Dab tsi yog qhov idealists?
Yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej yog ib tug idealist, ces nws tsis xav tau tos rau kev ntxeev siab thiab kev ntxeev siab. Cov neeg yaus no yeej tsis cuam tshuam zoo li no li "kev hlub". Tus tub zoo siab heev ntev thiab ua tib zoo xaiv tus ntxhais rau nws tus kheej. Nws muab sib hloov rau cov tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab sib deev rau ib hmos. Xws li ib tug txiv neej tsis txaus siab nyob rau hauv no. Txhua tus phooj ywg tuaj yeem hais tias nws tsis tas yuav ua neej nyob, ua txhua yam hauv lub neej, tiam sis nws yeej yuav tsis mloog lawv cov lus, lawv cov tswv yim yeej muaj lawv qhov kev xav thiab cov hauv paus ntsiab lus, uas yog ib txwm coj, txawm tias lawv tawm tsam lub tswv yim ntawm lub zej zog. Yog li ntawd, yog tias lub idealist xaiv koj, ces nws yeej pom ib tug nrog leej twg nws xav ua neej nyob nws lub neej tag nrho. Cov tswv yim, cov ntsiab lus xws li "tsev neeg", "menyuam", "hlub", "honesty" yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev. Ib tug neeg zoo tshaj plaws sawv cev rau kev sib raug zoo xws li ntau tus ntxhais tau pom nyob rau hauv fairy tales thiab romance novels. Xws li ib tug txiv leej tub yuav yeej muab nws tus kheej tam sim ntawd. Yog tias nws hlub, ces nws yog rau lub neej. Xws li ib tug txiv neej xav nws tsev neeg tsis xav tau dab tsi, vim hais tias nws yuav tsum yog zoo meej. Nws yuav sim, ua haujlwm, tsim kev coziness. Yog hais tias nyob rau hauv nws cov tswv yim muaj kuj romance, ces xws li ib tug txiv leej tub yuav tsis tire ntawm hu nkauj ib serenade rau compose nqe. Nws xav ua txhua yam kom zoo tag nrho. Lawm, nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim zoo tshaj plaws ntawm tsev neeg thiab kev sib raug zoo, yeej tsis tau ntxeev siab. Tias yog vim li cas xws li ib tug neeg yuav tsis mus rau xws li ib tug kauj ruam. Nws yeej paub tseeb tias nws tus poj niam yog tus zoo, yog li ntawd vim li cas ho nrhiav ib tug neeg nyob rau sab. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, lub kev ntxeev siab ntawm xws li ib tug txiv neej yog humiliation, vim nws lees tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm xaiv tus ntxhais zoo tagnrho.
Idealists ntseeg tau zoo thiab kev ncaj ncees. Lawv yeej ua tiag tiag pab txhua tus. Tus txiv neej zoo li no yeej tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab vim nws tsis muaj kev tu siab thiab tu siab los ntawm nws cov txheeb ze. Lub tswv yim zoo yuav piv nrog ib tug tub rog nyob rau hauv tsov rog, uas yuav tsis dhau los ntawm tus ntxhais huabtais uas tau poob rau hauv kev nyuaj siab.Kuv yuav cawm tsis tau nws rau ib nrab lub nceeg vaj, tab sis tsuas yog vim txhua tus txiv neej yuav tsum ua. Tag nrho cov neeg zoo tshaj plaws yeej ua tsis ncaj rau lawv tus kheej tsis txhawj txog lawv tus kheej thaum lawv txhawj txog lwm tus. Thiab tsis tau, cov neeg ntseeg xav ntseeg hauv neeg. Lawv yeej sim pom tej yam zoo hauv ib tug neeg. Thiab yog tias lawv pom qhov no, lawv tuaj yeem pov thawj ua ntau yam tsis ncaj ncees rau lub sijhawm, tseem vam tias qhov zoo yuav tsum tau kov yeej kev phem. Rau qhov idealist, ntau lub neej canons thiab cov cai yog yooj yim tsis tsim nyog. Nws yuav dhau mus ua ib tug neeg "pov tseg" vim nws xav tau nws lub hom phiaj. Cov neeg xav tau zoo heev, vim lawv paub tseeb tias qhov zoo tshaj plaws, tus neeg zoo yuav tsum ncaj ncees thiab ncaj ncees. Qee lub sij hawm lawv tsis txawm paub qhov no, tab sis nyob rau hauv lub subconscious lawv muaj ideals hais tias lawv tseem sim mus phim, txawm tias lawv tus kheej tsis ntseeg nws.
Nws yog tsim nyog sau cia tias tsis yog tag nrho cov neeg xav tau npaj txhij lees tias lawv yog cov zoo li no. Ntau tus lawv ntseeg hais tias qhov tseeb lawv yog cov neeg feem coob uas tsis ntseeg hais tias cov tswv yim thiab tsis xav sib haum. Tab sis cov yeeb yam ntawm cov hais mav qhia qhov ntxeev lus. Los ntawm txoj kev, nws yog cov idealists uas yog cov ncaj ncees thiab sincere. Qhov tseeb yog qhov lawv ua kom yog thiab sim ua txhua yam rau cov tswv yim, tsis yog vim lawv xav tau nws, tab sis vim lawv mloog lawv lub siab, uas qhia kom lawv ua li ntawd.
