Sooner los yog tom qab ntawd, cov niam txiv muaj teeb meem xws li tus menyuam nyiam hu ua hysteria. Thiab feem ntau cov niam txiv tsis paub yuav ua li cas txwv. Feem ntau cov me nyuam chiv keeb tshwm sim nyob rau hauv ntau qhov chaw thiab niam txiv yuav tsum "txhuam". Cov lus nug tshwm sim, yuav ua li cas yog tias muaj hysteria hauv cov me nyuam yaus thiab yuav ua li cas txwv lawv.
Yuav ua li cas hysteria tshwm sim hauv cov me nyuam mos
Qhov tseeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua npau taws uas tshwm hauv kev npau taws, kev tsuj, kev sib ntxub, kev poob siab yog tus me nyuam txoj kev sib tw. Thaum muaj hysteria, ib tug me nyuam pib khoov rov qab, quaj thiab qw nrov nrov. Nrog rau qhov tshwm sim hauv tus me nyuam no, kev ua hauj lwm ntawm kev txawj tsav tsheb raug ntaus, nws tuaj yeem tsoo tej khoom thiab tsis hnov mob. Hauv qee kis nrog rau kev npau taws heev, tus menyuam yuav muaj peev xwm: muaj tsis muaj cua (tus me nyuam muaj huab cua), tsis muaj kev sib deev, thiab qee lub sij hawm luv luv. Tom qab xws li tawg ntho ntawm lub zog, qhov poob siab xav tau so. Tom qab qhov kawg ntawm kev tawm tsam, tus me nyuam txawm pw tsaug zog los yog ntog rau hauv ib lub pob ntseg.
Dab tsi yog qhov ua rau ntawm lub xeev no
Raws li cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws, kev sib tw hauv cov menyuam yaus hauv ib xyoos yog qhov tsawg heev thiab tshwm sim los ntawm ntau hom kab mob. Hysterics yog ib txwm nyob hauv cov me nyuam tom qab hnub nyoog ib xyoos. Qhov tseeb yog tias txij li ib xyoo ntawm tus me nyuam twb pib paub nws qhov tseem ceeb. Hysteria ntawm lub hnub nyoog no feem ntau yog ib cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, ua tsis tiav, uas tus me nyuam tsis tau txais. Thiab quaj rau hauv rooj plaub no, tus me nyuam pib tsis yog, tab sis kev tawm tsam. Tib lub sijhawm, cov niam txiv, tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb rau lawv cov me nyuam, sim ua kom nws siab thiab txaus siab nws xav tau hauv txhua txoj kev. Tab sis nyob rau hauv lub siab ntawm crumb, nws twb ncua ncua ntawd yog tias koj quaj thiab quaj, koj muaj peev xwm ua tau nws.
Nws tau txais kev pom zoo los ntawm kev pabcuam ntawm qhov tawm tsam xws li nws muaj peev xwm ua kom tiav nws lub hom phiaj, tus menyuam pib npaj cov haujlwm zoo li no los ntawm nws niam nws txiv. Feem ntau cov ua rau hysterics tshwm sim rau cov menyuam yaus tshaj 4 xyoos, txij li hnub tom qab hnub nyoog no tus me nyuam twb paub tias qhov kev rau txim yuav ua raws. Cov kev ua tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws rau cov menyuam yaus nyiam ua nyob rau hauv ntau qhov chaw, qhov chaw uas cov niam txiv, yog li tsis ua rau kev poob siab, tas yuav qhov no los yog khoom ua si, khoom qab zib, thiab lwm yam. Los yog muaj cov neeg uas yuav tu siab rau tus me "cunning", kev cuam tshuam cov niam txiv thiab cov niam txiv yuav ua raws qhov kev thov. Sij hawm dhau los, kev coj ua rau tus me nyuam ua qhov kev cai.
Tsis tas li, lwm yam yuav ua rau cov menyuam yau yau ua kom mob hlwb. Piv txwv, muaj kab mob, tshwj xeeb yog qhov chaw kub kub, nkees, tsis ua hauj lwm hauv tsoom fwv tus me nyuam. Thiab kuj tau ntev nyob hauv ntau qhov chaw, ntev so, qhov ntau tau raug tso cai, kev tshaib plab thiab nqhis dej. Ntxiv rau, ntau yam kev puas siab puas ntsws muaj peev xwm ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntsws. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, yog tias koj tus menyuam rub tawm khoob ntau zaus - tiv tauj ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb.
Yuav ua li cas nrog kev siab ntsws xav li no
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj yuav tsum tau pib "sib ntaus" nrog hysterics yog kev tiv thaiv. Ua ntej koj yuav mus rau ib qho chaw ntau, tshwj xeeb yog kav khw, saib xyuas qee yam ntawm cov nuances. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum puv, muab tso rau lub caij, pw kom txaus. Ib qho kev tsis txaus siab tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev sib ceg. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob hnov qab tias kev sib cav sib ceg ntawm cov niam txiv, tsis saib xyuas tus menyuam yaus kuj tuaj yeem ua rau zoo li no nyob rau hauv cov crumbs.
Feem ntau, qhov uas ua rau tus me nyuam mos liab ua rau nws tsis muaj khoom ua si, khoom qab zib, thiab lwm yam. Thaum tus me nyuam tseem me, nws muaj peev xwm cuam tshuam txog "kev cuam tshuam." Piv txwv, "lub tsheb tawm", "lub dav hlau ya mus", lwm yam Koj tuaj yeem hloov qhov xim ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau qhov kev ua si.
Yog tias tsis muaj dab tsi yuav kis tau hysterics, nws yuav zoo dua tsis txhob nqig koj tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj mess nrog nws, nws yuav tsis ntev nres no "kev nthuav qhia." Qhov tseem ceeb, tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas koj mob, tsis txhob muab rau koj cov kev xav, nws zoo dua tsis them nyiaj. Tus me nyuam yuav nkag siab tias nws tau poob thiab yuav nyob twj ywm. Yog tias koj ua li no ob peb zaug, qhov kev nyuab siab ntawm tus me nyuam yuav nres. Koj yuav tsis rau txim rau tus me nyuam rau nws tus cwj pwm, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau txhua tus neeg. Sai li uas tus me nyuam nyob hauv tsev, nrhiav qhov ua rau nws tsis txaus siab. Piav rau nws tias koj hlub nws heev. Tom qab koj kawm tsis quav ntsej koj tus menyuam txoj kev khwv yees, thaum kawg lawv yuav nres, raws li tus menyuam yuav nkag siab tias nws yuav tsis ua tiav dab tsi.