Outwardly - ntau heev txawm tsis muaj dab tsi, nyob rau hauv lub tuam txhab ntawm cov phooj ywg tsis poob. Nws yog tseeb tias nws tuaj yeem sib txuas lus tau. Tab sis nws yog tsim nyog tus txiv leej tub no yog nyob rau hauv lub tuam txhab ntawm ib tug ntxhais, los yog tsuas yog ib ob tug ntxhais, txoj kev lom zem pib. Uas yog, on qhov tsis tooj, - tsis muaj dab tsi pib txhua. Nws yog ib qho uas ntsiag to, thiab yog hais tias nws qhib nws lub qhov ncauj, ces thiaj li yuav hais tau qee qhov kev puas tsuaj phem. Raws li yog hais tias qhov IQ tau ua kom poob hauv ob los yog peb zaug. Sim ua kom muaj kev txaus siab, tab sis ib txwm tsis. Los yog pib dag ntxhe - ntxau ntawm qhov ntxau, qhov loj ntawm ko taw los yog qhov tseem loj dua. Tej zaum lub npe menyuam yaus hu ua "affectionate" - ib tug hippo lossis ntxhw, piv txwv li, txawm tias koj hnyav 45 kg. Tus MCH no yeej tsis tau muaj ib tug hluas nkauj. Kev tsis txaus siab tsis txaus siab thiab kev tsis txaus siab yog tau los ntawm nws tsis yog kev phem, tab sis tsuas yog los ntawm kev tsis paub. Thiab nws tseem pheej ua yuam kev uas ntshai cov menyuam ntxhais. Qhov kev pabcuam tseem ceeb nyob rau kev soj ntsuam nrog xws li ib tug txiv leej tub yog ib tus neeg muaj kev khuv leej siab thiab kev txaus siab. Nws tseem ceeb heev kom maj mam (tab sis ntse) qhia nws tias nws tsis nyiam.
Tus txivneej no yog mos muag, dawb thiab khoobyeeb. Nws hais tias cov khoom zoo, tus tub txib mus nkag thiab hnia zoo heev. Nws kuj nyiam hnyav. Nrom qhov rooj, saib "Simpsons" thiab puag. Yog tias nws yog nws lub siab nyiam, nws tsuas yog ua nws xwb. Prelude tau ncab rau ib nrab mus rau ob xuab moos. Tus txiv leej tub no muaj tsawg. Feem ntau cov yuav, muaj ib tug ntxhais. Thiab hais tias yog nyob rau hauv lub dhau los xyoo caum. Nyob rau hauv dav dav, nws yog nthuav, albeit heev mos los ntawm qhov. Nws muaj ib qho loj ntxiv - los ntawm no kiv cua ntawm hugs koj tau dig muag koj tus kheej rau txiv neej zoo meej. Nws yuav tsuas zoo siab ua rau koj xav zoo.
Nws zoo nkauj heev. Nws muaj kev luag nyav rau tubnkeeg thiab kev saib xyuas zoo. Cov ntxhais ntsia nws nrog admiration, thiab nws teb nrog reciprocity. Nyiam siv duab thaij thiab paub yuav ua li cas thiaj tu tau zoo.
Rau ntawm nplooj ntawv hauv Internet nws muaj plaub puas phoojywg, ntau tshaj ib nrab - cov menyuam ntxhais nrog cov duab hauv kev kaw nkauj albums - yav tom ntej supermodels - txhua yam, raws li kev xaiv. No MCH nrov heev thiab nws zoo li ntau tus neeg xav kom lawv nyob ze rau nws. Nws muaj xws li kev paub tias nws yog nyuaj rau xav hauv cov nuj nqis. Cov ntxhais tsuas muaj ntau, tab sis nws tsis paub tias pes tsawg tus naj npawb nws tus kheej. Nws muaj peev xwm to taub - nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau kev tawm tsam thaum koj nyiam ib lub koom haum tseem ceeb thiab ib puas los yog lwm tus neeg ntiaj teb. Tom ntej no nws yuav nyuaj. Koj yuav tsum tau txawv ntawm lwm tus. Yog tias koj tuaj yeem muab nws rau lwm yam tsis zoo nkauj thiab ib qho zoo tagnrho, ces koj tuaj yeem siv sijhawm. 95% ntawm cov menyuam ntxhais xav pom ib tus neeg zoo nkauj, muaj tswv yim, ruaj khov thiab ncaj ncees. Xws li muaj, tab sis tsuas yog 6%.
