Feem ntau, cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws paub cov teeb meem loj thiab cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb thaum yau: ib xyoos, peb xyoos thiab xya xyoo. Qee tus niam txiv tau xav tsis thoob: "Puas muaj lwm yam teeb meem? Cia li qhuab qhia kom muaj zog thiab yuav tsis muaj teeb meem. " Tab sis tsis yog txhua yam hauv lub neej no yog qhov yooj yim thiab unambiguous.
Cov kws tshawb fawb tau ntev tias cov nyhuv rau cov poj niam lub cev thaum lub cev xeeb tub muaj feem xyuam rau tus me nyuam. Thiab qhov no cuam tshuam thoob plaws hauv nws lub neej. Tseem ceeb rau tus me nyuam tseem muaj cov teeb meem thoob plaws tag nrho nws lub sij hawm. Cov me nyuam cov kev nyuab siab yuav luag mob rau cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig ntawm tus me nyuam. Tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm, muaj peev xwm, tsis tuaj yeem, whiny. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tsis nco qab tias tus me nyuam raug mob los ntawm no tsis muaj tsawg, thiab feem ntau ntau tshaj li peb cov neeg laus. Nws yog thawj zaug pib ua zoo, thov nws niam nws txiv, thiab hauv nws ib yam dab tsi yog tsim kom nws tsis paub los yog tswj hwm. Kev poob qab thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm tej theem yuav zoo nkauj zoo rau koj qab haus huv rau koj thiab rau tus menyuam.
Crisis ntawm 1 xyoo
Nws ua rau kev txhim kho loj ntawm lub cev ntawm tus menyuam. Nws zoo nkaus li nag hmo nws yog nyob ntawm koj txhua yam, thiab thaum lub xyoo nws twb pib taug kev, ncav tawm mus rau ntau qhov chaw thiab khoom. Tus me nyuam lub hlwb ntawm lub hnub nyoog no kawm paub ntau yam li ib tus neeg laus tuaj yeem tau txais kev cob qhia txog li 60 xyoo. Cov neeg tshawb nrhiav pom dab tsi ntawm lawv txoj kev? Ib txoj kev txwv tsis pub muaj kev txwv thiab txwv, tsis pom zoo rau nws cov kev xav tau ntawm cov laus. Li no tus tawm tsam uas ntxeev siab rau qhov kev tsis sib haum ntawm hnub nyoog. Nws tseem ceeb heev rau lub sijhawm no kom nkag siab tus me nyuam thiab pab nws: ua kom nws lub neej zoo li muaj kev nyab xeeb, qhia nws siv cov khoom hauv ntiaj teb ib puag ncig, qhia nws tswj nws lub cev, thiab lwm yam. Peb yuav tsum muaj lub siab ntev thiab to taub.
Crisis ntawm 3 xyoo
Tus menyuam tseem niaj hnub tshawb nrhiav lub ntiaj teb ib puag ncig nws. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb ntawm nws yog kev tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo. Thiab nws tsis yooj yim rau kev nkag siab nrog lawv. Txhua qhov kev sib cuag ntawm tus me nyuam yog qhov tshwj xeeb thiab tsis tas yuav to taub tam sim ntawd rau nws. Nws twb tuaj yeem ua ntau yam rau nws tus kheej. Nws txhawb, tab sis nws hloov tawm tsis tag nrho raws li koj xav - xws li ib tug kev tsis ncaj ncees! Nyob rau lub sij hawm no, tus me nyuam pib hnov zoo li lub ntiaj teb sab nraud ua chaos. Qhov no yog vim hais tias qhov kev paub twb tau sau, tab sis tseem tsis tau systematized. Tom qab ntawd lub ntuj tsiv tuaj mus rau hauv lub zog. Txhua yam uas tsis to taub rau tus me nyuam - ntshai nws, thiab qhov uas ua rau nws ntshai, ua rau muaj kev sib cav sib ceg ua kev tiv thaiv. Sib tham nrog tus me nyuam txhua yam uas tseem ceeb rau nws. Tham txog nws tus cwj pwm txawv, nug seb nws xav li cas hauv nws lub sijhawm los yog lwm qhov.
Crisis ntawm 7 xyoo
Nws tshwm sim thaum lub sijhawm tus me nyuam mus kawm ntawv. Qhov no yog kev nyuaj siab rau menyuam yaus. Rau ib tus menyuam hauv lub sijhawm no, lub neej hloov thaum tsaus ntuj. Thawj qhov kev poob siab tshaj plaws tau dhau mus, thiab tom qab ntawd ces nws hloov tawm tias lub tsev kawm ntawv lub neej tsis yog cov phau ntawv tshiab thiab ci ntsa iab xwb. Peb yuav tsum ua neej raws li tsoom fwv, ua tej zaj lus qhia raws sij hawm, ua lub luag haujlwm rau peb cov kev vam meej thiab kev ua tiav. Txhua tus menyuam kawm ntawv yog tus cwj pwm zoo nrog lawv tus cwj pwm. Ceev ceev pib ua kom qaug zog los ntawm tej yam txawv txawv. Tag nrho cov no ua rau ntau hom teeb meem. Thiab nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov menyuam lawv paub lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev: ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm apathy, thiab ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ntau excitement, lub siab lub ntsws, txo cov efficiency. Tus me nyuam raug yuam kom nws tsis yog rov tsim nws lub neej xwb, tab sis kuj rov los ntsuam xyuas nws tus kheej, nrhiav nws qhov chaw hauv kev sib raug zoo. Ntawm no peb cov neeg laus yuav tsum to taub thiab ua siab ntev. Tsuas yog tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam yuav taug kev tsis ntshai dhau ntawm nws txoj kev loj hlob, hla lawv cov txiaj ntsim yog tias nws xav tias peb txoj kev txhawb nqa thiab kev saib xyuas.