Kev npaj cov menyuam rau kindergarten yog lub luag haujlwm lag luam. Nyob rau hauv peb lub sijhawm, nws tsis yooj yim heev los txheeb xyuas tus me nyuam hauv qib kindergarten (vim qhov tsis muaj qhov chaw banal, queue tau drag rau ob peb xyoos), tab sis kuj nyob hauv ib qho koj xav tau. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog qhov teeb meem xwb. Koj tuaj yeem tuaj tsis tau thiab cia tus menyuam tawm hauv pawg. Tej zaum, qhov kev ntxhov siab tshaj plaws rau tus me nyuam yuav tsum sib cais ntawm niam (tsis tu ncua thiab ntev ntev). Thiab kuj mus rau hauv pab neeg, uas yuav tau tuaj koom. Psychologists ntseeg hais tias tom qab ib xyoos thiab ib nrab, qhov tsis tuaj yeem ntawm leej niam nyob ze tsis yog rau tus me nyuam loj heev li ua ntej. Ua ntej, vim yog kev tsim kho muaj sia muaj sia. Cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem pab tsis tau, tuaj yeem qhia, piav qhia thiab ua ntau ntau rau nws tus kheej. Tsis tas li ntawd, tus me nyuam loj hlob rau ib qho txawm tias ua ntej nws nqhis dej rau kev paub txog lub ntiaj teb ncig nws. Thiab ua li ntawd, nws yuav siv sij hawm dab tsi tshwm sim ib ncig, uas txhais tau hais tias tsis muaj leej niam yuav tsis pom tsawg dua.
Tab sis, ntawm qhov tod tes, kev ceeb ntawm cov neeg txawv thiab txawv txawv yuav tsum tuaj txog li 2 - 3 xyoos. Nco ntsoov tias qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv cov neeg laus, cia nyob ib leeg tham txog cov menyuam yaus.
Los npaj cov me nyuam rau qib kindergarten, qee tus niam muaj kev pab los ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws. Qhia tus me nyuam mus rau ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. Nrog kev pab los ntawm kev ua si yooj yim thiab kev xeem, nws yuav qhia ntau yam txog kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam mos. Tab sis koj tuaj yeem tswj hwm koj tus kheej.
Nyob rau txhua qhov teeb meem, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau xav txog kev npaj siab rau kev nkag mus rau "hauv lub neej". Tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau nyob ib ntus nrog cov neeg paub zoo thiab paub zoo: pog, yawg laus laus thiab cov muam, phooj ywg txhim khu, txhawj xeeb nrog tus neeg zoo. Thaum taug kev, sim ua kom koj tus menyuam nyiam nrog lwm tus menyuam. Nws yuav tsum tau siv rau qee yam ntawm kev coj tus cwj pwm uas yuav tsum muaj nyob rau hauv kindergarten: tsis txhob xaiv khoom ua si, tsis txhob offend cov me nyuam thiab txhob muab koj tus kheej ua txhaum. Saib koj tus menyuam. Puas yog nws ntsib nrog lwm tus menyuam? Los yog nws puas tawm? Ntshai los ntawm neeg txawv teb chaws thiab clamped?
Mus nrog tus me nyuam mus xyuas, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov tsev neeg uas muaj cov me nyuam me. Cia li mus xyuas, thiab tsis txhob caw niam nrog me nyuam rau nws. Vim hais tias nyob hauv tsev, cov me nyuam xav. Dab tsi yog hu ua "ntawm yooj yim", thiab cov masters ntawm qhov teeb meem no. Qhov no yuav yog ib qho kev sib koom ntawm qhov teeb meem ntawm cov pab pawg. Tus mos ab li cas? Tsis yog ib kauj ruam deb ntawm kuv niam? Tsis kam noj dab tsi? Nws yog worthwhile. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam noj mov nrog kev kaj siab, feem ntau ua si nrog lwm cov me nyuam, ces txhua yam yog nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim.
Yog tias koj tsis npaj yuav muab tus me nyuam mus rau hauv hoob zov me nyuam, thiab nws yuav tau mus rau qib kindergarten thaum muaj hnub nyoog loj dua, ces qee yam kev loj hlob pawg ua tau zoo heev. Nyob rau hauv tej voj voog nrog menyuam yaus lawv koom nrog dancing, teeb duab, tsim kev ua si. Tag nrho cov kev txawj no koj tuaj yeem ua rau tus me nyuam thiab hauv tsev, tab sis hauv pawg nws yuav sib txuas lus nrog lwm cov me nyuam thiab tau siv rau lwm tus neeg laus. Tib lub sijhawm, tus me nyuam yuav paub nws tus kheej, vim nws nyob ze.
