Muaj ntau tus niam thiab txiv, pom tus menyuam ntsiag to, mob siab ua haujlwm rau lawv txoj kev lag luam, tab sis kuv tsis tuaj yeem zaum ntsiag to rau ib feeb! "Thiab lawv feem ntau tsis xav tias kev ua haujlwm ntau dhau lawm tsis yog ib tus cwj pwm zoo, tiam sis kev kuaj mob. Dab tsi yog qhov txawv ntawm lwm tus neeg laus thaum ntxov? Thiab yuav ua li cas coj nrog nws rau peb - niam txiv? ..
QHOV CHAW DAB TSI TEEB MEEM LOS?
Feem ntau qhov ua kom zoo, muaj qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog qhov yuav luag txhua tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv. Tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej tsis tu ncua tas li, thiab muaj teeb meem hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg, nrog cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv (xib fwb) yog lub teeb liab uas nws yuav tsum tau mus ntsib ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb.
Feem ntau, lwm cov "yeeb yam" yog ntxiv rau "sila nyob rau hauv lub nroog Yeiuxalees". Thawj zaug ntawm tag nrho, nws yog qhov tsis muaj peev xwm mloog zoo, koom nrog tib lub lag luam ntev, tsis muaj lub hom phiaj. Qhov teeb meem no yog hu ua xim nco qhov tsis zoo (ADHD) syndrome.
Vim li cas cov menyuam yaus tsim tus cwj pwm no? Cov kws kho mob hais ntau yam: qhov no yog heredity, thiab cov kab mob kis thaum me nyuam yaus, thiab txawm - oddly txaus - cov zaub mov tsis haum los ntawm cov khoom ua si ntxiv. Tab sis, raws li kev txheeb cais, ntau zaus (hauv 85 feem pua ntawm cov neeg mob)
Kev tsis ua hauj lwm ua rau muaj teeb meem thaum cev xeeb tub thiab (lossis) yug menyuam. Piv txwv li, yog tias ib leej niam tau raug mob los ntawm kev mob toxicosis thaum cev xeeb tub, tom qab ntawd vim nws tsis zoo rau kev noj qab haus huv, tus me nyuam tsis muaj lub sijhawm "paub tab" ntawm cov paj hlwb. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm traumatic births, lub tswv yim yog txawv. Qhov tseeb yog thaum lub sij hawm tso cai ntawm tus me nyuam los ntawm leej niam yug me nyuam, cov kev sib txuas yog tsim los ntawm cov chaw hauv nws lub hlwb. Yog hais tias "kev txiav txim siab" ntawm kev yug me nyuam yog hais (hais tias, thaum txog ntu Caesarean), cov kev sib txuas ntawm no yuav tsis tsim raws li qhov xwm txheej.
PORTRAIT NYOB HAUV LUB TSEV
Dua li ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias cov kws kho mob sib txawv hauv lawv cov kev xav txog kev mob siab, muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog kev puas siab ntsws ntawm tus me nyuam ntxov thaum muaj qhov teeb meem tseem tshwm sim. Ntawm no yog nws lub ntsiab nta:
♦ Ib tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv nws lub siab ntev ntev;
♦ Nws tsis yooj yim rau nws mloog tus neeg tuaj sib tham txog qhov kawg, cuam tshuam lwm tus tsis tas yuav xaus;
♦ feem ntau "tsis hnov" thaum neeg hais lus rau nws;
♦ tsis tuaj yeem zaum, qhov chaw nyob hauv ib lub rooj zaum, puv, dhia;
♦ zoo siab hlo ua lag luam tshiab, tab sis yeej tsis tas ua tiav hlo pib;
♦ nrog kev ua siab zoo ua rau nws poob ntsej muag;
♦ thaum nws muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv, nws tsis muaj peev xwm ua raws li txhua hnub nws tus kheej (nws xav tau ib tug "khau raj");
♦ ua tib zoo cim txhua yam uas tsis nyiam nws;
♦ ob txhais tes tsis muaj qab hau, tus me nyuam pheej twv ib yam, picks thiab nws tus ntiv tes nrog;
Pw tsaug zog me ntsis;
♦ hais ntau heev;
♦ feem ntau yog thaum muaj kev cuam tshuam nws ua pob liab liab ua ke;
♦ tsis nyiam thiab tsis tuaj yeem tos txog nws txoj kev;
♦ Hloov siab, npaj txhij txog, vim tias muaj cov khoom puag ncig nrog lub dav hlau nyooj mus rau hauv pem teb.
