Thiab tom qab ib lub sij hawm nws ua tiav txawv, yuav luag tsis kam, tam sim no thiab ces pib scandals, thiab tas li yells ntawm koj. Blamed rau txhua yam: dhau kub kua zaub, tsis pom kev thom khwm, thiab txawm tias nws muaj teeb meem tom haujlwm dhau, koj. Yog li ntawd, koj tsis tuaj yeem sawv ntsug thiab ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov, ua tsis muaj neeg thuam, thaum nws cab koj mus pw. Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, tom qab qhov kev thuam, nws qhia tau hais tias qhov txawv txaav txawv txav thiab tsis muaj kev sib deev nyob hauv kev sib deev, tab sis feem ntau nws tsis nyob hauv txaj. Kuv tuaj yeem piav qhov no li cas?
Feem ntau cov kws kho mob hu cov tib neeg uas sib cav sib ceg yog ib qho laj thawj rau kev sib deev - kev npau taws. Rau cov ntxhais uas tau txuas nrog lawv lub neej xws li, muaj ob xov xwm, tab sis trite nws suab, tab sis zoo thiab phem.
Cia peb pib nrog qhov phem. Gnevoliki yog me ntsis zoo ib yam li fetishists. Tsuas yog tom kawg yog kev txaus siab ntawm ris tsho hauv qab, khoom ua si thiab lwm yam khoom, thiab ib hom txiv neej npau taws - los ntawm kev tso dag. Thiab yog tias lawv lub sijhawm twg los xij pom tias kev quarrels ua rau lawv zoo tshaj lwm lub luag haujlwm, ces tsis ntev ntawm qhov chaw ntawm preludes yuav tsum nyob los ntawm quarrels. Koj qhov teeb meem yog hais tias tom qab ib ntus koj yuav tsis muaj kev sib deev muaj siab, vim li cas koj tus txiv neej - tsis cua koj. Thiab koj tsuas yog tsis muaj lub zog los tsis kam. Koj tuaj yeem xa mus rau ib tus kws khomob tshwjxeeb, uas yog lub tswv yim ntawm "kev tseeb" ntawm qhov kev sib deev, yuav pab koj. Tab sis txawm ntev sib tham nyob rau hauv chaw ua hauj lwm feem ntau xaus nrog ib tug rov qab mus rau tsab ntawv sau ntawm poj niam txiv neej.
Qhov xwm zoo yog ib tug txiv neej paub txog qhov teeb meem thiab lub siab xav kho nws. Xws li kev npau taws tuaj yeem kho tau. Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, tsis yog tag nrho koj kev thuam kawg ntawm kev sib daj sib deev, feem ntau ntawm lawv koj tso tseg kev sib tham nyob ntsiag to.
Cov kev tshawb fawb ntawm "sexology" tau muab qhov phenomenon no lub npe txawv me ntsis - "Nero Complex". Nero yog ib tug Roman huab tais uas siv quarrels thiab quaj kom nws sexuality. Tom qab cov cua daj cua dub tsis muaj zog, tus huab tais pom hauv nws tus poj niam - ib tug neeg txawv, uas yog ua ntej nws yog ib tug tshiab kev sib deev khub, uas nyiam ntau zog tshaj nws tus poj niam. Physiologists kuj piav qhia txog qhov tshwm sim no los ntawm kev sib tw ntawm kev sim neej thaum pib sib cav sib ceg, uas tseem muaj kev txhawb zog siab dua kev xav.
Qhov teeb meem nrog qee qhov kev npau taws yog tias lawv npau suav ntawm ib tug poj niam "poob" los ntawm kev hluas. Tom qab tag nrho, nws tsis pub leejtwg paub tias daim duab ntawm ib tug menyuam mloog lus honors heev tsis tshua muaj neeg nyiam, tab sis cov ntxhais hluas nkauj ua rau muaj kev ntshaw tsis kam. Tab sis, raws li txoj cai, cov txiv neej siv sij hawm nrog qee yam, thiab sib yuav kiag li rau lwm tus, ncaj ncees thiab zoo nkauj. Qhov teeb meem tshwm sim thaum ib tug txiv neej pib paub hais tias nws tus poj niam tsis muaj kev tsis ua rau muaj siab kev sib deev hauv nws. Nrog rau kev ntshai tias nws tau poob nws qhov kev ua haujlwm zoo, nws mus txog rau thawj "hmo npauj npaim" thiab tam sim ntawd to taub tias txhua yam yog qhov zoo, vim hais tias qhov teeb meem tsis yog nws, tab sis nyob rau hauv nws tus poj niam. Muaj ntau tus txiv neej, uas tau kawm txog qhov tsis tsim nyog, tom qab ob peb xyoos khiav tawm lawv cov poj niam, thiab ib txhia, hlub lawv tus poj niam, tab tom nrhiav txhua txoj hau kev kom tau txais kev zoo siab ntawm lawv tus txij nkawm. Thiab thaum muaj kev sib cav tom ntej lawv pom tias tus poj niam nyob rau hauv lub luag hauj lwm ntawm tus siab tawv - qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws kev sib deev duab, thiab ntxiv rau qhov zoo paub scenario. Lawv rub tus poj niam hauv txaj, thiab txhua lub sij hawm tom qab siv kev sib cav sib ceg ua kev zam txim rau kev pw ua ke. Txhua yam tsis xav txog dab tsi lwm qhov ib nrab xav txog tej lub luag haujlwm.
