Dheev ntawm ib tug me nyuam uas muaj qhov tsis zoo nws tshwm sim nyob rau hauv chav kawm thiab lub chaw hloov tam sim ntawd. Nws yog cov me nyuam yaus uas mob siab rau nws tus kheej, tab sis ntawm kev siv nyiaj rau lwm tus, xws li, kom poob siab los yog poob siab rau ib tug neeg, los kho cov me nyuam kom sib haum. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, cov tub kawm ntawv uas yog lawv cov xwm txheej zoo heev thiab tsis siv rau kev ua phem yuav raug kev txom nyem. Yog li ntawd, thaum cov niam txiv coj lawv cov me nyuam mus rau hauv thawj chav kawm, lawv yuav tsum nyob rau ntawm qhov kev ceeb toom thaum xub thawj, txog thaum lawv tau ntsib cov menyuam tag nrho. Piv txwv, yog tias cov niam txiv xav tias lawv tus me nyuam muaj teeb meem nrog nws cov phooj ywg, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj rau kev sib tham nrog nws thiab npaj nws rau txhua qhov teeb meem. Qhov no yuav ua rau tus me nyuam nkag siab tias yuav ua li cas thiaj zoo tuaj nrog kev ncaj ncees los ntawm qhov teeb meem tam sim no. Ntawm chav kawm, nws tsis pub leejtwg paub hais tias nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, kev tsis sib haum yog kev tsis pom nriav. Tsis yog txhua tus neeg nyiam ua, yog li ntawd nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau kho qhov no thiab tsis txhob khiav mus rau kev sib cav thiab sim tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo yam tsis muaj kev sib cav sib ceg. Koj tsis tuaj yeem nyiam txhua tus, lawv txhua tus to taub no zoo kawg nkaus. Yog li ntawd, cov laus yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias nws tsis tsim nyog txhua tus nyiam nws, ib tug neeg thiab tsis nyiam nws.
Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog ua rau tus me nyuam ntxim ntxias kom lawv tsis txhob sim hwm cov me nyuam los ntawm cov tub ceev xwm los ntawm khoom plig. Tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv nws tus kheej thiab paub tias tsis muaj kev xav muab rau hauv kev ua phem. Ib qho ntawm txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws yog kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog txhua tus neeg. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob txhawb ib tug neeg sab hauv kev sib cav. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua tau los ntawm kev tsim muaj kev zam txim. Yog tias tus me nyuam tsis sib haum nrog cov phooj ywg, ces cov niam txiv yuav tsum qhia rau tus xib fwb txog qhov teeb meem ntawm lawv tus me nyuam. Yog tias tus me nyuam tsis tau muaj kev sib raug zoo, ces koj tuaj yeem sim ua cov niam txiv. Muaj cov me nyuam uas tsis txaus siab, qhov no kuj dhau lawm, niam txiv yuav tsum pab tus me nyuam. Qee zaum lawv hais tias cov laus yuav tsum tsis txhob cuam tshuam rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov menyuam, vim lawv tus kheej yuav tsum daws lawv cov teeb meem. Qhov no tsis yog nyob rau txhua rooj plaub.
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tus menyuam yuav tsum tau txais kev txhawb nqa los ntawm cov laus. Thiab nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas cov menyuam yuav tsum tau nrog lawv niam lawv txiv. Cov niam txiv yuav nyob twj ywm heev, yog tias lawv muaj cwj pwm. Txawm hais tias tus me nyuam tsis pub cov neeg laus tuaj cuam tshuam rau hauv qhov teeb meem no, ib tus neeg tuaj yeem hais qhia seb yuav ua li cas thiaj li yog. Tag nrho cov niam txiv ntawm cov tub hluas xav kom lawv cov me nyuam sawv rau lawv tus kheej, txawm tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb thiab nrog kev pab ntawm cov me nyuam. Koj tuaj yeem xa cov tub mus rau cov kis las ua si kom lawv tuaj yeem tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej. Nws muaj ntau hom kev sib raug zoo hauv cov pab pawg menyuam yaus:
1. tsis quav ntsej txog;
2. tsis lees paub;
3. thim rov qab;
4. kev tsim txom.
Piv txwv li, tus me nyuam tsis tau them nqi dab tsi, vim nws tsis muaj nyob rau hauv tag nrho. Nws tsis tau muab lub luag haujlwm dabtsi, tsis txhob siv txhua yam kev ua si thiab tus menyuam no tsis nyiam rau leej twg. Tus me nyuam tsis paub tus xov tooj ntawm nws cov phooj ywg, tsis muaj nws cov phooj ywg caw nws tuaj xyuas. Thiab tom tsev nws tsis tham txog dab tsi thiab tsis hais ib lo lus txog nws lub tsev kawm ntawv.
Niam txiv yuav tsum nrog tus xib fwb tham thiab sim tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog cov me nyuam, kom lawv tus me nyuam tau txais cov phooj ywg. Muaj qee zaus thaum cov neeg hauv tsev kawm ntawv tsis xav tau zaum ntawm ib lub rooj, tsis xav tuaj koom nrog tib pab neeg ua si, yog li tus menyuam no tsis xav tuaj kawm ntawv, thiab hauv chav kawm tuaj rau qhov tsis zoo. Niam txiv sim pab lawv cov menyuam. Sim hloov cov menyuam mus rau lwm chav kawm lossis txawm mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv, sim qhia qhov teeb meem rau tus xib fwb, koj tuaj yeem xa mus rau ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws.
Muaj qees thaum cov me nyuam tab tom tu siab, hu ua, tas li thuam. Txawm tias yeej, yuav tshem tau thiab quab yuam lawv cov khoom. Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus mus hlawv ntshav, lawv yuav poob nyiaj. Qhov no yog qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau hais rau kom cov menyuam tsis raug tshem tawm ntawm pab pawg. Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem mus cuag tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws thiab sib tham txog qhov teeb meem no. Txhua tus menyuam yaus noj lub siab thiab lawv yooj yim rau kev ua txhaum, yog li, koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv lawv. Tam sim no koj paub yuav ua li cas qhia tus me nyuam tub los daws cov teeb meem hauv pab neeg.