Qhov tseeb, yog tias: Kuv nyiam leej twg xaiv, kuv tsis paub, koj kho tsis tau ib yam dab tsi rau ib qho dav dav. Nyob rau hauv txhua "Kuv nyiam" muaj ntau yam tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau muab coj los txheeb xyuas qhov teeb meem. Yog li ntawd, peb yuav tsum simulate qhov teeb meem nyob rau hauv uas qhov no "hlub ob" sawv, thiab ces nrog nws.
Yog li, vim li cas ho tsis kuv xaiv? Cia peb hais ib tug ntxhais hais tias "Kuv tsis paub", vim hais tias qhov teeb meem nram no tau tsim. Peb tus heroine yog ib tug hluas nkauj heev. Nws tsis yog lus nug txog kev xaiv ib tus neeg uas nws yuav tau sib yuav rau yav tom ntej. Nws muaj ib tug tub hluas. Qhov no yog nws thawj, tus neeg laus txoj kev hlub, uas nws tau ua npau suav thiab ntev ntev. Ntawm lawv, thaum pom thawj zaug, txhua yam yog qhov zoo. Tab sis, qhov tseeb, muaj ntau "Kuv tsis paub" thiab "Kuv tsis to taub." Tus poj niam pom nws cov minuses hauv nws, yog tu siab thiab chim siab, tab sis tseem tseem ntseeg tias nws xav li cas thiab hauv lawv lub neej yav tom ntej.
Thiab ces lwm tus txiv neej tshwm. Outwardly thiab tus cwj pwm zoo, nws yog txawv kiag li los ntawm nws tus hluas nraug. Thiab, feem ntau tseem ceeb, thawj nws tsis ua txuj coj nws qhov chaw. Nws yog ib tug phoojywg zoo, ua haujlwm zoo rau ib tug kwvtij, nrog rau tus neeg uas nws muaj kev ntseeg siab ntawm sab ntsuj plig thiab lub hlwb. Txawm li cas los, thaum lub sij hawm dhau mus, nws hloov tawm tias txoj kev xav rau nws tsis nyob hauv txhua tus kwv tij. Nws pom hauv tus tub hluas no ib tug txiv neej thiab to taub tias nws tsis ua rau nws. Thiab, feem ntau yog interestingly, nyob rau hauv nws lub qhov muag mus rau nws yog nyeem kuj tsis nyiam kev xav. Nov yog qhov teeb meem pib tshwm sim. Yuav ua li cas thiab ua rau leej twg? Tom qab tag nrho, nws zoo nkaus li tias tus ntxhais nyiam ob leeg, tsuas yog nyob hauv txoj kev sib txawv.
Qhov tseeb, nws yog qhov tsim nyog, tag nrho txhua qhov, to taub los ntawm tus neeg twg uas muaj peev xwm tsis kam. Thiab los ntawm ib tug neeg nws tseem tau tso tseg. Txawm tias yog ib tug ntawm ob tug txiv neej nws muaj ib tug phooj ywg, thiab nws pom zoo, qhov kev phooj ywg no nyuaj rau nws thiab nws. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws cov lus thiab kev xav yuav tsis dhau ib xyoo, tsis yog hauv ob.
Hauv qhov no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab tias nws yog leej twg ntshai tshaj poob. Thiab, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau nws yog kev phooj ywg ntawm tus neeg no los yog nws lub neej nyob hauv lub neej, ua cim tseem ceeb. Tseem, ib tug phooj ywg zoo tseem tuaj yeem pom, txawm tias nws yuav nyuaj. Tab sis yog tias nws hloov tawm tias tus txiv leej tub ntawd yog nws txoj kev hlub tiag, ces, thaum lub sij hawm, nws yuav pib ua "tom nws lub luj tshib." Tias yog vim li cas koj thiaj li to taub koj uas koj hlub. Peb tej kev xav qee zaus thiab tsis meej pem, tab sis yog tias koj mloog koj tus kheej thiab teb tag nrho cov lus nug ncaj ncees, ces koj tuaj yeem nkag siab txog koj tus kheej. Qee tus poj niam tig mus rau ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsoog kom paub lawv cov kev paub thiab ua qhov kev xaiv zoo. Ntawm chav kawm, qhov no yog ib qho kev xaiv, tab sis koj tuaj yeem paub nws tawm koj tus kheej.
