Lub peev xwm los thwj tau txais qhua yog ib daim duab tag nrho. Thiab tsis yog txhua tus neeg nyob rau hauv peb lub teb chaws paub txog kev txhim kho tsev neeg kev cai dab tsi kom sib haum thiab kev sib tw, rau cov phooj ywg, kwv tij neej tsa, cov npoj yaig thiab cov neeg koom nrog. Yog tias koj txiav txim siab mus koom nrog cov phooj ywg hauv lub rooj festiv hauv tsev, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob rau lub hom phiaj noj qab haus huv, tab sis kuj rau lub xeev ntawm qhov chaw dav dav (nrog rau cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb xws li ntaub so ntswg, teeb pom kev zoo thiab lub suab paj nruag).
Tshaj tawm hauv tsev yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv kev ua koob tsheej. Thiab koj yuav tsum saib xyuas cov qhua zoo siab thiab zoo siab, yog li koj yuav tsum xav txog ua ntej thiab seb yuav nrog lawv tham txog dab tsi.
Txhua tus neeg yuav tsum tau paub txog ua ntej nws yuav mus koom qhov twg. Ntawm txhua lub sijhawm, txhua tus tswvcuab ntawm tsevneeg yuav tsum npaj txhij rau cov tuaj tos qhua (tagnrho txhua zaus yuav tsum tau ua tiav hloo, kev ntxuav tu dua, lub rooj yuav tsum muab, rooj zaum teem, thiab lwm yam).
Thawj qhov yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog tias cov qhua yuav tsum tuaj yeem tos txais thiab pab tshem lawv cov ris tsho. Nco ntsoov tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muab lawv tus kheej khau khiab (qhov no yog tsis zoo). Yog tias ib tug neeg tuaj rau koj lub tsev thawj zaug, koj yuav tsum tau paub nws qhov chaw ntawm lub chav, ces koj tuaj yeem muab yaug koj txhais tes Yog tias tsis yog txhua tus qhua paub ib leeg, txhua yam yuav tsum tau muab rau ib tug phooj ywg nyob hauv ib qho tshwj xeeb kev cai: koj yuav tsum qhia ib tug txiv neej rau ib tug poj niam, txiv neej los yog ob tug poj niam, lawv sawv cev rau tus yau tshaj hauv lub hnub nyoog. Tus tes ntxuav yog ib qho taw qhia ntawm kev phooj ywg, yog li ntawd tus cwj pwm ntawm tus poj niam (los sis hais lus zoo) tus poj niam xub txhais tes ua ib tug txiv neej, tab sis nws tsis nias nws.
Thaum txais ntau tus qhua, nws yuav tsum tau sau tseg tias txhua tus qhua tsis tuaj yeem tuaj txhua lub sijhawm, yog li nws yuav tuaj yeem ua tus npaj zaub mov me me thaum sawv ntxov (lafourchette txhais los ntawm Fabkis raws li rab rawg, lub hauv paus rau cov khoom noj txom ncauj yog khoom noj txom ncauj xws li canapes, tartlets, thalers, thiab lwm yam).
Tus tswv ntawm kev ua koob tsheej yuav tsum saib xyuas ntawm qhov chaw dav ntawm hnub so, yog li pib ib sib tham yog tsim nyog, nyob rau hauv uas tag nrho cov qhua yuav siv ib feem. Hauv ib qho kev sib tham dav dav, ib tug tsis hais lus ntev ntev, lawv tau hais txog lawv tus kheej hauv txoj haujlwm me thiab me. Tsis txhob nug ntau cov lus nug. Tus interlocutor yuav tsum tau mloog, txawm tias koj tsis txaus siab. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sib cav sib ceg, raws li qhov chaw kawg, koj tuaj yeem qhia koj qhov kev tsis txaus siab. Ntawm qhov tsis tuaj los yog tsis hais, los yog tham txog lawv tsuas yog zoo.
Thaum txhua yam koom ua ke, tus tswv ntawm kev ua koob tsheej caw txhua leej txhua tus mus rau lub rooj, tsis nco qab txog txoj cai thiab kev tsav tsheb ntawm cov qhua. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj "poj niam" thiab "txiv neej" ntawm lub rooj, vim hais tias cov txiv neej yuav tsum pab cov poj niam mus rau lawv qhov chaw - thawb lub rooj zaum thiab tsiv nws.
Ib qho ntawm cov kev cai ntawm cov txheej txheem yog tias koj tuaj yeem txwv tsis tau tus qhua noj - yog tias ib tug neeg vim tsis xav sim ua cov tais, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hais rau nws.
