Hauv koj tsev neeg, muaj ib qho kev tshwm sim tseem ceeb. Koj xav tias hnub no tseem muaj kev zoo siab thiab thaum tib lub sij hawm me ntsis kev ntxhov siab, koj yuav tag nrho cov khoom ntxim hlub me me no - ib pob txha, pob ntawv, xaum, xaum. Ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv hnav khaub ncaws nrog ib rab koob, ib yam li ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag los yog ib tug poj niam. Li ntawd, koj tus menyuam mus rau qib 1 ...
Kom pib, muaj ntau yam ua yuam kev txo tus txheej txheem ntawm kev npaj tus me nyuam rau "kev cob qhia" hauv ntau lub tsev kawm ntawv. Piv txwv li, lawv tau npaj cov khoos kas rau thawj chav kawm, kawm lus txawv teb chaws, thiab kawm txog kev siv computer. Cov nyhuv ntawm kev yuam kev xws li kev tshawb fawb ntawm cov kws kho mob tsuas yog ib qho - qhov no yog qhov nce ntawm cov lus qhia.
Vim tias qhov "npaj" no, cov me nyuam, thaum lawv tuaj kawm ntawv, tsis to taub cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov lus thov rau lawv, tsis tu ncua, tus xib fwb tsis mloog lus, thiab lwm yam. Txawm li cas los xij, lawv yuav tsum "zaum tawm" tag nrho zaj lus qhia, mloog zoo thiab ua tib zoo mloog cov khoom qhia thiab ntau yam ntxiv. Txoj kev coj tus cwj pwm no yog piav qhia los ntawm qhov tseeb uas cov menyuam nyeem ntawv, cov me nyuam ntseeg hais tias tsis muaj kev txaus siab rau kev kawm, pib ua txhaum kev qhuab qhia thiab, vim li ntawd, tsis sib haum nrog tus xib fwb. Cov niam txiv puzzled - lawv tau muab ntau zog los npaj lawv tus menyuam. Thiab qhov tseem ceeb yog, muaj ntau yam kev xav txog kev xav ntawm psychologists, tias qhov kev npaj siab ntawm tus menyuam mos siab rau kev kawm tsis yog nyob ntawm seb nws nyeem puas yog tus menyuam xav.
Yuav kom daws tau qhov teeb meem no, nws yog qhov tsim nyog, ua ntej, los tsim kev txaus siab rau tus me nyuam hauv kev paub, los tsim kev soj ntsuam, muaj tswv yim, thiab lwm yam peev xwm, nrog rau kev nco, kev xav, kev xav, kev xav, kev hais lus, thiab lwm yam. Qhov thib ob, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob qhwv tus me nyuam thaum nws tsis ua hauj lwm rau nws, tiam sis nws yuav tsum to taub txog qhov ua tsis tiav, sib tham txog nws thiab pab kho qhov yuam kev. Los ntawm cov kev ua no, peb qhia txoj kev ntseeg siab rau nws, ua kom nws zoo siab rau nws.
Thaum kawg, nws yuav tsum tau hais tias qhov kev xav hauv tsev neeg yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev npaj tus me nyuam mus kawm ntawv. Kev hlub, kev to taub, kev coj tus cwj pwm, kev ntseeg siab, kev kawm ntawv siab zoo, kev ywj pheej, kev cog lus thiab kev lav phib xej yog tus yuam sij rau txoj kev vam meej thiab ceev nrooj ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau hnub kawm ntawv tom ntej.Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias koj, thiab tau kawg, koj tus me nyuam yog nyob rau hauv lub xeev kev ntxhov siab. Thiab nws tsis yog phem, tsis zoo - nws yog ib qhov tseeb. Qhov no yog lub xeev ib qho kev hloov hauv kev hloov hauv kev ua haujlwm ntawm tsev neeg, nyob rau hom hnub, txoj kev ua neej, kev ua haujlwm li qub thiab kev ua yeeb yam rau tsev neeg. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tau tawm ntawm qhov kev ntxhov siab no tsis muaj kev piam sij, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, muab lub hauv paus rau kev kawm yav tom ntej ntawm koj tus menyuam.
Koj yuav ua dab tsi kom ua tau qhov no?
Ua ntej, sim kho txhua yam nrog lub teeb ci ntsa iab, ua siab zoo, nrhiav kev zoo thiab kev lom zem sab hauv txhua qhov teeb meem. Tom qab ntau xyoo, ua ke nrog tus menyuam, koj yuav nco ntsoov nrog nws luag nyav nws thawj zaug uas nws tau sau ntawv, thawj qhov ua tau zoo thiab kev poob siab, thawj "cov phooj ywg tsev kawm ntawv", thawj tus kws qhia ntawv.