Ua ntej koj yuav tsum to taub tias vim li cas koj tabtom nrog ib tug tub hluas, thiab vim li cas koj thiaj li twv rau ob. Tej zaum tus ntxhais no tsis xav tso nws tus npau suav los yog ntshai kev hloov loj. Nws xav kom cov tub ntxhais hluas mus ze ze lub sijhawm thaum nws txiav txim siab ua tus xaiv. Tab sis, ib tug neeg yuav tsis tau tos nws mus ib txhis. Qhov no yuav ua rau muaj kev sib cav thiab kev tsis pom zoo uas yuav pib mob. Yog li, peb xav tau tsawg kawg xav tias qhov kev txiav txim siab yuav tsum tau coj ntawm no thiab tam sim no thiab teb koj tus kheej, leej twg tseem yuav tau xaiv yog tias lo lus nug "ua ib tug ntug." Thaum peb muab tso rau hauv ib qho teeb meem ntawm ciam teb, peb teb ncaj qha thiab tseeb. Yuav kom tsis txhob tsim txom ib tug ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas hauv vain, nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog yuav tau xav txog qhov teeb meem no thiab teb rau koj tus kheej, uas ntawm lawv yog cov tsim nyog thiab kim dua. Nws yog raws li ib tug txiv neej, tsis raws li ib tug phooj ywg.
Tsis tas li ntawd, txawm hais tias tus ntxhais tsis txawm xav txog lub tshoob, tseem yuav tsum xav txog qhov uas nws pom nws lub neej yav tom ntej nrog. Uas nws hais tias cov hais mav nws xav tsim lub neej nrog. Leej twg yuav thab nws hauv ob peb xyoos, thiab nws yuav tsis tso tawm mus txog thaum kawg. Thaum ib tug poj niam ua siab zoo teb cov lus nug, nws to taub tam sim ntawd uas cov hais mav yog ib ntus thiab leej twg mus tas li. Ntawm chav kawm, txhua yam yog txawv nyob rau hauv lub neej, thiab nws thiaj li cov ntxhais hloov, lawv cov kev xav thiab tej yam hloov. Tab sis, txawm li ntawd los, yog tias ib tug neeg yeej muaj tseeb rau txhua qhov tsis muaj txiaj ntsim rau peb txhua tus nyias tus kheej, ces feem pua ntawm qhov nws tsis nyiam tus neeg uas nws nyiam thiab xis nyob tam sim no. Qee tus poj niam ntshai heev kom npaj rau lub neej yav tom ntej thiab xav txog lawv lub neej hauv ob peb xyoos. Feem ntau lawv hais yog lawm, tab sis ntawm qhov tod tes, yog tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm txiav txim siab, koj yuav tsum tau saib mus rau yav tom ntej thiab xav txog koj lub neej nrog ib tus thiab sib. Tsuas yog tom qab pom leej twg yeej pom tom ntej thiab ntawm ib xyoo, koj tuaj yeem ua qhov kawg nkaus.
Ntawm chav kawm, tej zaum ib tug ntxhais, nyob rau hauv lub kawg, nres loving ib thiab lwm yam. Hauv lub neej, yeej muaj txhua yam. Tab sis tseem, yog tias ib tug neeg xav txog qhov kev xaiv ntawm ob tus neeg nkawv tiag tiag, ces thaum lub sij hawm no, cov kev xav no tiag tiag thiab qhov teeb meem yuav tsum tau daws qhov no thiab tam sim no. Txwv tsis pub, nws yuav tig mus rau hauv ib lub snowball, los ntawm ntau yam tau raug kev txom nyem.
Peb txhua tus, sim tsim ib txoj kev sib raug zoo, dhau ntawm lub sijhawm dhau los, peb ntsib qhov teeb meem xaiv. Qee tus kom ua sai sai, ib tug neeg qeeb, ib tug neeg muaj cai, thiab ib tug neeg tsis yog lawm. Ntawm chav kawm, koj yuav tsum sim ua kom tsis txhob cais qhov kev xaiv tom kawg. Yog li, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov xav txog dab tsi yuav zoo tshaj rau koj tus kheej. Thiab nws tsis yog hais txog qia dub. Tsuas, thaum nws los txog kev hlub, koj tsis tas yuav ua kom txhua tus xav zoo. Nyob rau hauv ib daim duab peb sab, ib tug neeg yuav mob. Tab sis, yog tias koj pom tias ib tug neeg tos thiab coj tus cwj pwm zoo, tab sis ib tug neeg es tsis yog tus cwj pwm uas koj xav tau kom tshem tawm, ces koj yuav tsum sim ua qhov tsis xav ntseeg thiab ua raws li lub siab xav qhia rau koj.