Yog vim li cas peb thiaj nug peb tus kheej rau lo lus nug: Puas yog nws yuav tsum qhia tus txiv neej tias nws yog tshwj xeeb? Tej zaum, qhov teeb meem yog tias peb ntshai qhia peb tus kheej ntau dhau rau tus txiv leej tub, qhib nws tus ntsuj plig thiab cease yuav tsis paub. Tab sis ib tug txiv neej xav plob hav zoov rau ib tug neeg, los daws kom tau ib yam dab tsi thiab ua rau nws tus kheej hauv lub suab nrov ntawd. Thaum peb pom tias tus tub hluas no tseem ceeb rau peb, thiab peb npaj txhij ua ntau yam, nws yuav ua rau nws tsis tso tseg nws tus poj niam. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog qhov tseeb, yog vim li cas pov tseg cov nyiaj ntxiv thiab tus cwj pwm txawv thaum tus ntxhais xav tias koj yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Yog vim li ntawd cov poj niam yuav tsum tau kawm los ntawm ib lub sijhawm rau kev tswj kev ywj pheej lawv tus kheej.
Yog li ntawd, yuav ua li cas thiaj nrhiav tau qhov kub txhais tau los qhia rau tus txiv neej hais tias koj hlub nws, tab sis tsis txhob xav txog Vajtswv thiab qhov chaw ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Yuav pib nrog, koj yuav tsum kawm kom tas li saib nws nrog txoj kev hlub thiab npaj txhij ua kom tiav tag nrho cov whims. Yog tias qhov no yog qhov teeb meem, maj mam nws yuav ua kom siv tau tias nws yuav tsis zam koj qhov kev tsis pom zoo, thiab yuav siv koj cov kev pab tam li ib yam dab tsi rau nws tus kheej. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tau qhia tsis yog tsuas yog kev hlub kev sib hlub nkaus xwb. Yog tias koj tsis nyiam dab tsi, nco ntsoov tham txog nws. Nws tsis tsim nyog quaj qw thiab tsis muaj kev txhaum rau tus tub hluas rau txhua txoj kev txhaum. Tab sis, koj tuaj yeem ua raws li koj cov lus thov thiab thov kom nws hloov nws tus cwj pwm. Nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj teeb meem li cas tus txiv leej tub tau rau koj, koj yuav tsum tau nyob twj ywm tshwj xeeb rau nws. Rau qhov no, ib qho tsis tas yuav tsum tau yooj yim attainable. Qee zaum, nws yeej tsim nyog coj zoo li tus hluas ntawd tau hais tseg: koj yog nws tus ntxhais huab tais thiab yog li ntawd xav tau cov lus zoo thiab kev tshoov siab. Txawm hais tias koj txoj kev sib raug zoo mus ntev, tsis txhob ua kom zoo thiab ua txhua yam rau kev tso cai. Nws kuj yuav tsum tau qhia thiab pom nws txoj kev xav. Nws yog ib tug txiv neej, thiab, yog li ntawd, yuav tsum ua ib yam dab tsi rau koj. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws tsis yog hais txog kim txiaj ntsig, vim nws tsis yog tus nqi, tab sis cov xim. Yog tias koj pib xav tias koj nres koj tus kheej tshwj xeeb rau tus tub hluas - coj koj tus kheej rau tes thiab tswj koj tus cwj pwm. Peb, cov poj niam, nyiam ua tej yam ntxim nyiam ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas kom lawv xis nyob, tias lawv muaj kev tshwj xeeb. Peb tsuas ua lawv nyiam cov tais diav, txawm tias peb tsis nyiam cov zaub mov, peb sim ua kom nws lub tsev zoo huv si, yog li cov khaub ncaws ntawm tus neeg txheeb ze yog cov tshiab thiab smoothed, thiaj li paub tias nws tus kheej xis nyob thiab xis. Tab sis, yog tias peb tsis hnov qhov cuam tshuam, peb yuav tsum nres tam sim ntawd kom zoo. Qhov no tsis txhais hais tias tus txiv leej tub yuav tsum mus tshaib plab thiab qias neeg. Txhua yam uas yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum tau, nws yuav tsum tau txais, tab sis yuav kom tau txais ib yam dab tsi ntxiv, tus txiv neej yog yuam ua kom muab ib yam dab tsi rov qab rau nws.
