Cov menyuam yaus tos txais txhua xyoo ntawm lawv lub hnub yug, vim hais tias nyob rau hnub no lawv muab khoom qab zib, khoom ua si thiab lwm yam khoom plig. Hnub no rau lawv yog tag nrho ntawm surprises, qhua thiab kev lom zem. Txawm li cas niam txiv tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab txog hnub yug tus me nyuam, koj yuav tsum tau npaj ib hnub so rau nws thaum twg los tau, vim "hmoov tsis, tsuas yog ib xyoos ib zaug ..."
Yog li, lub koom haum ntawm cov hnub caiv ntog nkaus rau lub xub pwg nyom ntawm niam txiv. Tsis txhob txhawj, npaj ib qho nyiaj so rau ib tug me nyuam, uas nws nyiam thiab yuav nco txog, nws tsis nyuaj. Ua ntej koj yuav tsum xyuas seb dab tsi hnub so koj tus menyuam xav tau kev pab. Lub ntsiab ntawm kev xaiv ib hnub yog hnub nyoog ntawm tus menyuam.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam mos tseem me me (2-4 xyoos), ces tsis txhob teem ib lub hnub yug. Caw ib tug ntawm 5 tus menyuam. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, cov menyuam mus ncig ua si nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, nco ntsoov khaws qhov hauv siab. Cov hnub so yuav tsum luv luv. Qauv npaj: npaj rau kev txais tos ntawm cov qhua, txais tos ntawm cov qhua, txuag khoom plig thiab kev zoo siab, tshuaj yej haus dej haus thiab ntau yam kev ua si tom qab nws. Nco ntsoov tias me nyuam yaus tuaj yeem nkees, tsis txhob txua rau lawv txoj kev lom zem ntau teev.
Yog tias koj tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 5 txog 10 xyoo, ces nws xav tau ib lub koom haum hnub yug lub hnub nyoog. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tsim kom muaj nyiaj so koobtsheej, nws tuaj yeem ua haujlwm ywj siab, thiab koj tuaj yeem npaj tos rau nws. Cov me nyuam yuav tsum ua ib daim ntawv teev cov phooj ywg caw, vim hais tias nyob rau ntawm lub hnub nyoog no cov me nyuam twb xaiv lawv tus kheej lub voj voog. Cov niam txiv ntawm tej xwm txheej no yuav tsis tuaj yeem tuaj. Feem ntau, tom qab tshuaj yej, cov menyuam pib muaj kev lom zem, tab sis kev pab ntawm cov laus yuav tsis zoo nkauj. Piv txwv, koj tuaj yeem npaj ib co kev lom zem ua si, ntawm nws tus kheej "tuav" ib feem ntawm hnub so. Cov lus no yog hais txog cov ntsiab lus hauv qab no: qhia cov neeg tuaj saib koj rau hnub no, hais ob peb lo lus sov rau tus neeg hnub yug, muab lub suab rau cov qhua, ces cia txhua tus qhua tuaj lawv cov khoom plig, thiab koj tus menyuam yuav tsum ua tsaug rau txhua tus qhua. Tsis txhob hnov qab qhuas txhua yam khoom plig thiab ua kom nws zoo. Qee zaum nws yog qhov nyuaj rau cov menyuam yaus hais lus tawm rau txhua tus neeg. Txhawb kev zoo siab rau tus tub hluas hnub yug hauv kev ua si, cia sawv daws ua siab zoo rau ib leeg, zaum ntawm qhov chaw. Los yog nyob rau ib daim ntawv tshaj tawm, cia lawv txhua tus sau ib zaj paj huam los ntawm kab, thiab koj yuav nyeem tawm "tsim" rau txhua tus neeg. Hnub yug rau cov me nyuam hauv lub hnub nyoog no tuaj yeem siv sij hawm ntev, qee zaus cov me nyuam yaus nyuaj heev los nres thiab cuam tshuam ntawm kev lom zem. Ua ntej lub hnub yug nws yuav zoo dua rau ceeb toom lawv niam txiv seb koj tau npaj pes tsawg xuab moos.
Cov me nyuam los ntawm 11 txog 15 xyoo tsis tshua xav kom cov neeg laus tuaj rau lawv hnub so. Ntawm no koj lub koom haum yog txo kom tsawg: npaj thiab npog lub rooj festive. Cov me nyuam yuav pom dua li lawv tus kheej, kev saib xyuas ntawm lawv cov laus yuav txaj muag. Nws yog qhov nrov heev tam sim no los npaj cov me nyuam cov hnub yug hauv cov chaw zov me nyuam thiab cov chaw ua si lom zem. Cov koom haum ntawm cov txheej xwm muaj peev xwm teem caij nyiaj so koobtsheej rau tus menyuam thiab nws cov qhua: lawv txhim kho menyuam lub rooj, qhuas cov qhua, ua si nrog lawv hauv kev ua si, thiab npaj ib lub disco. Nyob rau tej tog neeg, tsis muaj ib qho teeb meem yuav tsum muaj dej cawv. Ua raws li koj tus kheej.
Yog hais tias koj xav teem caij rau hnub caiv nyob hauv tsev neeg lub voj voog, qhov no kuj yog ib qho qauv zoo hauv hnub yug. Yog li tus me nyuam xav tias nws tseem ceeb hauv tsev neeg. Qee cov menyuam yaus chim siab yog tias lawv tsis pub hu cov phooj ywg. Tab sis tsis txhob koom tsev neeg kev ua koob tsheej thiab kev ua koob tsheej rau cov phooj ywg. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los tuav cov txheej xwm 2 hnub sib txawv.
Tsis txhob hnov qab kho lub tsev rau koj lub hnub yug kom txhua yam yuav teem caij rau tus menyuam thaum sawv ntxov mus rau qhov lom zem. Tshem tawm cov npuas dej, yuav Bengal teeb, dai ntxig ntxig.
Cia txhua tus me nyuam lub hnub yug muaj kev xyiv fab thiab muaj kev zoo siab. Ua rau menyuam muaj kev zoo siab!