Yog hais tias koj txiv leej tub tsis muaj mob, qhov no yog qhov feem ntau yuav hais rau cov khaub ncaws hnyav, hnav thom khwm, ris tsho hnav thiab tsho hnav. Thaum nug nws vim nws tsis tuaj yeem kho nws tus kheej, xws li ib tug txiv leej tub feem ntau teb tias nws zoo li qub. Muaj ntau tus ntxhais uas xav txog kev kov yeej tus txiv leej tub nkawv zoo li cas tsis xav tias cov tub ntxhais hluas tsuas thuam. Qhov tseeb, qhov no tsis yog li ntawd. Peb, tau kawg, nws nyuaj rau peb paub tias ib tus neeg hlub tau hais li ntawd. Tias 's txoj kev xwb nws yog. Yog li, thiaj li yuav tua tau lub ntiaj teb no, nws tseem ceeb kom to taub yog vim li cas koj tus txiv neej xav li ntawd.
Feem ntau, nyob rau hauv ib lub tuam txhab ntawm cov neeg nyiam thiab nyiam hluas, koj yuav luag tsis pom ib tug neeg uas tsis tau hloov thom khwm rau tsawg kawg ib lub lim tiam. Raws li, peb yuav hais nrog cog qoob loo uas cov hais mav raug cuam tshuam los ntawm lawv qhov chaw nyob. Nyob rau hauv ib co tuam txhab, txiv neej luag thaum cov phooj ywg uas ua kom zoo nkauj t-shirts thiab sim ua kom me ntsis. Hmoov tsis, cov menyuam yaus tsis to taub hais tias lawv ua li cas lawv ua tsis ncaj thiab lawv zoo li cas lawv pom sab nraud. Lawv muaj kev ntseeg siab tias yog lawv saib lawv tus kheej, lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob ua neeg tiag tiag.
Tsis tas li ntawd, qee tus neeg hais tsis zoo txog yam lawv muab rau thiab nws zoo li cas. Cov neeg hluas li no tsis muaj kev paub meej kiag li, thiab lawv tsuas tsis nkag siab tias vim li cas yuav tsum xaiv ib yam dab tsi, vim txhua lub tsho muaj ob lub tes tsho, thiab ris tsho muaj ob txhais ceg. Yog li vim li cas thiaj them nyiaj ntau dua thiab siv sij hawm ntxiv yog tias koj tuaj yeem tso rau tus thawj ib thiab mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv, chaw ua si los sis hauv kev lag luam.
Cov neeg no tsis tuaj yeem ua pov thawj tias lawv saib cov ruam yog tias koj siv cov lus sib cav xws li: "Tsis yog kiag li tam sim no." "Koj lub tsho tsuas tsis haum hnav ris tsho", "Lawv tsis mus rau lub tsev noj mov, hnav khaub ncaws thiab lub tsho Hawaii". Feem ntau, tom qab mloog txog tej yam no, cov txiv neej waving lawv tes ntawm peb thiab hais tias peb muab ntau xim rau khaub ncaws.
Yog li no, tus txiv neej tsis muaj zog yuav tsum tau ua raws li lwm txoj kev. Ua ntej, zoo li txhua tus txiv leej tub, nws xav tias nws tus kheej yog tus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws thiab tau ntxim hlub. Tab sis, ntxiv rau, nws xav ua kom zoo dua. Yog li, yog tias, piv txwv li, nws pom lwm tus txiv neej thiab pom tias nws tseem nyiam nrog cov ntxhais, thaum tus txiv neej hnav zoo, xws li thaum muaj kev sib tsoo: nws cia li nyob hauv ib lub tsho ntev (ris tsho, tsho). Nws tsis muaj dab tsi tshwj xeeb, tab sis cov khaub ncaws feem ntau tag nrho nws cov virtues thiab exaggerates lawv. Tsis tas li, thaum koj mus rau lub khw, txij ua ke mus ua ke qhia tus txiv neej khaub ncaws uas, hauv koj lub tswv yim, yuav zoo rau nws thiab nco ntsoov tias nyob rau hauv no nplua nws yuav tsuas irresistible. Thiab tseem, yog tias ua tau, ua khoom plig rau txiv leej tub. Nws yuav nqa khoom plig rau koj kom txaus siab, thiab yog li nws qhov zoo li yuav zoo dua.