Yog tias cov tsos mob no zoo li koj paub, tsis txhob maj mus lob koj lub taub hau. Tsuas yog tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem kuaj xyuas, thiab txawm tias tsis yog tom thawj lub rooj sib tham. Cov kws kho mob tshwj xeeb saib tus me nyuam ob peb lub hlis, xaiv cov kev tshawb fawb ntxiv yog tias tsim nyog. Tom qab tag nrho, yuav luag tag nrho cov tsos mob saum toj no yuav qhia tsis tau tsuas yog qhov kev paub ntawm tus menyuam thaum ntxov, tab sis kuj txog qee qhov kev loj hlob ntawm lwm tus. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws tseem ceeb heev rau tus me nyuam ua nws tus kheej zoo li no, tej zaum nws tsuas yog rau theem tom ntej ntawm kev loj hlob tuaj "nrog kev phiv," uas tsis yog ib qho kev kuaj mob neurological.
TSWV YIM RAU COV NIAM TXIV
Nws tsis pub leejtwg paub los ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog ib tus menyuam muaj mob, txawm tias cov niam txiv neeg mob siab tshaj plaws thiab cov xib fwb tshaj plaws qee zaum poob siab thiab pib "khiav saum lub qab nthab": Zoo, kuv tsis tuaj yeem nrog qhov "perpetuum mobile"! Ntawm no yog ob peb lub tswv yim uas yuav pab txhawb kev sib raug zoo thiab ua tiav ntawm koj tus me nyuam qhov kev coj ua.
♦ Nquag nquag nquas koj tus me nyuam - cov menyuam no xav tau kev qhuas thiab khoom txhawb zog (khoom qab zib, khoom ua si, thiab lwm yam). Sim ua tib zoo saib xyuas cov menyuam txoj kev kawm, uas tau muab rau nws nrog kev nyuaj siab - kev ua siab ntev, qhov tseeb, kev sib luag, lub sijhawm, thiab lwm yam.
♦ Npaj cov kev ua ub no kawm thiab kev loj hlob thaum sawv ntxov, tom qab ntawd cov qhab nees yuav siab dua.
♦ Npaj koj cov lus thov rau tus menyuam yaus luv luv - nyob rau hauv 1-2 tawm tswv yim, yog li ntawd nws zaum mloog mus kom kawg.
♦ Cov menyuam yaus siab kub siab heev nkees. Yog li ntawd, feem ntau siv sijhawm so hauv chav kawm (hauv txhua qhov, txawm tias nthuav rau tus menyuam).
♦ Nco ntsoov: thaum koj tus menyuam nyob hauv qhov chaw pejxeem pib ua tsis ncaj ncees raws li txoj cai ntawm kev lees paub (qw nrov nrov, quaj qw, nplej), rub tawm nws tawm tsis siv. Txhob txhawj xeeb rau nws txoj kev xav nrog kev sib tham, maj mam stroke cov leeg, lub puab tsaig. Kev nyiam ua kom haum siab zoo pab txo kev siab ntsws. Thiab tsis txhob xav tias kev txaj muag rau lwm tus neeg, sim txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej tias tus me nyuam tsis txhaum rau thaum yug li ntawd, nws tus kheej raug mob ntawm nws tsis txhawj xeeb.
♦ Thaum ua haujlwm nrog tus menyuam tsis muaj mob, tsis tas kom nws ua tiav ob peb yam kev mob: zaum ntsiag to, sau ntawv (txiav, kos, thiab lwm yam) ua tib zoo mloog, mloog zoo zoo, thiab lwm yam. Xaiv ib yam khoom tseem ceeb tam sim no, piv txwv, sau ntawv kom zoo, tab sis rau qhov tseeb tias tus me nyuam pheej mus dhia, hla tus kov, tam sim no thiab cuam tshuam, sim tsis txhob cem nws. Yog tias tus me nyuam ua tau qhov xwm txheej no - nco ntsoov qhuas nws. Lwm zaus xaiv lwm yam mob - zaum tseem.
♦ Yog tias koj xav kom koj tus me nyuam ua raws li cov hnub ua hauj lwm txhua hnub, ua ntej thaum xaus ntawm kev lag luam thiab hloov mus rau qhov "lwm yam ntawm qhov kev zov me nyuam", nco ntsoov rov nco nws (tsis yog ib qho, tiam sis 2 - 3 zaug): "Ua si 10 feeb, ! "Cov me nyuam loj, leej twg tuaj yeem txiav txim seb lub sijhawm twg los ntawm lub sijhawm, tuaj yeem npaj rau kev hloov ntawm kev ua si nrog kev pab ntawm lub tswb moos.
