Hauv thawj theem
Pib nrog, nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias cov txiv neej xav tau kev sib tham yog feem ntau tsawg tshaj li cov poj niam. Los ntawm no nws ua raws li kev sib tham ntawm ib tug poj niam thiab ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum tsis txhob khoob thiab ntev ntev. Txwv tsis pub, tus txiv neej nkees nkees ntawm kev sib tham tsis tseem ceeb, tsis txhob mloog lus rau koj. Yog tias koj ntau dhau los xav nrog ib tug txiv neej tham txog tej yam tsis zoo thiab tsis tseem ceeb, ces koj yuav tsum ceeb toom nws txog nws ua ntej. Tom qab ntawd, nws yuav ua rau kev sib txuas lus zoo thiab tsis raug strained hauv kev sim pom lub ntsiab lus tob hauv cov lus uas tsis muaj xws li tus txiv neej yuav pom qhov kev sib tham ntawm nws tus khub raws li tsis muaj kev txwv tsis pub leej twg tham.
Kev sib tham ntawm ib tug poj niam thiab ib tug txiv neej tsis yog zoo li tham nrog ib tug hluas nkauj. Cov poj niam muaj peev xwm to taub sib. Txiv neej nyob rau hauv no plenenemnogo txawv. Txiv neej xam pom lub ntiaj teb no tsis yog poj niam, yog li sib tham nrog ib tug neeg sawv cev txiv neej yuav tsis yooj yim li nws zoo li. Yuav kom sib txuas lus nrog ib tug txiv neej, koj yuav tsum paub txog qee cov cai kom muab cov ntaub ntawv hauv ib daim ntawv to taub nws.
Yog tias txoj kev sib tham ntawm tus poj niam thiab tus txiv neej yog loj txaus, ces nws yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab lub hom phiaj ntawm txoj kev sib tham no. Kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus, cov poj niam muaj peev xwm them taus kom paub lawv cov ntsiab lus tawm ntawm cov ntsiab lus, thiab rov qab mus rau lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib tham. Txiv neej, nrog lawv cov kev xav puas hlwb, hom kev sib tham no nyuaj. Lawv sim ua tib zoo tham txog txhua yam, txhawb nqa cov khoom siv log thiab sib txuas ua ke tag nrho cov qauv kev qhia txog kev sib txuas lus rau ib tus kheej nkaus xwb. Tej zaum, ntau tus poj niam yuav pom zoo tias nws tsis yooj yim.
Koj yuav tsum tham nrog ib tug txiv neej li cas kom nws to taub qhov kev xav uas koj xav kom nws qhia rau nws?
Peb xav tau kom meej meej tsim peb xav txog qhov siab tshaj. Cov ncauj lus yuav tsum muaj tseeb thiab meej, tsis muaj kev qhia ntawv thiab kev siv tshuaj tua tsis tseem ceeb. Tsuas yog tom qab ntawd lawv yuav ncav cuag tus neeg teb xov tooj thiab yuav to taub. Ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum to taub koj hais ib zaug, thiab tsis tau poob hauv conjecture thiab puzzle tshaj dab tsi tseem yog qhov teeb meem.
Raws li txoj cai, tsuas yog cov poj niam thiaj li kos tau cov lus txiav txim yav tas los thaum sib tham ntawm lawv tus kheej. Umuzhchin yog lwm yam peculiarity ntawm kev xav. Ua ntej lawv tau txais cov ntaub ntawv, ces lawv ua hauj lwm tawm nws cov ua, tsim ib tug muaj kuab saw thiab tsuas yog ces ua kom xaus cov lus xaus. Yog li no, kaw lus tsis txaus siab thiab tsis tuaj yeem hais lus thuam lawv thiab pheej ruam. Yuav ua li cas kom muaj kev sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej, yog li ntawd raws li tsis txhob ua kom nws tib lub sijhawm? "Nws yooj yim txaus," Kuv qhia koj. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los qhia cov lus qhia rau ib tug txiv neej nyob rau hauv ib hom ntawv uas nws to taub. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus poj niam hais lus zoo, raug cai thiab to taub rau kev pom. Tsis txhob dhia hauv lub ncauj lus ntawm qhov kev sib raug zoo nrog tus txiv neej. Qhia koj txoj kev xav kom meej meej thiab xwm yeem, txawm tias nyuaj npaum li cas rau koj thaum koj pom thawj zaug.
