Yuav ua li cas faib koj niam rau ob? Kev pom zoo rau tus menyuam thib ob yog kev zoo siab. Tab sis ntawm no niam txiv tab tom tos kom muaj teeb meem ntau. Cov me nyuam txoj kev sib ntxoo thaum yug los ntawm lwm cov me nyuam yog ib qho teeb meem uas feem ntau ntawm tsev neeg ntsib. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tsis xam khib, tabsis koj tuaj yeem txo qhov kev xav no kom tsawg. Tom qab ntawd cov me nyuam yuav tsis sib tw rau koj txoj kev hlub, tab sis yuav dhau los ua ib haiv neeg thiab cov phooj ywg zoo.
Nws yog tsim nyog qhia txog tus me nyuam yav tom ntej, tab sis nws yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav nyob rau hauv lub tsib hlis, rau ib lub hlis tom ntej tos ntev me ntsis rau tus me nyuam me. Nws zoo dua los ua ke nrog tus txij nkawm, zoo li no: "Peb xav qhia rau koj paub xov xwm zoo, koj yuav muaj ib tug kwv tij los yog tus muam yawg." Tsis txhob nug ib zaug yog tias nws zoo siab. Qhia nws me me tus me nyuam thawj zaug, nws yuav xav tau dab tsi koj txhawj xeeb. Nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia tias tus me nyuam mos yuav tsis ua si thiab sib tham, tab sis thaum thawj zaug xwb pw tsaug zog. Coj tus me nyuam nrog koj mus rau tom khw, thaum koj yuav yuav ib lub teb chaws, sab laj nrog nws, ua tsaug rau kev pab. Thaum tus me nyuam thau lub plab, cia tus laus mus kov.
Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tsis txhob cia cov lus uas thaum yug tus me nyuam txog cov laus yuav tsis nco qab, los yog nws yuav tsum tau pab nrog tsev ua hauj lwm txhua lub sijhawm. Qhov no yuav tsum tsis txhob hais tias txawm nyob rau hauv jest, lwm yam kev tsuj thiab kev chim siab yuav tshwm sim.
Thawj thawj hnub tom qab lub tuam tsev kho mob, txhua tus neeg laus yuav tau saib xyuas tus me nyuam mos, thiab koj yuav xav siv sij hawm mus rau tus me nyuam mos, vim nws pheej qhaj koj heev. Zaum ntawm nws, tham, cia nws nqa ib daim duab los tua rau ntawm tus me nyuam mos lub koob yees duab, yog li nws yuav koom tes hauv tsev neeg lub neej. Thiab nws yuav tshwm sim tau, yog li ntawd tus me nyuam loj, vam tias yuav rov qab los yav dhau los, pib thov kom muaj lub cim, pauv lus thiab txawm sau pants. Tsis txhob txhawj, tab sis ua si nrog. Nws xav ua kom swaddled thiab shaken, qaug cawv los ntawm ib lub raj mis, tsis txhob tsis kam, vim qhov ua tiav qhov kev ntshaw, tus me nyuam poob siab rau nws. Thiab koj xav tias nws yog loj thiab twb paub ua li cas nws tus kheej, thiab tus me nyuam tsis tuaj yeem ua tau. Tsis txhob hnov qab tus neeg laus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws yog ib tug me nyuam tub. Cov kev tshawb fawb tau pom tias lawv xav tau nws ntau dua cov ntxhais, coj txoj cai ntawm ironing thiab hnia tus txwj laus tsawg kawg yog 12 zaug ib hnub, tab txawm tias koj txiv pab koj thiab.Tag nrho lub neej ntawm ib leej niam leej txiv nyob ib ncig ntawm ib tug me nyuam: koj yuav tsum tau ntxuav kev taug kev, noj zaub mov. Thiab ze rau tus menyuam loj, leej twg xav ua si. Kuv yuav ua li cas? Qhia koj tus me nyuam thawj zaug "ua si tom tsev." Koj tuaj yeem npaj ib qho kev sib txuas ua ke, thiab thaum npaj pluas mov noj, ib daim duab uas yog daim duab, piv txwv li, beetroot, cia li pw ib lub thauv rau hauv pem teb thiab muab cov khaub ncaws uas koj tsis xav tau qias neeg. Thaum taug kev, thaum twg tus me nyuam pw, koj tuaj yeem siv sij hawm rau tus laus, leej twg tuaj yeem tshawb tag nrho cov swb thiab swings.
Tsis txhob sib piv cov menyuam. Nws ua rau me nyuam raug mob, vim hais tias txhua tus ntawm lawv yog qhov zoo rau nws tus kheej. Peb txhua tus sib txawv hauv lub siab zoo thiab kev txawj ntse. Peb yuav tsum tau qhia txhua tus me nyuam lub meej mom.
Tsim cov sijhawm rau kev sib koom tes, piv txwv, sau cov khoom ua si ua ke. Koj tuaj yeem tsim kev ua si uas muaj kev xav: ua si hauv khw, tsim ib lub fortress, thiab lwm yam.
Cov me nyuam yuav tsis sib ceg sib ceg, qhia kom lawv sib tham, los sis kis tawm ntawm cov chav hauv cov lus qhia txawv, cia lawv nyob ib leeg thiab khov kho. Qhuas yog tias lawv tau daws qhov teebmeem no. Tsis txhob txhawb kev sib cav sib ceg, tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam xav qhia dab tsi nws ua nws tus kheej, mloog thiab qhuas rau kev ua siab dawb. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom paub meej tias koj cov menyuam to taub: yog muaj neeg raug mob los yog muaj kev phom sij, ces koj yuav tsum paub txog tam sim ntawd.Psychologists hais tias me nyuam yaus sib khuav ntawm yug me nyuam ntawm lwm cov me nyuam yog kev noj qab nyob zoo. Tab sis vim li cas peb thiaj toob khab tsis muaj zog, puas yog?