Tej zaum, qhov sib cav sib ceg yog lub sijhawm rau kev sib deev zoo nkauj thiab ntxim nyiam, yog tias - nws tshwm sim poob nthav, nthawv thiab tsis tshua muaj. Nyob rau hauv lwm yam, txiv neej mutilate lub psyche ntawm tus poj niam nrog cruel preludes, thiab feem ntau kuj paub qhov no. Lawv sim tiv thaiv lawv txoj kev lim hiam nrog kev xav thiab kev tu txhua hnub, qee zaus txawm tias muaj khoom plig zoo.
Psychologists hais tias xws li ib yam li npau taws, feem ntau, tsis zoo rau cov poj niam. Lawv muaj kev tsis sib luag ntawm lawv, tsis to taub, kev sib ceg thiab kev npau taws. Yog vim li cas rau qhov no yuav ua rau kev txhawj xeeb ntawm ib leej txiv kho siab los yog ib tus niam tsis tau hlub. Yog li ntawd, tus me nyuam loj hlob ib qho misogynist. Tab sis, txij thaum nws tsis muaj peev xwm tsis kam poj niam, nws pib thuam nws hauv txaj. Hauv lwm lo lus, tus qauv ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws muaj ob yam: 1) tsis nyiam poj niam feem ntau 2) kev sib deev tsis muaj zog
Yog tias koj tsis muaj hmoo thiab yuav tsum tau muab lub txaj nrog kev npau taws, nco ntsoov tias koj qhov kev tsis tuaj yeem yuav tsis suav tias yog kub. Tom qab xaiv ib tus khub, koj tsis tuaj yeem twv tias koj yuav pom zoo li "kev zoo siab". Nyob rau hauv ib lub sij hawm luv luv lawv tau siv rau nws, thiab tom qab koj tau kawm txog nws inclination, koj tsis tau nrog nws ntau dua? Tom qab ntawd tsis txhob ntshai yog, dhau sij hawm, muaj tag nrho cov ntsiab lus rau kev sib cav sib ceg, nws yuav pib cem koj rau qhov tsis zoo. Tsis txhob txhav koj tus kheej nrog ib tug pojniam tus pojniam, ib tug poj niam uas muaj lub siab ntev yuav tawm txoj hauj lwm thiab khiav tawm mus. Yog tias koj xav nyob, ces koj yuav tsum nrhiav kev tawm.
Ua ntej, txiav txim siab seb lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem, yog li ntawd, koj tus txiv neej yog hom dab tsi. Yog hais tias koj zoo nkauj thiab tsis cia koj tus kheej ntau hauv txaj (txawv poses, qhov ncauj qhov ncauj), ces koj tus txiv neej yeej tseem raug cawm dim tau. Qhov teeb meem no feem ntau koj, thiab koj, raws li ib tug poj niam ntse, yuav tsum tshawb xyuas lawv cov kev ua yuam kev. Yog tias koj pom tias koj tus txiv nyiam tougher caresses, ces qhia tias koj npaj txhij ua kom tiav nws cov whims thiab tsis muaj kev sib cav. Hnav cov ris tsho zoo nkauj thiab coj cwj pwm zoo. Tsis ntev nws yuav to taub hais tias kev quarrels raws li ib qho kev zam txim rau yog twb tsis sob.
Yog hais tias koj tus txiv neej yog ib tug misogynist, ces nws yuav nyuaj rau koj hloov ib yam dab tsi. Yuav pib nrog, qhia tias koj hlub nws thiab tsis txhob ntxeev siab, ntseeg nws, los yog zoo dua hais tias koj xav tau ib tug me nyuam los ntawm nws. Ntawm chav kawm, nws yuav tsis yooj yim mus ua txhaum xws li ib tug txiv neej, tab sis txhua yam yog ua tau. Ua ib txoj hau kev ntxiv, sab laj nrog ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. Thiab tsis txhob cia mus ntawm koj ob txhais tes prematurely, vim hais tias txhua yam nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no yuav raug hloov. Ua ib qho kev txhawb siab, cia nws ua rau koj tias kev npau taws tsis zoo li qhov xwm txheej zoo thiab paub zoo, uas txhais tau hais tias qhov teeb meem muaj kev daws, txwv tsis pub cov poj niam yuav tsis ntsiag to txog nws.