Siv cov lus txhawb nqa tsis yog los pab tus neeg teb xov tooj xwb, tab sis nws kuj tsim kom muaj kev sib txuas lus zoo tshaj plaws thiab kev koom tes yav tom ntej.
Txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws yog ua raws li kev hlub.
Rau tus ntxhais, qhov kev qhuas nws mloog nws yog ib tug zoo stimulus, penetrated los ntawm lub subconscious, loj hlob, ncav cov muaj txiaj ntsig zoo nrog nws tau kev ua neej. Cov poj niam, tsis yog lub paj zoo nkauj tshaj plaws thiab ua tau zoo nkauj dua, txais kev pom zoo tias nws muaj qhov xav tau thiab muaj peev xwm dhau los ua ib tus hlub.
Lub siab xav kom txiv neej, los yeej lawv nrog lawv cov zoo qualities yog xam rau cov poj niam los ntawm cov xwm nws tus kheej. Yog hais tias nws tsis yog, txoj cai ntawm ntuj xaiv yuav tsis ua hauj lwm, txav evolution rau pem hauv ntej. Vim hais tias tsuas yog tus poj niam zoo tshaj plaws muaj lub caij nyoog xaiv cov neeg zoo tshaj plaws, cov neeg muaj zog tshaj plaws ntawm cov txiv neej ib nrab rau kev yug me nyuam yav tom ntej ntawm cov me nyuam yaus uas muaj zog thiab zoo nkauj, muaj peev xwm muaj sia nyob rau tej qhov nyuaj tshwj xeeb thiab kev luam ntawm ntau tiam neeg.
Ua raws li kev cai lij choj ntawm tib neeg, cov txiv neej sim xaiv cov poj niam zoo nkauj tshaj plaws thiab zoo tshaj plaws, subconsuallyously li xaiv lawv niam rau lawv cov me nyuam yav tom ntej.
Tab sis qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab zoo nkauj tshaj plaws yuav tsum tau kov yeej thiab kov yeej.
Thiab tau txais ib lub txiaj ntsig huag, tsis yooj yim li cas! Tus neeg yos hav zoov thiab tus tub rog yog tus txiv neej ib txwm yuam kom qhia tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws, kev ua siab ntev thiab kev ua siab ntev yog tias nws xaiv qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm cov poj niam. Vim hais tias yog nws yog ib tug tub rog nws tus kheej, tus neeg yos hav zoov, ces tus poj niam tiag tiag uas tsis tau poob nws lub ntuj qub kev xav yuav tsis yooj yim. Nws yog ib lub fortress, ib tug mos lwj tsis muaj lub ntsej muag uas yuav dhau los ua ib tus neeg uas muaj peev xwm hais tau nws hais tias nws yuav zoo, zoo thiab muaj kev nyab xeeb. Ntawm no nws yuav tsum tau hais lus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws rau ib tug ntxhais!
Hauv cov teeb meem no, dhau li ntawd, muaj lawv txoj cai thiab cov kev coj ua pov thawj nyob hauv kev xyaum, uas zoo dua yog tias koj tsis xav tsis xav yog tias koj xav ua kom tiav. Tshwj xeeb, vim hais tias tus txiv neej xav kom kov yeej tus ntxhais, qhia nws cov lus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws, nws yuav tsum ua tib zoo mloog thiab saib nws txog nws qhov kev xav thiab kev xav. Pom ib lub caij hauv nws cov khaub ncaws los yog hairstyle, uas nws feem ntau pom tias qhov kev taw qhia, koj yuav tsum yeej qhia nws tias nws yog appreciated. Txawm li cas los, ib tug yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab txog sab ntsuj plig sab ntawm tus neeg nws xaiv. Koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov qhia nws txog nws tus kheej, nws txoj kev xav, nws kev txhawj xeeb thiab qhia nws txoj kev npaj mus koom nrog nws lub neej. Maj mam, nws yuav siv rau yam uas xav tau thiab hlub, ces mam li paub tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm ua tsis tau ib tus neeg, raws li yog hais tias nws tsuas hais lus qhuas tus ntxhais, qhov tseeb yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm nws lub neej tag nrho.
Nrhiav cov lus uas yuav yog qhov zoo nkauj tshaj plaws rau tus ntxhais - tag nrho cov duab! Muaj cov kev kawm txawm tias, xav thiab tawm los ntawm cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab cov tib neeg uas tau ncav lub hom phiaj no. Yog li, piv txwv li, siv qhov kev kawm no, koj tuaj yeem paub tias cov lus qhuas yog qhov sib txawv.
