Ob leeg sib ntsib, sib nyiam, tab sis tom qab sib yuav tuaj yeem tuaj chilling, irritation thiab, vim li ntawd, so. Vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim?
Rau ntau tus neeg, lub tswv yim ntawm ib tsev neeg zoo tagnrho raws li kev tuag thiab ua tsis ncaj ncees, thiab yog li ntawd, lawv yuav tsum tau los ntawm txoj sia nyob mus ib txhis, lawv tau txais kev poob siab xwb!
Ntau tus, thaum nkag mus rau hauv kev sib yuav, tsis to taub tias tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo yog kev ua haujlwm hnub thiab hnub tawm thiab qhov kev hlub tsis tuaj yeem mus deb. Ua ntej yuav tsis muaj kev sib yuav, nws yuav tsis yog qhov xav tau los xav txog qhov sib koom ua ke nrog kev hlub, txawm tias koj muaj kev nyiam thiab kev xav txog lub neej. Qhov tseeb hais tias cov lus pom zoo yog cov lus pom zoo, vim hais tias tag nrho qhov no tsuas ua haujlwm nyob rau thawj theem ntawm kev sib raug zoo, tsuav yog koj kawm ib leeg thiab koj qhov tsis txaus siab qhia txog kev sib txawv hauv koj cov kev sib raug zoo. Ntev mus, qhov no yuav cuam tshuam xwb, vim tias nws yuav nyuaj rau koj nrhiav cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib cuag. Tsis txhob cia siab rau qhov tseeb tias ib tus neeg ze ntawm koj yuav hloov nws yam haujlwm lossis kev ua neej - nws tsis tuaj yeem rov hais dua leej twg. Nws tsis yooj yim xav txog tias ib tug poj niam niam tsev yuav mus rau cov koom txoos hmo ntuj vim nws tus txiv tau siv los ua neej zoo li txoj sia (los yog lwm yam). Tej zaum yuav zoo li no, txoj kev sib yuav yuav tawg tom qab ib ntus.
Thiab ntawm no txawm pw ua ke yuav tsis cawm! Kev sib yuav tsuas yog tsis yog siv rau ntawm kev mob lub cev xwb, tab sis kuj rau ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov ntsuj plig, thiab yog li ntawd kev sib deev zoo tsis yog kev xav hauv kev sib yuav, tab sis tsuas yog kev ntxim siab thiab tsim nyog xwb.
Tsis txhob hnov qab txog cov khoom ntawm tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo. Kev hlub yog kev hlub, tab sis lub neej nyob rau hauv ib lub tsev pheeb suab yog tsis zoo li los ua ib qho kev sib haum xeeb thiab txawm hais tias ib tug yuav hais, ib qho kev ruaj ntseg nyiaj txiag rau tsev neeg tsis yog txhua qhov tseem ceeb.
Yog li ntawd nws hloov tawm tias kev hlub tiag tiag ua ntej kev sib yuav yuav tsum muaj nuj nqis, thiab kev sib yuav ua haujlwm rau nws, txhim kho thiab kawm tsim kev sib raug zoo. Thiab yog tias peb sib tham txog txoj kev hlub tiag tom qab sib yuav, ces qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog kev sib hlub: sib hlub sib txhawb kev sib raug zoo, tab sis tsawg kawg yog kom txhua yam zoo uas koj tau txais thaum sib yuav. Qhov kev ua lag luam tsis muaj txiaj ntsig uas koj tsis tau nyob qhov twg, yog li xav thov ua tsaug rau qhov no rau koj qub qub!
Tsis txhob nrhiav kev hlub tiag tiag tom qab kev sib yuav hauv kev sib yuav ntawm tus uas koj tau tawg, sim ua kom muaj kev phooj ywg thiab kev ntseeg siab. Leej twg paub, tej zaum, nyob rau hauv tus neeg ntawm tus qub tus txij nkawm, koj yuav tau txais ib tug phooj ywg txhim khu kev qha! Kho qhov kev tshwm sim tam li ib kauj ruam tom ntej, tom qab uas koj yuav kov yeej tsis yog qhov kev paub tab, tab sis tseem muaj lub sijhawm los mus rau tom ntej, ntawm koj txoj kev zoo siab. Thiab nrog ib tug load ntawm kev sib thooj reproaches nws yuav ntau nyuaj.
Thiab nco ntsoov: qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis hais qhov no yog kev hlub los yog tsis, ua ntej thiab tom qab lossis thaum lub sijhawm sib yuav - qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias tom ntej ntawd koj muaj ib tug neeg ze ntawm tus uas koj xav tau (los yog xav) ua tag nrho koj lub neej! Ua tsaug rau qhov koj muaj, txhim kho koj cov kev sib raug zoo, thiab tsis txhob cia siab rau txoj kev muaj hmoo thiab cov nqe lus nug ntawm seb puas muaj kev sib hlub tiag ua ntej thiab tom qab kev sib yuav thiab kev coj nws tus txij nkawm yuav hais lus rau koj! Tom qab tag nrho, txawm tias koj muaj lus nug ntau npaum li cas, lo lus teb yuav yog ib qho - kev hlub thiab kev hlub! Yog tias koj nyiam koj tus neeg koj xaiv, koj yuav tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau tus neeg mob no thiab yog li ntawd yuav ua kom koj cov kev sib raug zoo, mloog cov lus ntawm koj tus poj niam, thiab qhov no tseem ceeb hauv tsev neeg. Tsuas yog sim to taub txhua lwm yam koj tuaj yeem tuaj yeem mus rau kev sib haum xeeb.
Kev hlub muaj nws txoj cai thiab nws cov kev cai! Thiab nws cruelly punishes lub tub nkeeg, yog li tsis txhob hnov qab tias lub neej tsis yog ib txwm ua kev rhuav tshem txoj kev xav, tab sis tsuas yog ib txoj hauv kev kom sib paub thiab sib sib zog nqus hauv ntiaj teb ntawm ib tug neeg hlub, muaj dissolved rau nws thiab ua ib tug particle ntawm nws !!!