Ntawm chav kawm, qhov tsis muaj style, qhov no tsis yog xws li ib qho teeb meem phem nyob rau hauv kev sib piv nrog slovenliness. Txawm hais tias tus txiv neej yog hnav khaub ncaws, tab sis cov khaub ncaws huv si thiab ironed, nws tsis zoo li phem li mashed, crumpled khoom muaj npe. Yog vim li ntawd koj thiaj li yuav tsum qhia ib tug tub hluas kom saib xyuas tom qab nws hnav khaub ncaws. Yog tias koj nyob ua ke, koj iron thiab ntxhua, thiab nws hloov khaub ncaws mus rau hauv cov khaub ncaws nyob rau hauv ib hnub, nrog nws tham txog nws yuav tsum ua li cas rau koj txoj haujlwm. Yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej hluas hais tias nws tsis nug koj txog nws, piav tias koj tsis xav kom neeg xav txog koj ua ib tug hostess phem heev. Qhia rau kuv tias koj tus kheej xav pom nws huv si thiab huv si, thiab thaum twg tom qab koj nraub qaum lawv ntxhi tias koj tsis ua raws li ib tug neeg hlub, nws ua tsis txaus siab rau koj, vim nws tsis tseeb. Hauv ntau zaus, cia li piav rau tus txiv leej tub hais tias nws tseem ceeb heev rau koj tias nws zoo li rab koob. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov tseeb, rau nws nws tsis yog nyuaj rau tag nrho thiab tsis cuam tshuam cov cai. Li ntawd, vim li cas tsis yog saib koj tus kheej.
Thiab nws yog tsim nyog los tham nrog nws txog cov lus qhia hauv cov khaub ncaws. Yog tias koj tus tub hluas xav txog nws tus kheej lub ntsej muag thiab txawj ntse, qhov no yog lub zog uas koj mus nias. Nco ntsoov tias nws yog los ntawm khaub ncaws uas peb qhia peb tus kheej lub ntiaj teb. Yog li ntawd, ntsia nws lub tsho thom khwm thiab lub tsho rau hauv cov pob, cov interlocutors pom tsis tus programmer feem ntau, tab sis ib qho tsis muaj zog PTU-shnik uas tsis tuaj yeem hnav kom zoo. Los ntawm txoj kev, yog tias koj tus txiv neej tsis hnav zoo, tsis txhob ua ib yam nrog koj tus kheej los qhia nws li cas nws yog dab tsi. Ntawm chav kawm, nyob rau hauv qee qhov xwm no ua haujlwm. Tab sis, qhov tseeb, cov hais mav tsis txawm pom tias ib yam dab tsi tsis yog nrog koj. Tab sis koj yuav hnov tsis tshua muaj kev xyuam xim thiab tsis xis nyob hauv qhov kev pom ntawm cov neeg kis-ntawm, cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg paub.
Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj txiv leej tub tsis muaj mob, cia li sim ua kom nws paub tias nws yuav zoo dua nyob huv huv thiab stylish khaub ncaws, lwm tus neeg yuav khib nws. Tsis tas li, koj yuav txaus siab rau nws ntau heev. Thiab tsis txhob hais tias koj txaj muag heev ntawm koj tus tub hluas. Rau ntau tus hais mav, qhov no yog qhov txaus ntshai. Lawv tsis to taub tias koj txaj muag ntawm nws cov khaub ncaws, tsis yog nws qhov tsos thiab tus cwj pwm. Qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Yog li ntawd, ua raws li ntse ntsuav thiab ua tsis ncaj, ces koj yuav ua tiav.