Muaj cov lus qhuas - kev sib piv, thaum tus neeg xav hais lus zoo, muab piv nrog ib tus neeg los ntawm cov neeg nto moo, uas yog hais txog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev zoo nkauj, txawj ntse lossis txawj. Piv txwv li: "Nyob rau hauv kev sib piv nrog koj, Venus Milosskaya yog tsuas yog ib tug milkmaid los ntawm lub zos ntawm Gadyukino." Los yog: "Yog Madonna hnov koj lub suab, nws yuav mus thiab tua nws tus kheej!"
Lwm cov xwm txheej, nws yog txoj kev cai yoojyim rau tus cwj pwm zoo tshaj plaws hauv kev sib tham, hu rau hauv ib daim ntawv qhib. Piv Txwv: "Koj tau ua kom zoo rau qhov teeb meem no uas kuv, tej zaum, yuav tsis tau ua li ntawd".
Muaj cov lus qhuas uas tsis ncaj ncees, thaum tus neeg tau txais txiaj ntsim zoo tsis txawv, tab sis cov neeg uas saib nws: "Dab tsi yog ib qho amazing dev koj muaj. Nws yog tshwm sim sai sai li cas ntse thiab ntse nws yog. Nws muaj qhov muag zoo li ntawd! "
Los yog: "Muaj xws li qhov chaw sov so, hauv koj lub tsev!"
Kev lom zem tuaj yeem nqa tau yog tias ib tus neeg qhuas nws tus kheej:
"Koj nyob nraum zoo! Yog li ntawd, cov tub ntxhais hluas, tab sis twb tau raug ntau! Koj tau tswj hwm nws li cas? "
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws compliments rau ib tug ntxhais yuav ib txwm yog cov neeg yog hais tias muaj ntau adjectives nyob rau hauv ib qho zoo degree: "tiag unpredictable", "angelically zoo nkauj", "tag nrho cov haib," "amazing," "graceful," "dizzying," " "Zoo kawg," "diplomatic," "zoo," "ntev-awaited," "precious," "sincere," "tshwj xeeb," "poj niam," "xav," etc.
Ib qho cuab yeej ua rau neeg nyiam thiab nyiam kev ua haujlwm yog tias qhov kev qhuas zoo nkauj zoo nkauj nyob rau hauv daim ntawv tawm suab, qhia txog tus pojniam ntawm lub siab tias nws muaj lub hwjchim uas tsis muaj hwjchim nyiam attracting txiv neej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tsis tau ua dhau los, vim yog nws xav tau ib qho lus hais, txhua qhov kev zoo nkauj zoo nkauj rau tus ntxhais yuav tig mus ua hmoov av rau hauv nws lub qhov muag! Yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej yeej pom hauv nws xaiv ib tug tus vajtswv dawb huv, ces, thaum hais cov lus no, nws yuav tsis whine txhua. Tab sis yog hais tias nyob rau hauv lub siab glow ntawm kev xav lub gentleman yog tsis paub tseeb, nws yog qhov zoo dua tsis mus coj.
Tsis muaj dab tsi nyob rau hauv daim duab ntawm compliments tshaj li ib tug tag nrho falsity. Txawm hais tias muaj cov poj niam zoo li no npaj siab mloog lawv tus kheej thiab lawv cov kev xav hauv kev xav paub tseeb, tsuas yog tau txais los ntawm qhov kev siab dub no xwb. Tab sis qhov no yog ib rooj plaub txawv, uas cia cov psychologists ua. Txawm hais tias, rau cov neeg txais kev pab no xaiv "compliments" yuav tsis yooj yim.
Qhov tseeb, kev tsis txaus siab zoo nkauj tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov tsis zoo los ntawm qhov txhais, vim hais tias nws tau ua txhaum thiab ua rau ib tus neeg uas nyiam thiab tsim nyog tshaj. Kev ua siab zoo thiab kev zoo siab, kev soj ntsuam thiab pom zoo ntawm lub neej, ntawm cov neeg yeej ib txwm pab kom xaiv cov lus zoo tshaj plaws thiab muaj tseeb uas koj tuaj yeem yeej lub plawv ntawm ib yam, txawm tias zoo nkauj tshaj plaws tus ntxhais.