Li ntawd, peb tuaj txog qhov tseem ceeb - thawj tus kws qhia ntawv. Txij hnub no thawj tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum yog tus neeg tseem ceeb hauv lub neej ntawm tus menyuam. Txoj cai ntawm thawj tus kws qhia ntawv tsis tau tso cai yog qhov kev lav paub txog kev vam meej ntawm koj tus menyuam tsis yog nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv nkaus xwb, tab sis hauv lub neej. Qhov no tom qab, thaum nws yog ib tug tub hluas, nws yuav pib ua yeeb yam tseem ceeb ntawm qhov teeb meem thiab cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws. Thiab hnub no tsuas yog kev ntseeg ntawm txoj kev qhia ntawm tus xib fwb, hauv nws qhov tseeb thiab kev ncaj ncees, yuav pab tus neeg kawm ntawv thawj zaug kom paub zoo txog tsev kawm ntawv kev paub. Nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog tus kws qhia ntawv thawj zaug, tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm los txuas lus nrog cov neeg ua pov thawj yav tom ntej, nrog cov neeg uas nws tswj hwm nws yuav. Tsis txhob txo lub ntsiab lus ntawm qhov no. Peb txhua tus, txawm tias yog txoj kev ywj siab tshaj plaws thiab kev ywj siab, txhua lub sijhawm yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib qho teeb meem ntawm kev tswj hwm, thiab peb tau txais kev sib txuas lus nrog "cov neeg muaj hwj chim" muaj peev xwm pab tau los yog hla peb. Thiab cov qauv ntawm cov kev sib raug zoo no yog cia li pw hauv thawj chav kawm. Tsis tas li ntawd, tus menyuam hauv lub hnub nyoog no tseem tuaj yeem txiav txim siab txog nws qhov kev paub nws xav tau dab tsi, qhov twg tsis yog, qhov zoo tshaj plaws los ua qhov no los yog nws ua haujlwm, nws tseem tsis tau tsim ib tus tub ntxhais kawm ntawv txoj kev xav, tsis muaj kev kawm tshwj xeeb tshaj. Tag nrho cov no yav tom ntej. Niaj hnub no, tus me nyuam yaus yooj yim kom tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab, yog nws cia siab rau tus xib fwb, ua raws li nws lub tswv yim thiab cov lus pom zoo. Hauv koj lub hwj chim los pab tus me nyuam. Txawm hais tias koj tsis ntseeg txog qhov tseeb ntawm tus xib fwb cov cai, hauv nws txoj kev kawm ntawv - tsis txhob hais cov lus xav phem hauv tus me nyuam thiab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog, tsis txhob rau txim rau tus kws qhia ntawv tham nrog tus me nyuam. Tsis txhob khob tawm hauv av tawm ntawm koj txhais ko taw. Nyob hauv kev sib tham nrog ib tug menyuam, koj yuav tsum paub hais tias koj hwm tus xibfwb lub tswvyim ("Qhov tseeb, vim Anna Alexandrovna hais li ntawd, nws yuav tsum tau ua"), ua tib zoo saib xyuas cov xibfwb uas nyiam koj ("Yes, Inna Nikolayevna nruj, yog li koj zoo heev koom, thiab nws muaj xws li zoo li lub qhov muag) thiab yog li ntawd on. Thiab sim daws koj qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus kws qhia ntawv, ntawm qhov tsawg tshaj plaws, hu rau kev pab los ntawm cov thawj coj. Yog tom qab ob lub hlis koj tseem tsis ntseeg tus xibfwb, xav txog kev hloov hauv chav kawm lossis tsev kawm ntawv.
