Qhov txawv ntawm hnub nyoog li ntawm tsib mus rau xya xyoo
Qee cov tsev neeg txiav txim siab muab yug me nyuam thib ob tom qab tus laus hlob zuj zus - tom qab 5-7 xyoo. Feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam tus kws kho mob hais tias qhov txawv ntawm cov hnub nyoog yog qhov tsis zoo. Nws puas yog qhov phem tiag tiag? Cia peb xav txog ua ke zoo thiab tsis zoo.
Txoj hauv kev zoo
Qhov loj tshaj plaws ntawm qhov sib txawv hauv cov hnub nyoog ntawm cov me nyuam yog tias tus me nyuam loj dua twb dhau los ua tus neeg sab nraud thiab tsis tas yuav tsum paub ntau dua los ntawm niam txiv. Nws tuaj yeem saib TV, ua si nrog cov khoom ua si thiab txawm tias nws cov phooj ywg. Tsis tas li ntawd, tus me nyuam twb to taub zoo vim li cas ib tug yuav tsum tsis txhob suab nrov, nws tuaj yeem pab koj hauv qib qis: muab koj tus mosab los ua lub txiv mis, nqa ntaub qhwv los yog ua si nrog nws. Thaum xub thawj siab, cov no yog cov nyuaj trivia, tab sis lawv ua lub neej yoojyim rau niam tom ntej.
Tsis tas li ntawd, qhov zoo ntawm sab nraud yog tias tus me nyuam loj dua tsis tuaj yeem ua kom khib tus yau. Tom qab tag nrho, nws to taub hais tias tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab tu thiab tias qhov no tsis txhais hais tias nws hlub tshaj. Txawm hais tias nws tsis yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsis pub ua tus saib xyuas ntawm qhov ntsej muag, txwv tsis pub nws yuav muaj ib tug tsis nyiam rau tus yau nyob rau hauv ib theem subconscious. Sab nraud txhua tus tuaj yeem saib kev nyab xeeb, tab sis qhov khib siab zais yuav ua rau muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws loj heev. Yog li ceev faj.
Cov yam ntxwv tsis zoo
Qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias thaum lub hnub nyoog no tus menyuam yuav tsum mus kawm ntawv. Lub sijhawm no tseem ceeb heev rau cov niam txiv xwb, tiam sis kuj yog rau tus menyuam. Yog li, niam txiv yuav tsum tau muab lawv cov me nyuam ntau lub sij hawm thiab kev saib xyuas - cov chaw hauv kev npaj rau tsev kawm ntawv, kev kawm, tus kws kho mob kev hais lus, thawj chav kawm. Tag nrho cov sij hawm cov niam txiv yuav tsum nyob ze tus me nyuam, vim hais tias nws yog ib lub sij hawm nyuaj nyuaj siab thiab lub siab ntsws.
Yog tias tus me nyuam thib ob yug, ces lub sij hawm rau tus me nyuam loj dua yuav ua rau me me tsis muaj teeb meem. Lawm, leej niam leej twg yuav sim ua txhua yam hauv lub sijhawm. Tab sis koj nyuam qhuav xav tias nws nyuaj npaum li cas, tsis tsuas yog lub cev, tab sis kev xav. Li ntawd, nws yog qhov zoo rau hnyav txhua yam ua ntej koj noj ib kauj ruam.
Qhov txawv ntawm cov menyuam hauv yim-kaum xyoo thiab ntau dua
Yog tias tus menyuam thib ob yog "lig", ces qhov teeb meem no yuav txawv ntawm tag nrho cov saum no.
Txoj hauv kev zoo
Yog hais tias cov me nyuam muaj qhov sib txawv loj heev, ces txog kev khib thiab hais tsis tuaj yeem mus. Tus txwj laus yuav paub zoo tias tus me nyuam tsis pom nws txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws niam nws txiv. Txawm hais tias qhov no tsis txhais tau hais tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob them nyiaj rau cov menyuam yaus.
Ntxiv rau, tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog tau txais kev pabcuam rau nws: nws tuaj yeem mus tom khw, noj zaub mov (yam tsawg kawg hauv kib qe), ntxuav cov menyuam hnav thiab tseem nrog tus menyuam mos. Tab sis ntawm no nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los kos ib txoj kab nruj nruj - tus me nyuam loj dua tuaj yeem hloov tsis tau rau ib tus neeg yau rau tus yau. Koj tuaj yeem tsim txom tsis raug cai. Tom qab tag nrho, koj muaj peev xwm tsis pub koj tus me nyuam hlob ntawm nws thaum yau.