Tab sis, yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej ib txwm sim rau koj thiab ua txhua yam los ua rau koj zoo siab, nws them mloog, pleases nrog surprises, ces, ntawm chav kawm, koj tseem yuav qhia nws tias nws yog tshwj xeeb. Qhov no yuav ua li cas? Ua ntej, rau cov neeg uas tau hlub thiab cov neeg tshwj xeeb, peb tuaj yeem tsim ib yam dab tsi uas ua rau lawv zoo siab. Txhua tus neeg muaj ib co kev npau suav thiab kev ntshaw, uas lawv tsis paub txog ib qho los yog lwm qhov. Peb tuaj yeem pab lawv ua nws lossis muab ib yam dab tsi rau lawv tus kheej. Qhia tias tus neeg ntawd yog tshwj xeeb, koj muaj peev xwm muab nws ib yam dab tsi uas nws ua npau suav ntawm thiab ib zaug hais. Nkag siab tias koj pom tias nws hais dab tsi, nco ntsoov thiab ua rau nws zoo siab, txhais tau tias ntau heev. Qhov no yog dab tsi underscores nws feature nyob rau hauv koj lub qhov muag.
Tsis tas li ntawd, tus tub hluas yuav tsum qhia tias nws yog tshwj xeeb yog nws muaj teeb meem. Lawv tuaj yeem sib txawv: kev ua haujlwm, kev sib raug zoo nrog phooj ywg, sib ceg nrog kwv tij neej tsa. Tab sis, yog tias koj pom tau tias ib tug txiv leej tub tau raug ntau los ntawm tej xwm txheej, nws mob siab thiab ua phem rau nws, koj yuav tsum nyob ntawd thiab muaj peev xwm qhia tau tias nws yog tus neeg tshwj xeeb rau koj. Thaum nyob hauv lub neej muaj qee qhov tsis zoo, tus neeg xav paub txog tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias cov xwm txheej no raug txuam nrog kev sib tawm tsam hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg hlub. Thaum peb nyob hauv ib tug neeg poob siab los yog ib tug neeg poob siab rau peb, muaj kev xav tias tsis muaj leej twg hlub peb thiab tsis txaus siab rau peb. Yog li ntawd, nws tsis tshua muaj neeg tsim nyog rau txhua tus neeg xav tias nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb rau koj, tias koj hlub thiab txaus siab rau nws thiab tsis txhob cia nws nyob ib leeg nrog nws cov teeb meem. Yog li, txawm tias, vim tsis txaus siab rau tus txiv leej tub, koj txiav txim siab tsis qhia nws qee lub sij hawm, tias nws yog tshwj xeeb, nyob rau hauv xws li ib qho teeb meem nws yog zoo dua los tsis nco qab txog nws thiab txhawb nws nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev tau.
Tsis tas li, tus txiv leej tub yuav tsum qhia tias nws yog tshwj xeeb thaum tus tub hluas pib qee yam lag luam loj. Nws tuaj yeem yog qhib kev lag luam lossis sau daim ntawv kawm tiav. Nws tsis txawv qhov loj npaum li cas. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb npaum li cas tus txiv neej hluas ntawm nws thiab nws ntau npaum li cas nws txhawj txog qhov tseeb tias nws yuav tsis ua tiav. Yog hais tias koj pom tias tus txiv leej tub nws thiab nws nyuaj rau nws, ib txwm txhawb nws, hais tias nws yog tus tshaj plaws txawj ntse thiab astute, ces nws yuav ua tau zoo.
Nco ntsoov tias nws yog tshwj xeeb thiab txhua yam ua tau, vim yog tias nws tsis yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsis hlub nws heev. Sim ntxias nws hais tias nws muaj peev xwm ntawm txhua yam thiab tsis txhob cia mus. Qhov tseeb, txhua tus neeg xav tau kev tshwj xeeb hauv ib tug neeg lub qhov muag. Yog tsis muaj qhov no, nws nyuaj heev rau peb nyob, thiab peb tsis muaj kev ntseeg rau peb tus kheej. Tiam sis, yog tias ib tug neeg pheej pe hawm peb, peb tsis xav ua nws tsaug, siv nws rau qhov kev tso cai, thiab qee zaus txawm tias nws khaus nws. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob coj li ib txoj kev uas tus txiv leej tub paub tseeb tias nws yog tus qauv rau koj, thiab koj yeej yuav tsis poob siab rau nws, tsis muaj teeb meem li cas nws ua. Tiam sis, tib lub sij hawm, nws yuav tsum to taub tias nws yog ib tug neeg tshwj xeeb ntawm koj lub neej, uas koj yeej ib txwm npaj siab muab kev pab txhais tes thiab tso koj lub xub pwg, tiam sis koj yeej yuav tsis dais nws ntawm koj lub nraub qaum.