Feem ntau yog ib lub rooj festive (raws li kev lig kev cai) tau them nrog cov ntaub pua rooj dawb, nyob rau hauv qhov chaw ntawm lub rooj yuav tsum vasas nrog txiv hmab txiv ntoo, thiab nyob rau hauv ob peb qhov chaw nyob rau hauv qhov chaw - saltcellars. Nyob hauv nruab nrab, cov khoom noj txom ncauj tau muab tso rau, thiab cov khob cij sab nraud ntawm sab nrauv. Loj thiab plates muaj qhov sib npaug ntawm ib leeg, feem ntau cov khoom noj txom ncauj nyob saum lub ntiav ntiav, thiab sab laug - lub pas dej me me. Rau tag nrho cov paib uas muaj cov khoom noj thiab cov khoom noj txom ncauj tau txais kev pab khoom siv (ib rab diav, diav rawg, qwj nplais lossis ciaj). Yog tias lub rooj festive nrog ob peb tib rab diav (rau cov khoom noj txom ncauj, ntses lossis nqaij), lawv yuav tsum tau siv raws li qhov muaj feem thib, cov khoom noj khoom haus (pib nrog ntau tshaj ntawm cov paib). Nyob rau sab xis ntawm lub vaj tse tso riam (hniav mus rau lub phaj) thiab ib rab diav, ntawm sab laug - ib rab diav rawg. Tag nrho cov taub hau ntawm lub hau yuav tsum pw nrog ib sab sab nraud. Thaum tag nrho cov lauj kaub tais diav noj, nws yuav tsum tau nce, tshem tawm cov lus thiab npaj nws rau khoom noj qab zib. Cov khoom siv rau khoom noj qab zib muaj roj nrog rau cov tsom iav los yog tom qab kev tshem tawm ntawm lwm cov khoom siv thiab daim hlau.
Thaum raug kho nrog cov linen nchos ntswg, lawv tau tso rau ntawm lawv lub hauv caug, thiab tom qab lawv noj tas lawv siv cov ntswg di ncauj thiab muab tso rau ntawm lub rooj mus rau sab laug ntawm lub phaj (tab sis tsis folding).
Cov qhob cij, ncuav qab zib, txiv hmab txiv ntoo. Yog tias tais ntawm koj tuaj, koj tuaj yeem tsis ncav cuag nws, koj yuav tsum hais kom ib tug neeg muab rau koj ze dua (tsis txhob hnov qab ua tsaug rau qhov kev pab tom qab). Lub plhaub tag nrho yog muab hauv qab ntawm ntug kev, tsis txhob kov cov zaub mov thaum noj mov, muaj riam rau sab tes xis, thiab rab rawg hauv sab laug. Yog tias koj pom tias ib tug ntawm cov neeg qhua caw muab ib rab riam thiab ib rab diav rawg rau hauv lub phaj ua ke-qhov no txhais tau hais tias tus neeg tau noj tas.
Tus tswv thiab tus koom haum ntawm kev ua koob tsheej yuav tsis tawm nws cov qhua ntev, raws li qhov no yog tactless thiab indecent. On qhov tsis zoo, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los sim qhia kev txhawj xeeb rau txhua tus qhua - ib yam dab tsi los muab kev pab, kev pab, kev pab thiab lwm yam.
Nco ntsoov hais tias tom qab noj hmo cov qhua yuav xav so, so los yog ua las voos, yog li nws yuav tsum xaiv lub suab paj nruag keeb kwm yav dhau los, vim nws yog los ntawm cov suab paj nruag keeb kwm yav dhau los tias qhov chaw ntawm lub hnub so yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab lub siab. Suab paj nruag yuav tsum khaws khaws yooj yim, yooj yim thiab tsis yoojyim.
Ntau tus qhua tom qab hnub so yuav tuaj yeem muab lawv txoj hauv kev ntxuav thiab ntxuav tais diav. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws yuav tsis paub ntau dua kom tsis txhob koom nrog rau hauv kev ntxuav, tab sis ua tsaug rau qhov kev thiab ua. Tag nrho cov qhua feem ntau tuaj yeem tawm mus rau hauv lawv lub tsev, tab sis yog tias muaj ib tus neeg ntawm cov qhua uas xav tau kev pab thauj mus los, nws yuav tsum tsis txhob raug kev pab, yog tias tsim nyog, hu rau tsheb tavxij rau nws.