Thiab yuav ua licas thaum lub paj-menyuam yaus raug kaw tas li thiab nyob hauv lawv lub ntiaj teb? Muaj ntau tus kws tshawb fawb pom tias yog vim li cas rau kev cais ntawm cov menyuam yaus, tab sis lawv tsis tau mus txog ib qho kev txiav txim siab, yog li ntawd muaj ntau lub tswv yim thiab kev pab tswv yim yuav ua li cas kom tau cov me nyuam tawm hauv lub xeev kev sib cais.
Lub tswv yim ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws
Feem ntau cov neeg tshawb nrhiav ntseeg hais tias lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem yuav tsum tau nrhiav nyob rau hauv thaum yau. Los yog, ua ntej yug tus me nyuam, thaum lub sij hawm ntawm nws gestation. Psychologists ntseeg tau hais tias yog tias tus me nyuam yug thaum ntxov, nyob rau ntawm ib lub sij hawm txog li 33 lub lis piam, ces, feem ntau yuav, nws yuav yog ib tug introvert, ib tug neeg uas yog nws tus kheej. Yog vim li cas qhov no tuaj yeem pab ua ib qho kev sib cais ntawm tus me nyuam mos thiab leej niam tam sim ntawd tom qab yug me nyuam. Qhov tseeb yog tias cov me nyuam yug ntxov ntxov raug xa mus rau cov me nyuam me tom qab yug me nyuam, ib chav tsev tshwj xeeb uas muaj qee qhov chaw noo thiab kub. Qhov no, qhov thib ib, cuam tshuam rau qhov tsis zoo ntawm tus me nyuam, vim hais tias nws tsis yog thawj qhov kev xav ntawm tus niam tsev, nws tau kho siab.
Tab sis sau ntawv tawm ntawm tus me nyuam txoj kev sib cais tsuas yog ua ntej prematurity xwb yog ruam thiab tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Xws li lwm cov laj thawj, cov neeg tshawb xyuas tsom rau cov mob ntawm cov me nyuam thaum muaj hnub nyoog. Thaum tus me nyuam hnov mob, tsis xis nyob vim kub cev los yog qaug zog, nws mus rau hauv nws lub ntiaj teb. Qhov no tshwm sim vim hais tias lub xeev tshiab rau nws yog qhov txawv thiab tsis kaj siab. Yog li, tsis txhob coj koj tus me nyuam raws li ib tug me nyuam. Qee lub sij hawm koj xav nrog nws tham ua ib tus laus thiab qhia qhov teeb meem. Ntxiv rau qhov no yog vim li cas rau kev rho tawm ntawm cov menyuam yaus - luv luv. Thaum tus me nyuam rov qab, tag nrho cov teeb meem thiab kev txhawj xeeb lawv tus kheej yaj.
Qhov ua, uas yog tshwm sim los ntawm sab nraud, ntau dua. Piv txwv, cov me nyuam kawm ntawv tuaj yeem ua rau cov neeg siab phem thab plaub vim qhov tsom iav, qhov tsis txaus siab lossis qhov siab me. Tab sis cov me nyuam yaus ntawm preschool hnub nyoog tuaj yeem raug xauv rau lawv tus kheej vim kev sib cav ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Qhov tseeb, yuav luag tag nrho cov kws kho hlwb hais tias ib qho ntawm feem ntau yog vim li cas rau kev cais ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog qhov chaw nyob tsis muaj tsev nyob hauv tsev neeg. Thaum tus me nyuam pom scandals hauv tsev neeg, nws muaj kev hloov loj hauv nws txoj kev pom. Qhov teeb meem yog tias cov me nyuam yuav tsum tham txog tag nrho lawv cov phooj ywg, tab sis lawv tsis xav qhia cov lus qhia xws li, lawv zais nws tus kheej, uas yog vim li cas thiaj li raug rho tawm. Tsis tas li ntawd, vim hais tias kev sib cav sib ceg hauv tsev neeg, tus me nyuam tuaj yeem pom nws tus kheej zoo, tsis tseem ceeb thiab nws thiaj li yuav tsis pom.