Yuav kom muaj peev xwm hais lus nrog cov txiv neej, koj yuav tsum muaj lub tswv yim tseeb tsis yog hais txog kev sib tham, tab sis kuj hais txog cov ncauj lus. Ua ntej, cia peb sim teb koj cov lus nug: "txiv neej yuav hais dab tsi?" Zoo li, lawv yeej tsis tham txog lawv cov tsho tshiab, tawm cov ntawv xov xwm tshiab thiab tsis tham nrog cov lus xaiv. Feem ntau yog cov txiv neej xav txog poj niam txoj kev sib tham li tsis muaj kev sib tham. Yog li cas lawv ua li ntawd? Saib ... Cov txiv neej nyiam tham txog kev ncaws pob (feem ntau football), kev lag luam, tsheb, computers, cov ntxhais thiab txhua tsav txhua yam tib yam nkaus. Hauv ntej, txog tej yam uas ua tau, hauv qab-rau-lub ntiaj teb, zoo siab, txhawm rau theem qog ntawm adrenaline hauv cov ntshav thiab ua rau muaj kev sib ntaus.
Tab sis feem ntau nws tshwm sim tau hais tias ib tug poj niam muaj cuab kav ua tau, piv txwv li, tsis paub nyob rau hauv football los yog tsheb. "Ces kuv yuav ua li cas?" Koj nug. Cia peb xav txog tej yam tseem ntsiab lus tseem hais tau cov txiv neej uas poj niam muaj peev xwm ua tau. Nco ntsoov tias ntau tus txiv neej yuav zoo siab tham txog lawv txoj kev vam meej nrog koj. Yog li ntawd, yuav tsum nyiam ua hauj lwm ntawm ib tug txiv neej thiab nws cov kev vam meej (zoo, yog tias, ntawm chav kawm, cov neeg muaj). Zoo, yog tias tsis yog, ces kawm kom mloog zoo zoo lossis yog tias koj xav ua txuj tias koj mloog zoo zoo. Txiv neej yeej nyiam nws thaum poj niam qhuas lawv cov lus. Tab sis tsis txhob overdo nws, pub kom nws yuav ntau dua li ib qho qhib falsity los yog txawm ib tug mockery.
Xaiv lub neej yav tom ntej rau kev sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej, koj yuav tsum to taub dab tsi nrog nws tham nrog tsis xav ua. Piv txwv, nws tsis tsim nyog tham nrog ib tug neeg sawv cev ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog los cuam tshuam rau nws tus kheej txoj kev thuam los yog qhia nws txog qee lub sij hawm uas koj tau hais, "tsis yog tsoo tawm." Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog hais txog lawv tus kheej cov kev poob siab yog qhov zoo rau kev nyob twj ywm ntawm txhua tus. Nco ntsoov ib zaug thiab rau txhua yam uas sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej koj tsis tuaj yeem sib tham txog lwm tus neeg qhov teeb meem thiab kev ua yuam kev. Lawv tsis zoo siab txog tej kev sib tham thiab tuaj yeem hloov lawv lub tswv yim txog ib tug poj niam, vim tias nws tau xaiv ib tus nkawg xaiv.
Cov no yog cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb uas koj yuav tsum paub kom thiaj li tsim tau ib txoj kev sib tham nrog tus poj niam los sis txiv neej.
Thaum kawg, kuv tuaj yeem muab koj ib co lus qhia ntxiv:
- Nyob rau hauv qhov no, yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej dheev pib cuam tshuam koj, ces koj, dhau lawm, muaj peev xwm tua nws, tau pib sib tham ntawm lub ncauj lus dheev hauv koj lub taub hau. Tus txiv neej xav txog poj niam lub cev, muaj kev sib fwm nrog kev sib fim ntawm tus neeg tuaj koom nrog rau kev sib daj sib deev, tsis paub meej thiab tsis muaj zog-kev nyiam. Yog li ntawd, qee lub sij hawm nws yog qhov zoo rau kev cuam tshuam rau lawv thiab nkag rau hauv kev sib tham zoo.
- Koj yuav tsum pib sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej, tsis txhob sim npaj nws rau qee lub ntsiab lus. Nyob hauv kev sib tham koj yuav tsum tau coj ncaj ncaj. Yog tias koj pib ua tus cwj pwm tseem ceeb ntawm qhov kev sib tham tsis tam sim ntawd, ces tej zaum koj yuav tsis ua li cas rau koj tus kheej.
- Dumayana ntsiab lus: "Yuav ua li cas nrog ib tug txiv leej tub", koj yuav tsum xaiv cov ncauj lus uas koj muaj tsawg kawg yog ib tus neeg muaj peev xwm tsawg. Ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum pom hauv koj lub siab, muaj zog tus cwj pwm, peev xwm ntawm nws tus kheej txoj kev pom.
- Hauv kev sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej, koj yuav tsum siv cov ntsiab lus meej meej, cov lus sib cav thiab cov lus tseeb.