntshai, koj yuav tsum mus ntsib ib tus kws kho mob hlwb. Nws yuav tuaj yeem pab tswv yim rau koj txog txoj kev zoo tshaj rau kev tiv thaiv kev ntshai. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai tsam tom qab ob peb mus ntsib kws kho mob. Yog li ntawd tsis txhob rub, tab sis mus rau lub txais tos mus rau ib tug tshwj xeeb.