Tsis tas li ntawd, kev cais ntawm tus kheej tuaj yeem ua haujlwm nrog tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg. Cia peb hais tias koj xav tias nws ruam dhau los siv nyiaj rau hauv kindergarten, yog tias koj muaj ib tus pog nyob hauv tsev. Tab sis! Yuav kom tus menyuam txhim kho kom yog, nws xav tau kev sib txuas lus tsis yog nrog cov laus xwb, tab sis ua ntej txhua yam uas muaj ib xyoos. Nrog lawv, nws yuav muaj peev xwm ua hauj lwm ntawm kev sib npaug zos, sib qhia cov ntaub ntawv nthuav. Ntawm chav kawm, koj tuaj yeem koom nrog koj pog, tab sis dab tsi yuav yog lo lus teb: "Umnichka! Tag nrho rau hauv leej txiv! "Thiab tag nrho cov no tsis yog kev sib tham, vim hais tias tej yam uas nws tau tham txog zoo li nws tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb. Nws yuav nyuaj rau ib tus neeg laus los txhawb qhov kev sib tham no "ntawm kev sib npaug zos". Tab sis qhov no tsis txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum tau "lisp" nrog tus me nyuam, sim lub hnub nyoog no kom paub tias nws yog ib tus neeg laus. Tsis tas li ntawd, txoj kev tsis sib txuas lus nrog cov phoojywg tuaj yeem ua rau tsis muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog lawv. Thiab ces koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav tsis thoob tias koj tus me nyuam yuav tsis pom ib hom lus nrog cov me nyuam, koj tsis tau muab nws lub sij hawm no.
Zoo, ces. Vim li cas thiaj txhais, tam sim no nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom paub tseeb tias koj tus menyuam yeej raug kaw lossis nws yog koj lub plhu zoo nkaus xwb. Tej zaum koj tsuas yog tus extrovert uas nyiam kev sib txuas lus, coj cov qhua, tog thiab yam zoo li ntawd. Tab sis qhov no tsis txhais hais tias koj tus menyuam yuav tsum ua raws nraim li ntawd. Yog tias nws zoo siab mus kawm ntawv, tab sis tsis muaj ib puas phoojywg nyob ntawd thiab ua tib zoo xaiv tus phoojywg, ces qhov no tsis txhais hais tias nws raug kaw. Koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias txhua tus neeg muaj kev txawv txav, txawv temperaments, cov cim, tus cwj pwm, yog li koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais tsis zoo li koj, tab sis lawv tsis kaw txhua.
Nws yog lwm qhov teeb meem yog qhov teeb meem tiag tiag tshwm sim thiab koj tus me nyuam tsis kam mus rau kindergarten, vim nws tsis muaj phooj ywg thiab nyiam muaj. Tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum tsiv mus rau cov haujlwm ubno. Txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws yog mus rau ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws uas yuav pab koj tus me nyuam raws li nws tus kheej.
Tab sis, qhov no tsis txhais hais tias txhua yam teeb meem uas koj tuaj yeem ua haujlwm zoo rau lub xub pwg ntawm ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. Tom qab tag nrho, ib qho ntawm lub tswv yim ntawm ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws yog kom koj ua haujlwm nrog tus menyuam. Peb yuav ua haujlwm li cas nrog tus menyuam thiab tshem nws tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem ntawm kev sib cais, peb mam li tham hauv qab no.
Nrog cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv tsev:
1. Tsis txhob tso siab rau koj tus menyuam, txhob nyem. Xav txog koj tus kheej hauv nws qhov chaw, koj puas kam lees ua lus nug: "Dab tsi yog yuav nrog koj? Vim li cas koj thiaj li ntsiag to? "
2. Xws li cov menyuam yaus yog los ntawm conservatism, nyob rau ib lub sij hawm thaum lawv xav tau lwm qhov tshiab - nrhav! Sim ua kom nws lub neej ntau dua, hloov lub sijhawm pw thiab lom ze, hauv ib lo lus, sim!
3. Tsis txhob hnov qab qhuas tus menyuam. Nws yuav tsum paub hais tias nws tabtom ua ib yam dab tsi uas lub zej zog xav tau.
4. Sim ua kom nws paub ntau dua. Tsis txhob ntshai mus qaub nws nrog rhiab, tsuas yog tsis indulge tag nrho cov kev ntshaw.
5. Npaj cov hnub so thiab caw koj cov phooj ywg! Thaum zoo li no, koj cov me nyuam yuav tuaj yeem siv tau rau lub koom txoos thiab ua rau ntau dua.
6. Ntau npaum li ua tau, coj tus me nyuam tawm hauv qhov kaj, ua phooj ywg nrog phooj ywg thiab lawv cov me nyuam. Ua kom nws paub tseeb tias koj txaus siab rau nws. Qhov no yuav ntxiv kev ntseeg tus kheej thiab kev ntseeg tus kheej.
Yog li, vim li cas thiaj xav tias, lub tswv yim muab, nws tseem mus thov qhov no rau koj tus tub los sis tus ntxhais uas nws hlub. Qhov tseem ceeb, nco ntsoov tias txoj hmoo ntawm tus me nyuam yog nyob rau hauv koj txhais tes, thiab yog tias koj tsis pab nws tawm ntawm lub xeev ntawm kev cais, ces kev vam meej hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub ua tsis tau!