Lub sijhawm ob lub hlis tsis tau hais. Nws yuav siv sijhawm ntev li ntev tau yog tias koj tsev neeg xav tau kev nyuaj siab. Nyob rau lub sij hawm no, tus me nyuam yuav tau ntsib cov kev hloov hauv qab no hauv kev noj qab haus huv thiab lub siab nyiam:
- mob taub hau thiab mob plab;
-Xaj ntawm kev zom mov (raws plab los yog cem quav);
- poob lossis muaj zog ntxiv, muaj zog ntxiv rau cov khoom qab zib;
- qhov yuav tsum tau rau nruab hnub nruab hnub thiab qaug zog hauv yav tsaus ntuj;
- mob txob txob nce siab, qaug zog lossis ua phem;
Cov ntawv zoo li no thiab cov xwm txheej zoo li no tshwm sim rau kev ntxhov siab ntawm thawj hnub kawm ntawv. Ua zoo rau lawv nrog kev ua siab ntev, rov hais dua tus menyuam dua, tias koj hlub nws, nws yog qhov zoo thiab txhua yam yuav tsum ua rau nws. Tam sim no, ntau dua tus me nyuam, tus me nyuam xav tau koj txoj kev txhawb nqa thiab kev hlub tsis raws cai. Nco ntsoov, kev saib tus kheej tshaj lij ntawm lub hnub nyoog no yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab tsim nyog. Nws yog kev cia siab rau lawv lub peev xwm, hauv lawv lub peev xwm uas cia tus me nyuam coj tus lag luam tshiab rau nws yam tsis muaj kev ntshai thiab npaj tau yooj yim dua tshiab. Feem ntau, nco ntsoov tus menyuam kawm tau zoo ("No me me sib ntsib ua zoo tshaj plaws!", "Wow, koj tuaj yeem suav cov xov xwm zoo li no!", "Dab tsi yog qhov nthuav koj tau txais, Kuv yeej nyiam nws!") Thiab tsis txhob txhawj xeeb rau kev tsis sib haum - tus uas tsis muaj dab tsi. Maj mam, kev ua txhaum ntawm kev coj cwj pwm thiab kev noj qab haus huv, yog tias lawv tshwm sim, yuav tuaj tsis tau. Yog tias tom qab ob lossis peb lub hlis koj tseem pom tus menyuam tus cwj pwm kev ntxhab siab - hu rau tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws lossis tus kws kho mob.
Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus me nyuam pib muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg uas tseem ceeb heev. Txhawb kev phooj ywg, qhia tus me nyuam kom daws tau cov teeb meem tshwm sim ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Qee tus me nyuam muaj lub siab xav tawm tsam vim nws nrhiav tau qhov phem hauv chav kawm ntawv. Tus menyuam tuaj yeem ntseeg tau thiab hais lus qhuas koj hais tias "Pasha hnub no tag nrho cov kev kawm tau hloov thiab tus xibfwb tau tawm tswv yim rau nws" los yog "Masha tsis nco qab txhua yam rau txhua lub sijhawm thiab tom qab kawm ntawv hauv zaj lus qhia." Tsis txhob maj maj los txhawb koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais nrog cov lus: "Tab sis koj tsis ua nws, koj yog ntse!". Tsis txhob muab kev khav theeb thiab kev nkag siab ntawm qhov tshwj xeeb, koj paub tias nyuaj npaum li cas yog kev sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg laus uas paub meej txog cov kev zoo no. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los qhib kev sib tham rau hauv qhov nruab nrab nruab nrab, thiab nug tus me nyuam seb nws puas zoo rau kev nyam, quaj, nco txhua yam ... Sib tham nrog nws qhov teeb meem, nrhiav ib txoj kev ua li cas nws thiaj tsis zam qhov yuam kev thiab nws yuav pab nws cov phooj ywg tshiab.
Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, thawj zaug kev kawm txog cov kev ua ub no thiab kev ua homework yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev. Hauv kev tshawb xav, cov kev qhia hauv thawj ob chav kawm yog tsis muaj qhov tseeb, thiab thawj lub hlis, cov homework rau cov menyuam yaus tsis raug nug, tab sis nyob hauv kev xyaum lawv nug thiab pom: cov xibfwb muab cov kev hloov ntau tshaj rau cov kev kwv yees - cov hnub thiab cov huab cua, asterisks, chij, thiab lwm yam. Yog tsis muaj dab tsi tsis nrog qhov no hauv koj tus cwj pwm zoo. Tshaj tawm ntawm lo lus nug: "Zoo, koj tau txais dab tsi hnub no?", Nug seb koj tus tub ntxhais kawm tau kawm dab tsi, muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau hnub kawm ntawv, nws ua tau zoo siab los yog ua rau nws chim siab npaum li cas. Qhia ib tug me nyuam kom ntsuam xyuas tus txheej txheem ntawm kev kawm thiab kev xyaum ua haujlwm, tsis yog nws cov qhabnias xwb.
Thiab ntxiv - muab tus me nyuam yaus siab ywj pheej raws li nws npaj siab zom zaws. Sim tsis txhob ua rau nws seb nws npaj txhij ua nws tus kheej. Thiab, tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi koj xav tswj txhua kauj ruam, txhua txoj kev tawm mus thiab txhua qhov kev xav ntawm nws, koj yuav tsum nres thiab maj mam tso koj tus menyuam mus da dej.
Nco ntsoov, koj tus menyuam tau loj hlob - nws yog tam sim no PUPIL.