Cov me nyuam txoj kev nyhav yog qhov tshwm sim tsis zoo, lawv ntsib feem ntau ntawm cov niam txiv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 1 xyoos. Cov me nyuam txoj kev nyhav yog tsis muaj dab tsi yog ib theem twg hauv kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam. Nrog nws tus chorus thiab tus npau suav, tus me nyuam sim ua kom tiav cov hom phiaj xav los sis qhia kev npau taws thiab npau taws rau cov taboos lossis kev txwv. Yog li, niam thiab txiv yuav tsum paub txog kev yuav ua li cas nrog cov menyuam yaus hauv cov menyuam yaus hauv ib xyoos.
Lub tswvyim ntawm "hysterics" thiab lub tswvyim ntawm "whim" yuav tsum yog qhov txawv. Tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam hauv ob qho no yog nrog nws los ntawm quaj, kua muag, poob mus rau hauv pem teb. Whims yog li thought-out, tus me nyuam ua txhob txwm tshaj tawm kom ua tau raws li nws xav. Feem ntau, cov dab neeg yog cov yam ntxwv ntawm cov menyuam yaus txog hnub nyoog ob. Hysteria kuj tshwm sim nrawm, tus me nyuam poob tswj nws tus cwj pwm txawv, thiab nws lub siab thiab kev npau taws tau qhia nyob rau hauv kev sib ntaus.
Cov niam txiv yuav tsum xav txog tias tus me nyuam kev xav tsis muaj zog, thaum lub sij hawm tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm tswj nws txoj kev xav thiab kev xav. Tiag tiag - tus me nyuam tsis ua si, nws kev poob siab thiab quaj yog sincere. Nws yog kev ntxhov siab thiab xav tau kev pabcuam rau koj, txawm tias nws cov haujlwm tsis txhaum los ntawm lwm yam.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau rau cov niam txiv yog tias cov menyuam yaus ib xyoos ua rau lawv muaj lub cev? Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws: Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam tau dov npo, tsis txhob ua li cas tus me nyuam xav ua. Yog tias tsawg kawg yog ib tus niam tso cai rau tus me nyuam teb rau ib qho kev sib tw ua rau ib lub vase, uas tsis tuaj yeem raug coj mus, nws yuav kho tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm thiab ua kom rov qog dua ib zaug. Txhawm rau me nyuam yaus thaum lub sij hawm ntawm hysteria yog qhia kom tus me nyuam "ntxias" kom ua tiav lawv cov hom phiaj, uas yog, kom muaj peev xwm. Tus me nyuam yuav sai sai no yog ib txoj kev nyiam tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua tiav cov hom phiaj.
Kev sib tham thaum lub sijhawm hla tus menyuam tsis muaj nqis rau nws. Tsis tas yuav yaum, scold, qw - qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog inconclusive, tab sis nws kuj tseem yuav ua rau kev xav txuas ntxiv ntawm kev coj cwj pwm phem. Tawm ntawm ib tug me nyuam ib leeg kuj tsis tsim nyog nws. Kev kho siab yog kev nyuaj siab. Koj yuav tsum nyob rau ntawd, ua kom zoo siab, tos tus me nyuam lub siab ntsws xav. Thaum koj paub tias lub tshav kub ntawm kev mob siab yog xa me nyuam rov qab, koj yuav tsum coj tus me nyuam mus rau lub npiv sov, thov txim thiab ua kom txaus siab. Feem ntau cov menyuam tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav theem kawg ntawm kev mob hlwb, lawv tsis tuaj yeem tsis quaj, vim li ntawd lawv xav tau kev pab ntawm ib tus neeg laus. Tsis txhob tso tus me nyuam khaus, txawm tias nws tsis yog lawm.
Nws yog nruj me ntsis txwv tsis pub qw rau tus menyuam thaum lub sijhawm nws cov kab lus, qhov ntau koj tuaj tsis tau nws. Cov kev ntsuas no tsuas ua rau lub zog ntawm lub xeev xwb. Quaj qw thiab flip flops - qhov no kuj yog ib yam zoo rau tus me nyuam, uas yog tus me nyuam mloog thiab tau txais los ntawm koj. Sim nyob twj ywm, tsis quav ntsej cov lus dag kom ntau li ntau tau. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, koj nyob hauv ib chav li koj tus me nyuam, ua koj tus kheej ua lag ua luam. Tsis ntev tom ntej tus me nyuam yuav to taub tias nws tus cwj pwm coj zoo tsis tuaj yeem coj cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo xav, thiab yog li ntawd tsis muaj dab tsi thiab siv nws lub zog rau nws.
Kev soj ntsuam yog ib qho zoo, uas pab niam txiv kom paub txog cov neeg tua kab ntawm cov keeb kwm ntawm tus cwj pwm me. Tej zaum nws yuav raug rau ntawm daim di ncauj los yog ua pa hnoos. Thaum koj ntes lub zog ntawm qhov pib cua daj - sim tam sim ntawd hloov cov xim ntawm tus me nyuam rau ib yam dab tsi entertaining. Tshaj tawm nws txoj kev xav rau lub khoom ua si, rau qhov tshwm sim tom qab lub qhov rai. Nco ntsoov tias hom no tsuas siv tau thaum pib ntawm hysteria xwb. Thaum tus me nyuam nyob hauv nruab nrab ntawm ib qho kev sib haum xeeb, nws tsis muaj qab hau sim hloov siab rau tus me nyuam. Txhob lam tau lam thim tus me nyuam yuav coj tus neeg laus tawm hauv seem.
Nco ntsoov, qaug zog thiab qaug zog pab rau qhov pom ntawm hysteria hauv tus menyuam. Hauv lub sijhawm, muab tus menyuam pw tsaug zog hmo ntuj thiab nruab hnub. Tsis txhob ua haujlwm dhau. Txhob ua phem rau cov khoom ua si, nrog rau tus me nyuam qaug zog nyeem phau ntawv, xim. Tus me nyuam nws tus kheej tsis paub yuav tsum nres thiab dhia thaum twg. Txoj kev saib xyuas ntawm tus me nyuam yog qhov hauj lwm ntawm cov laus.
Yog li, tus cwj pwm zoo ntawm cov niam txiv rau ntawm tus me nyuam yaus, tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov teeb meem no rau lub caij tseem ceeb, tsis xav ua kom haum rau hauv lub cev qis qis yuav tso cai rau cov me nyuam sib tua zoo dua.