Txhua tus niam txiv yuav pom zoo tias kev txhawb nqa tus me nyuam tsis yog ib qho yooj yim, uas tsis yog kev saib xyuas nkaus xwb, kev ua tib zoo saib thiab cov yeeb yam tseem ceeb, tab sis txhua lo lus hais rau tus me nyuam. Cov kws kho teebmeem uas muaj feem xyuam rau cov menyuam txoj kev xav, xav pom zoo kom cov niamtxiv xav txog dabtsi, thiab qhov tseem ceeb dua, li cas lawv qhia rau lawv cov menyuam. Txawm tias tus me tshaj plaws, qhia los ntawm ib tug neeg laus, tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam raug mob, tsis hais hnub nyoog li cas. Nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm no kuv xav nco txog ntau cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb rau qee tus neeg laus uas tsis muaj qhov cuam tshuam rau cov menyuam yaus. Tab sis nws yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv lub hlwb nyob rau hauv lub hlwb hais tias tsis tag nrho cov pawg sab laj yuav tsum tau muab raws li dogma, vim hais tias txhua tus me nyuam, txawm me me, yog ib tug neeg.
1. Koj ua txhua yam netak - Kuv mam li ua kuv tus kheej!
Txhua tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws yuav qhia koj tias cov lus qhia ua rau tus me nyuam raug mob. Tej kev sib tham no nyuaj rau tus me nyuam ntshai tias nws yog tus ruam thiab ruam, tias kuv niam yuav tsis zoo siab thiab yuav rov thuam. Tej kev xav zoo li no yuav tsim tau rau hauv ntau yam uas tsis pub cov menyuam yaus ua kom muaj kev ncaj ncees ntxiv.
2. Rau, noj, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nqig!
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau ntau tus niam txiv kom tiv thaiv qhov nagging thiab thov ntawm lawv cov me nyuam. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg laus txaus siab txaus siab hlo mus rau lub me me, yog tias nws cia lawv nyob lawv ib leeg xwb. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm upbringing, vim hais tias yog hais tias koj muab ib tug rau ib tug me nyuam, nws yuav subconsciously twb paub yuav ua li cas ua kom tau dab tsi koj xav tau. Nyob rau hauv txoj kev no, txoj cai ntawm niam txiv yog ploj, thiab cov kev txwv ntawm tus me nyuam yaus yog tsawg.
3. Yog tias kuv rov ua dua, Kuv mam li muab rau koj!
Nco ntsoov, yog tias koj ceeb toom koj tus me nyuam ntawm txhua yam, ces coj koj cov lus ceeb toom rau qhov chaw, tsis txhob txwv koj tus kheej kom tsis muaj kev hem. Tus essence ntawm xws \ "npliag \" cov lus tsis ncav cuag tus me nyuam. Pawg neeg sawv cev no tsis tuaj yeem hu ua phem rau lawv cov me nyuam, tsuas yog tus me nyuam yuav tsum to taub tias kev txhaum lossis kev tsis mloog lus yuav raug rau txim, thaum pom lawv niam lawv txiv txoj kev zoo siab, piv txwv, uas tsis yog yuav tsum tau hais lus nrawm. Sim qhia rau tus me nyuam tsis tau qw dab tsi thiab vim li cas nws tsis muaj.
4. Kuv tau hais rau leej twg (a) tam sim ntawd nres!
Koj tsis tas yuav tsum ntse nrog koj tus menyuam. Tab sis yog tias koj yeej tsis tuav, thov zam txim. Tom qab tag nrho, ib lo lus ntse los ntawm cov niam txiv tuaj yeem pom tau los ntawm tus me nyuam ze ntawm lub plawv. Qhov kev tsis txaus siab rau tej nqe lus no yuav tsis yog mloog lus mloog lus, tab sis tawm tsam kev sib ntaus sib tua, nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm kua muag thiab qw.
5. Koj to taub tias ...
Cov me nyuam feem coob yuav tsis lees txais cov kab lus no, thiab tus neeg laus rau lawv. Feem ntau cov yuav, nws yuav tsuas yog koom nrog rau hauv dab tsi ntau nthuav thaum lub caij. Tus me nyuam yuav them cov lus tseem ceeb dua, yog tias nws tsis txaus siab los yog zoo siab. Nkag siab, thaum zoo li no, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom nrhiav tau qhov sib npaug ntawm kev sib tw ntawm kev qw thiab kev qhia mournful.
6. Cov ntxhais zoo nkauj (tub) tsis ua li ntawd!
Nws tsis tas yuav rov hais cov lus ntawm hom no ntau dhau los, vim hais tias nws yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog hauv ib tug txiv neej uas lub hauv paus ntawm qee qhov kev cai thiab kev cai tshwm sim, uas yav tom ntej muaj peev xwm tsim tau rau hauv ntau yam uas cuam tshuam nrog lub neej feem ntau. Thiab cov nqe lus no yuav tsis zoo heev los ntawm cov kev xav ntawm tus txiv neej loj hlob tuaj.
7. Tsis txhob quaj rau trifles!
Yog vim li cas koj txiav txim siab tias qhov tsis tseem ceeb rau koj yog qhov me me tshaj plaws rau koj tus me nyuam? Nyob ntawm lub sijhawm no, nws txoj kev to taub yog hais txog qhov tseemceeb rau nws, thiab yog tias nws chim siab ua kom zoo dua rau nws los ntawm kev qhia koom, tsis muaj kev tsis txaus siab. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov no yog nyob ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo.
8. Xav txog kuv kev noj qab haus huv!
Nws tshwm sim rau cov niam hais txog qhov tsis txaus siab no rau lawv cov menyuam. Qhov no nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej tuaj yeem ua si nrog koj lub siab phem. Tsis ntev los yog tom qab tus me nyuam yuav nres cov lus qhia no tiag, thiab txawm tias nws pom tias tus niam nws tus kheej tsis xav tias nws tseem ceeb, tus me nyuam yuav raug muab txiav tawm, tias nws tsis loj heev thiab tsis xav tias nws tsim nyog rau kev xav nrog koj qhov kev thov los yog koj kev noj qab nyob zoo.
9. Tsis tau, kuv yuav tsis yuav nws ntau heev (tsis muaj nyiaj)!
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau koj piav qhia rau tus menyuam yog vim li cas niam tsis yuav txhua yam nyob rau hauv ib zaug, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj ntau yam kev sim siab nyob ib puag ncig. Tab sis thaum koj teb tus me nyuam cov lus thov kom zoo ib yam, koj tsis tuaj yeem ua rau nws txiav txim siab tias yog tias muaj nyiaj ntau, koj tuaj yeem tau txhua yam. Kev tsis lees paub tus me nyuam cov lus thov yuav tsum tsis yog, nws zoo dua los muab qhov laj thawj txaus rau nws kom tsis txhob tsis tau yuav khoom.
10. Ntawm no yog ib tug neeg (neeg nyob ib ncig, phooj ywg), me nyuam yaus, thiab koj ...
Re: Tus tswv ntuj coj li hais no puas siv tau. Siab loj los me? Koj tus me nyuam zoo li nws yog, thiab cia nws paub tias koj hlub nws rau nws.