Raws li psychologists, muaj ib co universal txhais tau hais tias yuav pab tau kom ob peb xyoos, kev sib raug zoo ntawm passion. Cov poj niam yuav yooj yim dua kom muaj qhov mob siab rau, yog li ntawd, zoo li zoo tau, cov nyiaj no yog tsim rau cov txiv neej. Lawv pab nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov mob, thiab lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob raug tsim txom, vim hais tias thib ob ib nrab muaj peev xwm ntseeg koj ntawm insincerity. Thiab tom qab ntawd, yog tias lawv siv tas li, qhov tseeb ntawm kev hnov mob yuav poob.
Kev sib raug zoo thiab kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus txiv yuav txais kev cawmdim tsuas yog tias ib tug txiv neej thiab ib tug poj niam sim ib leeg txoj kev hlub thiab kev hwm. Thiab yog tias tsis muaj txoj kev xav li ntawd, ces tsis muaj lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yuav pab tau kom mob siab. Cia peb saib cov lus qhia.
1. Koj yuav tsum tau paub hais tias yuav hais li cas rau ib leeg rau ib leeg kom lawv tsis yog cov lus qhia xwb, cov ntsiab lus sov no yuav tsum tau hais tseeb tiag tiag thiab nrog lub siab ntshiab. Tom qab tag nrho, muaj tej zaum ib yam dab tsi hauv koj ib nrab, koj nyiam dab tsi? Los yog tau koj nyiam nws nws lub qhov muag, ob txhais ceg? Yog tias koj muaj lub plawv dhia, thaum koj nyiam tuaj tawm hauv ib qho zoo nkauj, zoo nkauj hnav ris tsho, yog li qhia koj tus neeg nkawv txog nws. Ib tug txiv neej yeej ib txwm muaj praised rau nws masculinity, rau nws saib xyuas, rhiab, kev vam meej hauv nws txoj haujlwm. Qhuas ntau tshaj plaws rau koj tus hlub, vim nws tsim nyog cov lus no, nws yeej tsis muaj kev tsis txaus siab. Thiab cov lus ua qab ntxiag yuav ua tau ib qho txuj ci tseem ceeb, koj ib nrab yuav zoo siab, so, tab sis tsis tau koj xav?
2. Txaus siab heev los ua kom tiav cov lus thov ntawm lawv tus hlub. Yog hais tias koj raug hais kom mloog, mloog los sis hnav khaub ncaws, ces hnav khaub ncaws uas nws thov kom tsis tas yuav tsum tsis lees paub, kho koj cov neeg txheeb ze. Thiab yog tias nws tau ua tiav koj qhov kev thov, nco ntsoov qhuas nws rau nws.
3. Sim sim lwm tus. Koj puas tau nyob ua ke rau xyoo thiab paub txhua yam txog kev sib? Ua koj tus yav tsaus ntuj dhau ib yam nkaus? Thiab koj ua rau koj tus hlub ib hmo romantic candlelight noj hmo. Yog tias koj nyiam los ntawm kev ua hauj lwm nkees, hu nws tus ntxhiab thiab chav da dej, taws cov taws tswm ciab, tig rau nws txoj kev nyiam nkauj. Zoo siab rau koj tus hlub uas nws nyiam khov los yog qab delicacy. Yog tias koj yuav ib qho khoom pub me me, nws yuav muaj peev xwm txhawb kom ob leeg sib raug zoo, thiab tsis txhob xav yuam kev nrog qhov khoom plig, koj yuav tsum tau thov ua ntej thiab taw qhia koj tus kheej rau cov tastes, npaj ib surprise rau koj tus neeg koj hlub.
4. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav raug kev quab yuam, tsis hais koj tus khub, los yog koj. Kawm kom zam txim, sib faib ib leeg rau kev kho, tsis txhob hnov qab hais tias feem ntau qhov teeb meem, raws li txoj cai, ob leeg yog liam.
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog, kom ntau li ntau tau lub sij hawm siv los nrog lwm tus. Muaj pes tsawg tus txij nkawm tom qab ob peb xyoos ua ke tau pauv yav tsaus ntuj nrog football thiab npias, los yog nrog phooj ywg thiab cov phooj ywg rau yav tsaus ntuj nrog lawv cov nrab? Tej zaum tsis muaj ntau, tab sis psychologists hais tias txawm cov phooj ywg tseem ceeb, tab sis nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw yuav tsum yog ib tug neeg ze thiab tsev neeg. Qee lub sij hawm koj tuaj yeem tua fij rau yav tsaus ntuj nrog cov phooj ywg thiab mus rau hmo ib hmo. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov no koj tsis tsuas pub, tab sis kuj muab koj tus neeg koj hlub kom to taub tias hauv koj lub neej yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog nws.
Sau txhua lwm cov lus sib hlub, tej zaum cov tswv yim no, thiab nkees, thiab nws tau muab txhua yam xov xwm tshiab-fangled magazines, tab sis nws ua hauj lwm. Cov ntawv me me, kev pom zoo, kev qhuas thiab kev thov ntxim hlub, vim nws zoo nkauj heev. Ntseeg cov txiv neej kom tau txais tsab ntawv hlub los yog tsab ntawv, nws zoo nkauj heev, koj tuaj yeem ntseeg. Nco ntsoov kos npe rau nws, hloov lo lus, rau cov lus hais tias "Kuv yeej nco kuv tus hlub, Kuv tos ntsoov pom koj," kos npe koj lub npe nrog kev hlub ...!
Nws tau ntev tau sau tseg tias cov khub niam txiv feem ntau tshwm sim ua ke muaj kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev neeg. Nquam paj nquam nruas hnub, sim mus ua ke mus xyuas cov rooj sib tham ntawm cov txheeb ze nyob deb, tag nrho qhov no yuav cia koj nco qab koj txoj kev hlub. Kev tshwm sim ua ke rau hauv ib qho chaw pej xeem, koj tuaj yeem ntseeg hais tias koj yog ib khub niam txiv. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau tus poj niam xav tias nws yog nws tus kheej.
Txhua leej txhua tus xav tau kev hlub txawm lawv muaj hnub nyoog los yog poj niam txiv neej. Tsis muaj leej twg xav siv lawv lub neej nyob ib leeg, txhua tus neeg xav tau cua sov, txhua tus xav ua kom tu. Kev txhawj xeeb tshaj yog kev saib xyuas ntawm ib tug neeg hlub. Rau cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg tsis ua kom puas tsuaj rau hauv tsev neeg, koj yuav tsum xav txog kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tus neeg uas koj hlub nrog rau ib lub sijhawm, ces koj yeej yuav tsis muaj peev xwm nrhiav tau cov kua muag poob.
Thaum xaus, peb tuaj yeem hais tias txoj kev sib raug zoo yuav tshwm sim tom nws qhov siab, yog tias koj yuav tau saib xyuas lawv. Nws yuav pab muab lub neej mus rau ib puag ncig ntawm kev mob siab txawm tias qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov nws ua rau koj paub, hwm thiab kev hlub. Peb cia siab tias peb tsab xov xwm yuav pab koj thiab qhia koj txog kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus txiv.