Yuav ua li cas cov me nyuam poob rau hauv qhov ntxiab ntawm kev quav tshuaj
Niaj hnub no nws tsis yooj yim kom tau txais ib qho tshuaj txaus ntshai. Cov tub lag luam muaj nyob hauv Internet los yog hauv tsev kawm ntawv disco. Cov tub ntxhais hluas tab tom nrhiav kev paub tshiab, lawv xav pom tias muaj zog npaum li cas thiab tsis ntshai tsam lawv tuaj yeem ua rau ob peb feeb xwb. Qhov tob ntawm qhov teeb meem yog nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb hais tias cov me nyuam yaus tsis ntev "tsis txaus siab" ecstasy los yog nroj tsuag - lawv pib tam sim ntawd ntau cov tshuaj siv yeeb siv tshuaj. Feem ntau ntawm cov no yog amphetamine lossis LSD thiab heroin. Kev tso siab rau lawv tshwm sim tom qab thawj daim ntawv thov, thiab lub slightest overdose leads mus rau kev tuag.
Vim li cas cov menyuam yaus ua cov kauj ruam no? Tom qab tag nrho, muaj ntau tus neeg paub txog qhov yuav tshwm sim thiab tseem, nws tsis nres lawv. Muaj ntau ntau yam ua rau menyuam pib noj tshuaj. Ntawm lawv:
1. Kev nyuaj siab. Tus me nyuam tsuas xav hnov qab txog nws txoj kev nyuaj hauv tsev los sis hauv tsev kawm ntawv, xav kom nws muaj zog los daws qhov kev nyuaj siab.
2. Lom zem. Feem ntau cov menyuam ntawm cov neeg ua haujlwm zoo ua rau raug mob ntawm qhov no, uas cov niam txiv "yuav tsum tawm" tus me nyuam uas muaj cov khoom ua si kim, hnab nyiaj thiab khoom plig. Tus me nyuam muaj txhua yam, tab sis nws tsis nco qab thiab hlub.
3. Kev kho siab. Tus me nyuam raug mob los ntawm nws lub cev, nws tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus. Ib qho kev sib haum xeeb nrog cov niam txiv yog tau, uas tus me nyuam xav tau kev pom zoo ntawm nws cov phooj ywg.
4. Xav paub. Npog cov me nyuam yaus (7-10 xyoo) uas tsis paub txog kev txaus ntshai ntawm cov tshuaj.
5. Qhov kev tawm tsam. Tshwm sim nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem uas tus me nyuam raug "raug ntes" los ntawm kev txwv thiab kev thuam. Yog li ntawd, nws sim los rhuav tshem tawm ntawm niam txiv "ntshai".
6. Lub siab xav kom tshwm sim ntau dua. Qhov no yog qhov feem ntau ua rau tag nrho cov hluas "tsis tseem ceeb". Nws tshwm sim vim muaj kev tsis xis nyob thiab tsis pom nws tus kheej.
Ntau yam ntawm cov laj thawj no yuav zoo li tsis muaj qhov raug, tab sis cov tub ntxhais hluas coj lawv tiag. Txawm li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum xav tias cov laj thawj tseem ceeb kuj yog ib qho piv txwv zoo rau cov laus. Yog tias cov niam txiv muaj cawv thiab luam yeeb, cov menyuam yaus yooj yim dua rau lwm yam. Nws yog ib qho teeb meem heev rau cov niam txiv kom lees paub qhov tseeb tias lawv cov menyuam siv yeeb tshuaj. Tab sis lawv tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam, yog hais tias nws siv tshuaj, yuav tsum tsis txhob accusatory. Txwv tsis pub, tus me nyuam ncua nws tus kheej, thiab nws tus cwj pwm yuav ua kom ntau heev.
Yuav ua li cas tiv thaiv kev siv cov tshuaj los ntawm cov menyuam yaus
Kaw kom ze, tham txog kev txaus ntshai
Raws li cov kws paub txog kev siv tshuaj kho mob, kev tiv thaiv zoo tshaj plaws tiv thaiv yeeb tshuaj yog rau tus me nyuam lub tsev sov, txhim khu kev ntseeg. Ib lub tsev uas cov niam txiv tuaj yeem sib tham txog txhua yam, muaj kev hlub thiab kev xav. Txhua tus tub ntxhais hluas yuav tsum npaj rau lub rooj sib tham nrog cov neeg uas muaj yeeb tshuaj. Yuav ua li cas kom npaj lawv?
- Nyeem nrog rau cov phau ntawv me thiab cov khoom uas qhia tias qhov kev tiv thaiv no tuaj yeem ua rau.