Lwm ntxiv yog tias tus laus tus kwv tij los yog tus muam yuav yog tus cai rau tus yau. Nws yuav muaj peev xwm ua hauj lwm ua ib qho piv txwv rau kev coj cwj pwm, los saib thaum muaj kev xav tau thiab qhia ib yam dab tsi zoo thiab tseem ceeb. Raws li txoj cai, tus me nyuam yau tsis tuaj yeem tsis kam lees yuav tus niam txiv lub tswv yim, tab sis tus viv ncaus los sis tus kwv tij xav tau qhov xwm txheej. Koj tus yau yuav muaj kev tiv thaiv thiab kev txhawb nqa hauv lub neej, thiab tus txwj laus - ib tug neeg zoo thiab nyob zoo txog tus txiv neej.
Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom tsis txhob hais qhov Pope. Feem ntau tus neeg laus yog tus muaj lub luag haujlwm ntau tshaj rau tus menyuam thib ob. Yog li ntawd, koj tuaj yeem paub tseeb tias koj tus txiv yuav pab koj txhua yam. Thiab tus me nyuam yaus yuav tau txais kev txhawj xeeb ntau dua tus txwj laus tau txais.
Cov yam ntxwv tsis zoo
Nyob rau hauv xws li qhov sib txawv nruab nrab ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm qhov tsis zoo sab tsis yog li ntawd, tab sis lawv tseem muaj nyob. Thiab feem ntau lawv muaj feem xyuam nrog cov hnub nyoog ntawm cov niam txiv. Koj tus kheej yuav tsum to taub tias muaj qhov sib txawv ntawm qhov uas cev xeeb tub hauv nees nkaum xyoo thiab ntawm peb caug. Tus poj niam yuav tsum to taub tias thaum lub hnub nyoog muaj menyuam hauv plab yog qhov nyuaj, yog li ntawd tus kws kho mob pojniam yuav yog koj tus phoojywg zoo.
Lub sijhawm yug menyuam yuav tsis yooj yim. Tom qab tag nrho, lub cev twb tau tsis nco qab lawm txog qhov yug ntawm tus me nyuam yog. Tsis tas li, yog tias qhov sib txawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus muaj ntau tshaj kaum tawm xyoo, ces cov kws kho mob muab cov poj niam nrog cov primipara sib npaug. Kev txheeb xyuas kab mob qhia tau tias ib nrab ntawm kev cev xeeb tub tag nrog lub plawv mob. Thiab nws tsis yog xav tsis thoob. Vim hais tias txhua txhua xyoo peb lub cev tsis tuaj yau, thiab peb tau txais ntau yam kab mob ntev.
Tab sis qhov no tsis yog kev zam txim rau kev tso cai ntawm kev ua niam txiv rau qhov thib ob zaug. Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam yog peb txoj kev zoo siab, peb kev sib txuas ntawm tsev neeg. Yog li, qhov kev xeeb menyuam thib ob yuav tsum npaj kom zoo dua thiab muaj kev lav ris. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los pib npaj rau nws ua ntej: nrog nws tus txiv, mus ntsib ib tus kws kho mob, kws kho mob - ib tug kws kho mob, ib tus kws kho mob pojniam. Xyuas kom zoo zoo thiab nco ntsoov tias koj txoj kev noj qab haus huv yog zoo, thiab koj tuaj yeem mob siab thiab muab yug tus menyuam thib ob.
Raws li koj tau pom, nws tsis muaj peev xwm hais txog unambiguously dab tsi yuav tsum yog qib siab txawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Txhua yam nyob ntawm ntau yam thiab ntawm ib tsev neeg. Yog li ntawd, nws yog txog koj. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom nco ntsoov tias nrog tus me nyuam thib ob, tus me nyuam loj dua yuav tsum tsis txhob poob siab los ntawm cov niam txiv, nws yuav tsum tsis txhob ua tus neeg yau rau tus yau. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov ob qho tib si yuav tsum tau hnov koj txoj kev hlub, kev saib xyuas thiab saib xyuas kom zoo tshaj.
Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab txog koj tus kheej. Tom qab tag nrho, nrog rau tus me nyuam thib ob, koj yuav muaj tsawg lub sij hawm rau koj tus kheej. Koj yuav tau them ob zaug ntau dua rau koj cov menyuam. Tab sis koj tus txiv yuav ua rau tus me nyuam thib ob dua, thiab koj tuaj yeem tso siab rau nws thiab nug kev pab. Tom qab tag nrho, koj tus txij nkawm yuav muaj kev paub txog yuav ua li cas swaddle tus me nyuam, yuav nws, noj los yog hloov pawj. Ntxiv rau, tus menyuam loj tuaj yeem pab koj nrog tus yau tshaj.