♦ Ua tib yam rau hnub ntawd kom tus me nyuam tsis loiter ncig thiab 10 feeb. Xws li ib tug me nyuam xav tau tas li nyob rau hauv ib yam dab tsi, yog li ntawd nws tsis yog overexcited.
♦ Nws yog ib qho tseemceeb uas yuavtsum tau sau ib tus menyuam tawm ntawm lub hnub nyoog thaum lub sijhawm kislas thiab (lossis) ua si nrog rau kev ua si kis las.
♦ Qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws yog cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv (cov xib fwb) muab lawv cov kev sib koom tes rau txoj kev kawm ntawm tus me nyuam nyuaj thiab yuav ua ke. Cov tseev kom muaj hauv kev kawm hauv qib kindergarten (tsev kawm ntawv) thiab tom tsev yuav pab tau tus me nyuam yaus siv tau qhov kev txiav txim sai sai.
CEEV FAJ: TSHEEJ!
Muaj ntau ntau zaus thaum cov niam txiv uas muaj cov menyuam tsis muaj teeb meem, "yuav" los ntawm lawv cov kev txawj ntse, muab lawv tus menyuam tuaj rau tom tsev kawm ntawv tsawg dua li qhov tsim nyog. Thiab yog vim licas? Yog tias ib tug me nyuam, piv txwv li, tau kawm nyeem 4 xyoos, nws ntxiv txog tsib xyoos hauv nws siab los yog suav mus txog 100 thiab zoo siab nyeem cov lus luv luv English, nws yuav tsum ua li cas hauv kindergarten?
Tab sis tsis yog txhua yam yog yooj yim heev. Ib qho ntawm cov cwj pwm ntawm cov me nyuam yaus yog lub asynchrony ntawm txoj kev loj hlob. Cov menyuam yaus tiag tiag yog ua ntej ntawm nws cov phooj ywg hauv qee yam tsis muaj, tab sis nyob hauv qee txoj kev, alas, lags behind them. (Feem ntau cov hlau lead mus raws li txoj kev paub ntawm kev txawj ntse, thiab cov lag luam yog nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem kev sib txuas lus.) Rau tus me nyuam li no, ntev li 30 feeb yog qhov kev tsim txom kom tsim txom. Nws yuav tig thiab cuam tshuam, hla tus xib fwb cov lus los ntawm lub pob ntseg thiab, paub txog kev daws teeb meem li cas, yuav xav txog 20 feeb dhau ib qho qauv qis. Thiab nws cov ntawv yuav sai sai zoo li cov kab dav outlandish. Nws yog "tsis tau siav" rau tsev kawm ntawv lub cev kev xav thiab kev puas hlwb!
Qhov no yog vim li cas thiaj li ua ntej tus menyuam tsis muaj lub siab xav kawm, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum qhia rau cov kws tshwjxeeb, xws li ntau tus, piv txwv: tus kws kho mob paj hlwb, tus kws kho hlwb, tus kws kho mob, tus kws kho mob. Thiab tom qab ntawd - ua raws li cov lus pom zoo tau txais, zais lawv cov lus ambitions kom txog thaum zoo dua.
Yog tias koj to taub tias koj "tau txais kev zoo siab" nrog lub tsev kawm ntawv no thaum koj tus menyuam mus rau hauv thawj chav kawm, nws tsis lig dhau mus rov qab mus rau lub vaj, "tau ua si" rau nws ib qho ntxiv rau menyuam yaus. Kev paub tau hais tias qhov tseeb ntawm kev hloov mus rau qib kindergarten mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj rau cov niam txiv thiab cov niam txiv dua li ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas cov tub ntxhais hluas lawv tus kheej.
Txawm tias txoj hauj lwm nyuaj los yeej muaj kev daws teeb meem. Thiab thaum nws los ua lub neej yooj yim tsis yog rau koj tus kheej, tab sis kuj rau tus me txiv neej, tseem defenseless ua ntej lub neej no, muaj cov rog, muaj cov kws tshwj xeeb thiab cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb. Thiab cia lub siab ntev qee zaum ua rau, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov uas koj hlub koj tus menyuam, thiab nws hlub koj, thiab, yog li ntawd, sai dua lossis tom qab koj yuav daws tau txhua yam teeb meem ntxov lossis tom qab.