- Sib tham txog cov teeb meem. Nug tus menyuam yog tias lawv muaj tshuaj nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv lossis ntawm txoj kev. Nug seb nws xav li cas txog qhov no, seb nws to taub qhov teeb meem ntawm qhov teeb meem.
- Piav qhia. Qhia tus me nyuam txog cov qauv ntawm cov tshuaj. Piav seb vim li cas ho ua rau tib neeg muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Tsis txhob cia siab, tab sis yeej qhia qhov teeb meem.
- Qhia tus me nyuam hais tias "tsis tau." Piav rau nws tias nws muaj txoj cai tsis kam lees txhua lub sijhawm. Tsis muaj leej twg yuam nws ua dab tsi. Qhov no yog nws lub neej thiab nws tsuas txiav txim siab tias nws yuav zoo li cas.
Sib tham nrog tus menyuam!
Txhua tus neeg xav tau kev sib tham txog tej yam uas nws nyiam thiab hnov. Feem ntau niam txiv tsis pom tias lawv cov me nyuam muaj mob hnyav tau nrog lawv tham. Yog tias qhov kev sib txuas ntawm koj thiab koj cov me nyuam tau tawg, muaj kev txaus ntshai ntawm cov teeb meem thiab kev tsis to taub uas muaj peev xwm muaj ntau yam kev tshwm sim. Tshem qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb yuav ua rau tus me nyuam nrhiav kev sib tham nrog lwm cov neeg sab nraud. Yog li ntawd lawv yuav nrhiav kev sib txuas lus nyob rau hauv ib lub voj voos ntawm cov phooj ywg - raug ncaws tawm thiab tsis to taub cov txheeb ze.
Mloog tus me nyuam kom zoo zoo!
Kev mloog zoo yog qhov ua tau rau kev sib tham. Hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog cov me nyuam lub peev xwm los mloog lawv cov lus yooj yim. Hauv qhov tseeb, lo lus "mloog" txhais hais tias:
- ua kom pom tseeb tias koj nyiam ua lub neej rau tus menyuam;
- Sim nkag siab txog nws cov kev xav thiab kev xav;
- pab nws zoo dua qhia txog nws txoj kev xav thiab kev xav;
- muaj peev xwm nthuav qhia kev cog lus rau koj qhov teeb meem;
- Qhia cov me nyuam tias koj npaj txhij mloog lawv txhua lub caij nrog kev nkag siab txog qhov laj thawj.
Muab koj tus kheej tso rau hauv tus menyuam lub qhov chaw
Sim mus saib lub ntiaj teb nrog nws ob lub qhov muag! Cov tub ntxhais hluas yuav ua rau lawv cov teeb meem qeeb zog ntxiv, qhia tias tsis muaj leej twg muaj qhov teeb meem qub. Cia nws paub tias nws tsis yog nws ib leeg nyob hauv nws qhov teeb meem. Xav tias tus me nyuam, xav nrog nws cov teeb meem. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muab cov tswv yim tsim kho thiab ua rau koj tus me nyuam thuam cov dab neeg txog koj yav dhau los. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus me nyuam xav tias koj txaus siab los pab nws, yog tias tsim nyog.
Siv sijhawm nrog koj tus menyuam
Ua ib yam dab tsi uas yuav zoo sib npaug rau ob tog. Kev sib txuas lus yog ib txwm nthuav ntau thaum nws raug tsim tsis-ua si, thaum ob tog sib koom tes ua ke. Nws tsis tsim nyog npaj ib yam tshwj xeeb. Koj tuaj yeem mus saib cov tsos, saib football lossis saib TV. Nws tsis yog ib qho tseem ceeb thaum koj siv sij hawm ua ke. Qhov loj tshaj plaws. Tias nws coj kev sib nrig sib xyaw thiab tshwm sim tsis tu ncua.
Ua phooj ywg nrog koj cov menyuam cov phoojywg!
Raws li txoj cai, cov tub ntxhais hluas sim siv yeeb tshuaj hauv lawv tus phooj ywg. Nws muaj peev xwm hais tias cov neeg uas siv yeeb tshuaj, txo hwj chim siab ntawm lwm tus neeg, raug yuam ua raws li lawv tus qauv. Sim nrhiav thiab ntsib nrog koj tus menyuam cov phoojywg, txawm tias lawv tsis yog cov uas koj yuav xaiv rau lawv. Caw lawv tsev, txheeb xyuas qhov chaw uas lawv tuaj yeem ua ke. Nyob rau hauv txoj kev no, koj yuav mus txuas ntxiv mus txuas ntxiv lawv ua dab tsi.
Txhawb kom koj tus menyuam nyiam
Laj thiab tsis meej txog kev yuav ua li cas nrog koj tus kheej yog ib txoj kev ncaj ncaj rau cov yeeb tshuaj. Pab cov me nyuam paub seb qhov twg yog qhov lawv nyiam. Txhawb lawv rau hauv lawv cov haujlwm yam koj nyiam, tsim kom muaj cov kev zoo rau lawv txoj kev xav.
