Cov cwj pwm phem muaj nyob rau txhua qhov - ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov laus. Thiab tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsis lees paub tias tus neeg laus li cas, tsis zoo li cov menyuam yaus, tsis yog li ntawd. Yog li, tsis txhob txiav txim ncaj qha yog tias koj pom tias tus me nyuam tab tom ntxais ib tug ntiv tes, thiab tsis txhob maj txhav nws, tej zaum koj kuj tsis zoo tag nrho.
Cwj pwm - txhais tau tias yog txoj kev coj tus cwj pwm, uas tau txais tus cwj pwm ntawm qhov xav tau. Tus cwj pwm los ntawm kev muaj peev xwm thiab kev txawj ntse. Ntawd yog, thawj tug neeg yuav tsum tau kawm ib qho kev ua, ces tau ib qho txuj ci, thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd nws tuaj yeem ua tus cwj pwm. Tus cwj pwm tsis zoo yog tsim kev puas tsuaj yog tias nws tuaj yeem tsim kev puas tsuaj rau kev noj qab nyob zoo, kev loj hlob thiab kev sib haum xeeb ntawm ib tus neeg.
Thiab tam sim no peb yuav sim disassemble lub ntsiab hom ntawm cov teeb meem me nyuam yaus, qhov ua rau thiab txoj kev tshem tawm lawv.
Tus cwj pwm yog kev nplij siab. Cov cwj pwm xws li no yog siv ib tug ntiv tes xoo, cov khoom nqus, nias khaus (nibbling) rau tes, thev plaub, rub tawm cov plaub hau, thiab qev koj lub taub hau lossis lub cev. Ntawm lub plawv ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev coj cwj pwm no yog kev xav tau tiag tiag. Feem ntau qhov no yog qhov tsis pom ntawm niam txiv kev xav, hloov hnyav rau kindergarten, tsiv, niam txiv sib nrauj, lossis lwm yam teeb meem ntxhov siab. Tus cwj pwm phem rau tus me nyuam yog ib txoj kev coj zoo. Thiab yog tias ib tug me nyuam ntiv tes thiab nibbling ntawm cov tes ntsia nws, tsis hais txog kev tsis txaus siab, ces masturbation ua tim khawv rau ib qho teeb meem loj dua - nws yog ib hom kev hloov rau niam txiv txoj kev hlub thiab kev hlub.
Kuv xav nyob ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm ib co kab ntiv tes. Nyob rau hauv cov menyuam mos txog rau ib xyoos mas yog qhov xwm txheej tsis tshwm sim, tsis txhob txhawj txog nws, qhov ib tug ntiv tes ntxais yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm qhov nqus dej, qhov ze ntawm lub xyoo thaum tus me nyuam pom ntau yam ntxim saib ntxim ua, cov cwj pwm tsis zoo los ntawm nws tus kheej. Tiam sis yog tias tus me nyuam pib nqus ntiv tes mus rau peb xyoos, qhov no qhia tau tias nws lub siab tsis zoo.
Kuv yuav ua li cas?
- Sim nkag siab dab tsi ua rau lub cwj pwm phem;
- Tshaj tawm tus me nyuam nrog ntau yam ntxim nyiam thiab kev ua ub ua no, nrog rau kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg;
- Tso me nyuam pw, nyob nrog nws kom txog thaum nws pw tsaug zog, qhia zaj dab neeg los yog hu nkauj lullaby, maj mam tuav nws tes;
- Siv sijhawm ntau li ntau tau nrog tus menyuam. Kev saib xyuas ntawm cov niam txiv yog ib yam ntawm cov me nyuam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws.
Dab tsi yuav ua tsis tau?
- Txhawb kom tus menyuam paub txog qhov phem. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau ua cov txheej txheem niaj hnub tsis nco qab, ntawm theem no, tus cwj pwm yuav kis tau los ntawm nws tus kheej. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam pheej nco ntsoov tias nws ua phem li cas, nws nqus nws cov ntiv tes los yog chews nws cov rau tes, qhov cwj pwm no tuaj yeem tau txais ib lub ntsej muag hauv nws lub siab, thiab tom qab ntawd nws tshem nws yuav nyuaj dua;
- Cem, txaj muag thiab tsim txom tus menyuam;
- Yuav tsum tshem tawm cov cwj pwm ntawm "pog" - mus kis cov kua txob, ua kom zoo nkauj, thiab lwm yam. Qhov cwj pwm yog qhov tsim nyog, thiab koj yuav tsum tau tshem ntawm qhov ua rau, yog tias koj tsav qhov teeb meem sab hauv, rhuav tshem ntawm ib tus cwj pwm, koj yuav kis tau lwm tus;
- Cia tus menyuam pw ib leeg.
Tus cwj pwm yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev kawm. Cov cwj pwm zoo li no raug rau cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 3-4 xyoo. Thiab liam rau txhua qhov phem. Yes, namely, phem tus cwj pwm. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam tau siv nrov nrov ntxig, ua kom nws qhib lub qhov ntswg, sib tham nrog lub qhov ncauj tag nrho, hla qhov cutlets, etc., tej zaum koj tsis nco dab tsi thaum koj cog kev coj zoo. Thiab ua tib zoo saib xyuas rau cov neeg uas nyob ib puag ncig nws, thiab txog ntawm koj tus kheej, vim cov me nyuam coj tus qauv ntawm cov txwj laus.
Kuv yuav ua li cas?
- Nqa cov "cwj pwm zoo" hauv tus me nyuam, qhia cov cwj pwm zoo, - tsis txhob hais lus thaum noj mov, ntxuav koj lub qhov ntswg hauv qhov ntxuav tes, ntsiag to zom koj cov zaub mov, tsis txhob saib nws cov cwj pwm phem;
- Yog tias tus me nyuam ua tsis tau lwm tus, qhia nws txog nws hauv ib daim ntawv muag thiab tsis paub lwm tus.
Dab tsi yuav ua tsis tau?
- Txo tus me nyuam nrog lwm tus neeg. Qhov no yuav tsis txuag nws los ntawm tus cwj pwm, tab sis koj yuav raug poob koj tus me nyuam txoj kev ntseeg;
- Txhawm rau tsim txom ib tug me nyuam, siv cov lus "npua" lossis tej yam zoo li ntawd. Kev thuam tsuas yog txo cov niam txiv txoj cai xwb, sim nrhiav cov kev cai ntau dua.
Nco ntsoov tias tus menyuam, zoo li koj, muaj nws lub tswv yim, nws lub siab nyiam thiab xav tau. Xav pom koj tus me nyuam zoo siab thiab tsis pub muaj kev coj cwj pwm phem, saib xyuas tus neeg me me nrog kev hwm, kev hlub thiab kev hlub.