Nws hais lus ntau thiab nthuav. Tab sis tseem, koj tsis paub tseeb seb yuav paub leej twg yog leej twg. Qhov kev nkag siab ntawm kev lom zem yog qhov zoo kawg. Tsuas yog nws tsos - tus hlub. Nyob rau hauv xws li tsis poob rau hauv kev hlub thaum pom thawj zaug; thiab tsis txhob thaij duab rau saum lub hau. Tab sis nws muaj ntau tus phooj ywg. Txawm hais tias nws hais ntau, tab sis nws yuav tsis hais ntau heev, thiab nws yuav tsis tham txog daim card ntawm ib tug neeg txawv. Qhov teeb meem hauv nws tus kheej lub neej tsuas yog twv tau. Qhov no txiv leej tub txaus siab rau kev sib raug zoo ruaj khov. Nws muaj los yog tau, los sis muaj ib tug ntxhais uas nws loyal rau. Lawv tau ua ke ntev thiab, zoo li feem ntau, nws tau pib nrog kev phooj ywg. Yog li ntawd, qhov zoo tshaj rau nws xav ua nws tus phoojywg ua ntej.
Nws tsis tuaj yeem pom hauv lub tuam txhab ntawm cov ntxhais. Nws tsis yog ntshai ntawm lawv - nws tsuas yog tsis tuaj yeem sawv lawv. Ua tsaug rau kev ntseeg hais tias peb raug tsim kho kom txov tau nws lub neej thiab kev ntxhov siab. Thiab tsis tau nkees ntawm rov qab dua rau txhua lub sijhawm. Yog tias koj pib tham, ces nws yuav nyuaj rau koj nres. Nws feem ntau hais tias mucks. Cov neeg yawg tseem nyiam lo lus, zoo li "me nyuam qaib", "telochka", "chicks" thiab lwm yam. Vim li cas nws thiaj li muaj teeb meem? Cov ntxhais feem ntau cuam nws, lawv yog cov yooj yim to taub. Qhov tshwm sim yog qhov kev txaus siab tsis yog nyob rau hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws cov duab, ib tug thuam mus rau tag nrho lub neej thiab mus rau tag nrho poj niam txiv neej. Koj puas tseem xav ua ib tug neeg ua txhaum yav tom ntej ntawm tus menyuam tub?
Zoo coj tuaj
Koj ua zoo thiab calmly. Txhua yam pib zoo thiab tseem ua rau calmly. Nws yeej hu, yog tias nws tau cog lus,
paub yuav ua li cas hu koj cov khoom qab zib nyiam thiab seb zaj nkauj koj yuav zoo siab mloog thaum sawv ntxov. Nws tsis thab koj, tsis muab qhov laj thawj rau kev xam khib. Koj tsis txawm paub tias nws yuav yog li ntawd, thiab hais tias thaum "txhua yam yog qhov zoo thiab nyob ntsiag to" - nws zoo heev. Tau kawg, nws muaj cov ntxhais ua ntej koj. Thiab txiav txim los ntawm qhov nws kho koj tam sim no, koj muaj peev xwm hais tau ua tsaug rau koj.
Qhov thib peb yog tsis muaj nuj nqis
Nws yeej tsis tau qhia txhua yam tshwj xeeb rau koj. Kev sib tham tsis lo, nws tsis to taub koj txoj kev tso dag. Sij hawm dhau los, koj muaj peev xwm nrhiav tau ib hom lus thiab txawm pib sib tham. Tiam sis thaum koj tus phooj ywg nyob ze, nws tau hloov - nws tham thiab thuam ntau tshaj li niaj zaus. Feem ntau cov yuav xav, MCH cov npau suav no tau ntsib nrog nws. Tsuas yog ib tug phooj ywg leej twg tsis xav, lossis yog tibneeg hu tauj coob, lossis ib tug phoojywg zoo xwb. Tab sis tus txiv leej tub tsis poob kev cia siab. Koj yog ib qho kev zam rau nws pom nws ntau zaus.