Tsis txhob ua raws li peb cov me nyuam!
Tag nrho cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm, tab sis tsis yog tag nrho cov niam txiv txais qhov tseeb no. Qee lub sij hawm nws tsis yooj yim nrhiav cov niam txiv uas txhawb nqa lawv cov me nyuam hauv lawv qhov kev txhim kho. Thaum cov me nyuam pom tias lawv ua tiav ib yam dab tsi thiab tau txais kev pom zoo ntawm qhov no, lawv tau txais kev ntseeg siab thiab kev ntseeg siab rau lawv lub peev xwm. Luag nyav, qhov no txhawb kom lawv paub thiab pom tshiab ntawm lawv tus kheej muaj peev xwm. Tej zaum cov menyuam yaus yuav nrog tshuaj noj ntau dua.
Cov tsos mob ntawm kev quav tshuaj yeeb rau cov me nyuam
Tsis txhob cia li paub seb koj tus menyuam puas noj tshuaj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias qhov no yog thawj zaug, los yog tsuas siv qee zaus. Muaj ntau cov kev mob tshwm sim rau feem ntau rau tib neeg txoj kev loj hlob thaum muaj tiav nkauj tiav nraug. Tsis txhob dhia mus rau cov lus txiav txim siab yog tias koj pom ib qho ntawm cov phiajcim no:
- Sudden changes hauv kev zoo siab: ntawm flashes ntawm kev kaj siab rau kev ntxhov siab thiab kev nyuaj siab;
- txob txob txob lossis quab yuam;
- tsis qab los noj mov;
- Txaus siab rau kev ua si, kev ua si, tsev kawm ntawv lossis cov phooj ywg;
- kev qaug zog thiab qaug zog;
- tsis tau nyiaj los yog khoom ntiag tug ntawm koj lub tsev;
- tsw ntxhiab, tsw thiab nti ntawm lub cev lossis khaub ncaws;
- Cov hmoov tsis zoo, ntsiav tshuaj, tshuaj ntsiav, ntawv ci los yog cov koob chob ntawm cov koob txhaj tshuaj.
- khoom siv ntawm punctures ntawm txhais tes, ntshav stains rau khaub ncaws;
- Tsawg heev (tsawg dua 3 hli inch) lossis loj (inch tshaj 6 hli) cov tub kawm ntawv;
- hu xov tooj tsis meej, cov tuam txhab ntawm cov neeg tsis paub txawv.
Nco ntsoov tias tag nrho cov tsos mob no tsuas pom thaum thawj zaug, thaum niam txiv muaj lub caij nyoog tiag tiag los pab lawv tus me nyuam tawm yeeb tshuaj. Thaum lub cev tsim kho tshuaj, cov tsos mob yuav ploj mus. Tom qab ntawd tsuas yog tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb thiaj li paub txog cov cim qhia sab nraud uas tus me nyuam yog yeeb tshuaj. Sib tham nrog cov neeg uas cuam tshuam nrog koj tus menyuam - phooj ywg, cov kws qhia ntawv.
Ua tam sim ntawd!
Txhua tus niam txiv yuav tsum paub tias yuav pab tus me nyuam yog tias nws siv txoj kev siv yeeb tshuaj. Yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog koj tus tub lossis tus ntxhais tab tom siv tshuaj - ua qhov yooj yim ntawm tus menyuam cov zis. Cov kev xeem no tau muaj nyob rau hauv cov chaw muag tshuaj uas tsis muaj ntawv sau tshuaj. Nco ntsoov, yog tias koj qhov kev pom zoo raug lees paub, koj yuav tsum ua tam sid!
- Hu rau chaw kho mob rau cov tshuaj tiv thaiv cov hluas thiab tham nrog tus kws kho mob. Qhov no tseem ceeb heev! Kev txheeb thiab kev pab ntawm cov kws tshaj lij yuav siv tau zoo dua yog tias koj tau daws cov teeb meem koj tus kheej. Tsis tas li, yog tias koj tus menyuam tseem nyob nrog, kev kho hauv chaw kho mob tuaj yeem pab hauv kev kho mob mus ntev los ntawm kev quav tshuaj yeeb.
- Txawm hais tias nws tsis yooj yim, sim ua kom koj lub qab haus huv rau koj tus kheej. Tsis txhob tawm tsam tus me nyuam - qhov no yuav ua rau koj mob heev dua. Ib tug tub hluas tuaj yeem nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej thiab tsis kam koom tes nrog ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws. Thiab ces tus txheej txheem kho yuav muaj ntau yam nyuab dua.