Tus idealist yeej tsis muaj ntau tus phoojywg. Ntau dua li, thoob plaws hauv lawv lub neej lawv tabtom tawm mus rau ntau tus neeg, tab sis lawv feem ntau lawv poob siab, vim lawv tsis sib haum rau hom phiaj. Tab sis cov neeg uas thaum kawg nyob ze rau cov neeg xav tau kev zoo siab yog cov phooj ywg tiag tiag uas yuav pab lawv, yuav nco ntsoov muab lawv lub xub pwg nyom thiab tsis txhob tawm mus thaum muaj teeb meem. Nyob rau hauv lub voj voog ze ntawm idealists yog cov neeg zoo xwb. Nrog phem, cov hais mav hais goodbye ib si. Yog li, thaum koj ntsib ib tug zoo nkauj, koj yeej ib txwm nco ntsoov tias nws cheeb tsam zoo, txaus thiab nthuav. Yog li, koj yuav nco ntsoov tias koj tus hluas nkauj yuav yeej ib txwm muaj ib yam dab tsi los tham txog.
Tus cwj pwm thiab tus cwj pwm ntawm tus idealist kuj yog nyob rau theem siab. Yog li ntawd, tsis yog txhua tus neeg zoo tshaj plaws muab nws txhais tes tawm ntawm lub minibus thiab pab nrog lub tsho tiv no, tab sis txhua tus zoo nkauj yuav tsis cia nws tus kheej mus thuam ib tug poj niam laj mej pej xeem, cog lus ntawm nws qhov chaw nyob, quab yuam, thuam, sib tham nrog lwm tus neeg tsis zoo, thiab thuam. Qhov kev coj cwj pwm no tsis yog los ntawm nws lub tswv yim. Nws tsuas pub tsis tau tus cwj pwm zoo, vim hais tias nws yog thuam nws tus kheej. Cov neeg xav tau zoo heev ntawm cov poj niam thiab yeej ib txwm sim kho lawv kom zoo. Koj yuav tsis pom ib tug neeg zoo tshaj plaws uas tau npaj ib lub disassembly nrog nws tus poj niam nyob rau hauv lub xub ntiag ntawm lub tuam txhab, thiab txawm ntau li ntawd, tsa nws txhais tes rau nws.
Tab sis, raws li paub, nyob rau hauv peb lub ntiaj teb tsis muaj dab tsi zoo, yog li ntawd, ntawm no kuj muaj lawv cov pitfalls.
Cov neeg zoo li phem puas phem?
Idealists yeej ntseeg tias muaj kev hlub thiab muaj kev nkag siab zoo rau nws. Tab sis lawv xav tau tib tus cwj pwm thiab los ntawm lawv cov halves. Lub idealist yog heev ntau tu siab txawm los ntawm ib tug me flirtation. Cov neeg txhaum yuav tsis raug zam txim. Nws muaj peev xwm mus txuas ntxiv hlub tus poj niam rau tus so ntawm nws lub neej, tab sis yuav tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo ntxiv nrog nws.
Yog hais tias lub idealist poob siab nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg, ces nws yog yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua kom yeej nws ntseeg thiab hwm dua. Rau ib tug neeg nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas cov neeg nyob ib ncig yeej haum nws cov qauv. Prichemon tau ntev ntseeg hauv qhov tseeb tias nws yog. Tab sis yog hais tias ntawm ib tus taw tes nws realizes tias nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb txhua yam yog txawv, ces, feem ntau yuav, tsuas yog nres lub overlap nrog tus neeg. Yuav ua li cas ib tug idealist tsis tau zam txim rau tsis yog ib tug neeg zoo li no yuav tsis hnov qab. Nws muaj nws tus kheej teev ntawm qhov tseem ceeb thiab yam uas lwm tus pom los ua tus me nyuam tsis raug cai yog qee yam rau nws.
Cov tswv yim yeej muaj kev hwm cov poj niam heev, tab sis lawv xav tau tib tus cwj pwm rau lawv tus kheej. Yog hais tias txhaum ntawm tus txiv neej qhov tsim nyog ntawm lub idealist, ces rau nws nws ua xws li ib tug muaj zog ua txhaum uas nws tsis muaj peev xwm zam txim rau ib tug neeg rau lub xyoo los yog txawm tsis hais lus rau nws mus ib txhis. Txawm hais tias xws li ib tug thuam yog qhov tseeb ib tug dag thiab tsis muaj leej twg xav undermine nws, lub idealist tseem tsis tau muaj peev xwm zam txim rau. Nws tsuas soj ntsuam tag nrho nws tus kheej, yog li muaj ntau yam zoo li yam tsis tsim nyog rau nws.
Yog li, yog tias peb tham txog seb nws zoo los tsis zoo los ua tus idealist, ces nws tsis yooj yim sua kom tau ib lo lus teb unambiguous. Tseeb, cov neeg pom tau muaj ntau pluses, tab sis tseem muaj qhov tsis zoo. Yog li ntawd, txhua tus yuav tsum txiav txim siab rau lawv tus kheej, txawm tias nws cuam tshuam cov lus qhia los yog cov me nyuam yaus.