Yog vim li cas qee zaum nws tshwm sim rau ib tug neeg tau ntev, hais tias "tuag saum ntoo khaub lig" los ntawm ib tug neeg tuaj yeem los yog ib lub tuam txhab me me, thiab nws tseem tsis mloog thiab tseem tsis xav hnov, txawm hais tias ib lo lus tau hais rau txhua leej txhua tus? C D A B C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C + Nws yooj yim heev: koj tsuas xav kawm kom paub sib txuas lus thiab kawm qhov kev xav ntawm kev xav hais lus.
CI C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Cиши Cshi Csh Cshi Cshi Cshi Csh C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Tshawb xyuas koj txoj kev hais lus li yog nyob sab nraud. Koj tuaj yeem xam nrog lub suab recorder thaum koj tham ib yam dab tsi rau hauv lub tuam txhab, thiab tom qab ntawd ces hauv ib qho chaw ntsiag to mloog koj tus monologue tag nrho. Tej zaum koj qhov kev hais lus tsis meej rau tus neeg tuaj hais lus: koj mob siab dhau lawm, thaum koj hais lus los sis lwm yam, hais lus qeeb qeeb tias tib neeg pib wag thiab qhaj koj hais lus. Los sis tej zaum koj tseem tab tom mloog, tab sis tsis txhob siv yam uas koj tau hais tiag thiab txhob txwm tsis ua raws li kev thov los yog cov lus qhia?
Cia peb to taub, vim li cas koj tsis xav mloog thiab yuav ua li cas nrog nws.
- Hais tsis tiav
Peb yuav tsis xav txog teeb meem logopedic ntawm no. Koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm kom meej meej thiab qhia meej txog qhov essence ntawm koj nqe lus nug lossis qhov teeb meem. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj xav tau cov hmoov nplej, ces hais tias: "Koj mus rau lub khw muag khoom, yuav ob peb kilograms hmoov nplej rau lub khob noom cij tib lub sijhawm." Yog tias koj hais ib yam dab tsi zoo li: "Koj, nws ... mus tom khw. Thiab kuv xav tau ib lub ncuav qab zib nrog cov txiv ntseej ci, tab sis ntawm no kuv tau pib lub khob noom, thiab cov hmoov nplej ntawd, nws zoo li qhov ... yuav ntxiv. Zoo, koj mus, thiab kuv yuav mus thiab ntxuav cov tais diav. " C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Yog li ntawd txoj cai kav 1 - hais txhua lub sijhawm nrog cov lus pom zoo, yog tias koj tsis paub tseeb tias lawv yuav to taub.
- Tsis meej, hais lus tsis meej
Cov neeg sib tham twg yog cov mloog? Cov neeg uas hais lus ncaj ncees, meej thiab meej. Yog li, yog tias koj xav kom mloog, tsim kev ntseeg tus kheej. Yog hais tias thaum sib tham koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb, pib poob phaus, tas li kos koj lub qhov ntswg, lub hauv pliaj, lub puab tsaig, ncaj plaub hau los yog tsho ntawm lub tsho, tom qab tag nrho qhov no pib rau khaus thiab cuam tshuam cov interlocutor. Raws li txoj cai, cov neeg mloog yuav zoo siab thaum tus neeg hais lus tsis paub nws tus kheej. Arazve lawv puas yuav ua tiag cov lus ntawm tus neeg zoo li no? Qhov no implies txoj cai zauv 2 - cob qhia tus kheej kev ntseeg siab.
- Ntau cov ntaub ntawv tsis tseem ceeb
Yog vim li cas koj xav tias nws feem ntau tshwm sim hais tias cov neeg zoo li yuav qhia ib yam tseem ceeb rau ib tug neeg thiab nws tau hnov, tab sis tseem tsis tau? Piv txwv, hais rau koj tus txiv: "Hawm, Kuv yuav tuaj rau Nastia hnub no tom qab ua hauj lwm, los yog Natasha tus kwv tij Natasha thiab nws tus txiv ntawm St. Petersburg yuav tuaj saib peb, peb tsis tau pom ib leeg ntev ntev, thiab Murzikdom lub miv yog tshaib plab, yog tias koj tsis nrog tawm phooj ywg mus rau football, hais tias cov zaub mov yog tag nrho. " Chi C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Cts C C C C C C Cts C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Yog li no, txoj cai kav 3 - tsis txhob "poob dej" cov lus qhia tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv cov huab cua ntawm kev sib tham lus.
Yuav ua li cas hais lus kom raug
- Nrog cov nqe lus tseem ceeb, saib tus neeg hauv qhov muag. Qhov no koj yuav ua rau nws mloog thiab ua rau koj pom cov lus qhia.
- Txhob cia lo lus-cab. Infinite "em ...", "zoo", "no", "ntawm no", lwm yam. heev txhaws peb hais lus thiab saib xyuas los ntawm cov ntaub ntawv yooj yim. Yog, thiab mloog ib tug neeg uas tsis tshua siv lo lus "ntawm no" los yog ntev "zoo" heev ceev nrooj tau hnov thiab cov neeg mloog tau poob siab.
- Ua si hauv qab. Los ntawm kev hais lus li cas peb feem ntau pib tsaug zog yuav luag? Los ntawm monotonous, mus rau ib daim ntawv. Suffice nws rov qab nco ib co lus qhuab qhia ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv, thaum tus xibfwb qhia ntev ntev qhia ib yam dab tsi nyob rau hauv ib lub suab, ib lub suab tsis zoo. Muab koj lub suab tsom, hloov lub suab, thaum koj hais lus, hais lus ntau nrov, ces me ntsis ntxiv yau yau, ua rau koj lub suab tseem ceeb rau lub sij hawm tseem ceeb. Pause hauv qhov chaw tshwj xeeb thiab cov neeg yuav mloog koj zoo siab thiab txaus siab.
- Tsis txhob tham ntau dhau. Kev hais lus ceev nrooj tau zoo dua li qub thiab ntsuas, yog li yog tias koj yog tus neeg hais lus tseeb, ces qeeb me ntsis kom nws yooj yim rau cov neeg hnov koj thiab ntes cov essence ntawm kev sib tham.
- Txhob hais cov lus "tsis" hauv kev sib tham. Txhua tus neeg muaj kev paub zoo txog qhov sib cav sib ceg. Thaum ib yam dab tsi raug txwv, ib tug yeej xav ua txhua yam raws nraim rov qab. C D E C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C + Siv "tsis txhob mus" hais "nyob twj ywm", txhob siv "tsis nco qab" - "nco", txhob siv "tsis ua qhov no" - "ua zoo li no ...", thiab lwm yam.
Yog tias koj xav kom tib neeg mloog koj lus, ces ua raws li cov kev cai yooj yim hauv hlwb. Cshshi Cshshi Cshi Cshishashi Cshishashi Cshishashi Cshishashi Cshishashi Cshishashi C C C C C Cgày Cà C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Cts C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C +