Nco ntsoov tias txhua tus menyuam yaus yog tus neeg. Thiab txawm hais tias koj tsis ntseeg siab ua si nrog lwm tus, tej zaum nws tsuas yog ib qho ntawm nws lub hlwb. Yog tias tus me nyuam nyiam ua si nkaus xwb, tsis txhob yuam. Yog hais tias rau nws - qhov no yog ib lub xeev uas muaj kev sib haum xeeb, tsis muaj dab tsi los ua. Nws yog tau hais tias qhov chaw ntawm ib tus neeg soj ntsuam sab nraud yog qhov tsim nyog thiab tsis ntev nws tus kheej yuav ua rau lwm cov me nyuam.
Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tsis tsuas yog lub hlwb kev npaj ntawm cov me nyuam, tab sis kuj mus rau instill kev txawj tsim nyog. Namely: lub peev xwm hnav, khau koj tus kheej (nrog kev pab ntawm cov laus), thiab lwm yam. Feem ntau ib leeg saib tau cov duab hauv qab no. Mom tuaj thaum yav tsaus ntuj yuav coj tus menyuam mus tsev, tab sis tus menyuam lub plab khawm tsis nyob ntawm sab xis (sab xis ntawm sab laug, sab laug ntawm sab xis), lub tsho tsis khawm, tsho hnav ris tsho rov qab, qhov khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khawm khawm ntawm lub caj dab, thiab tom qab nws hauv pem teb. Thiab txoj phuam qhwv caj dab ... tsis yog nws li. Qhia tus me nyuam kom yog thiab hnav khaub ncaws hnav kom txaus. Thaum ua li no, sim tuaj yeem khaws cov khaub ncaws zoo (yam tsawg kawg ntawm cov nyees khawm me me, nqaim pantyhose, pawg ntawm cov hlua, thiab lwm yam).
Qhia koj tus menyuam kom nkag mus rau hauv chav dej kom yog (lub lauj kaub lossis lub vov xwm nyob ntawm lub hnub nyoog), saib cov cai ntawm kev nyiam huv. Ntxuav tes ua ntej noj mov, tom qab nkag mus hauv chav dej, ntxuav tom qab pw tsaug zog, so koj tus kheej nrog phuam, noj kom zoo li tsim nyog.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, tiam sis tsis yooj yim heev, kom txhawb tus me nyuam tias nws tsis tsim nyog yuav qog lwm tus me nyuam hauv txhua yam. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib, piv txwv li, qhov chaw nyob ntawm licking cov dej uas coj tus menyuam mus tsev thaum tsaus ntuj.
Sim piav qhia txog cov cai tswjfwm txog tus cwjpwm rau tus menyuam. Koj ua tsis tau yog tias koj tsis nyiam dab tsi (zaub mov, ua si, thiab lwm yam). Koj tsis tuaj yeem xaiv cov khoom ua si, ua rau lwm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov khoom ua txhaum.
Sim ua kom yooj yim npaum li tus me nyuam nyob twj ywm hauv kindergarten, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws tsis xav tuaj nyob ntawd. Saib nws thiab cim tag nrho cov kev qaug zog. Piv txwv li, yog tias tus me nyuam nyuaj rau nws pom nws niam thiab nws tsev, nws xav txog qee qhov teeb meem, piv txwv tias, tus me nyuam tub no yog qhov kev sim siab, xws li kev ua yeeb yam ntawm nws tus cuav nws nyiam tshaj plaws. Thiab thaum kawg, raws li ib yam khoom plig, Niam yuav tuaj. Los yog tawm tus me nyuam nrog qee yam, piv txwv li, rau ib tug hluas nkauj uas pheej yig hlaws lossis ib txoj phuam. Yog tias tus me nyuam hnav ris tsho hnyav thiab maj mam hnav, ua ib daim ntawv me me uas kos (los yog muab tshuaj txhuam, txiav tawm hauv cov ntawv xov xwm) ntawm qhov kev txiav txim uas lawv yuav tsum tau hnav. Zuaj nws ntawm phab ntsa ntawm chav hloov khaub ncaws los yog hauv lub me nyuam lub rooj muag zaub. Confuses kab tshis thiab sab laug? Nias ntawm cov duab nyob rau ntawm ib qho thiab lwm qhov (piav qhia tias lawv yuav tsum nyob sab nraud ntawm ko taw). Soj ntsuam, xav zoo zoo thiab sim pab.
Qhov tseeb, ib tug kws qhia ntawv zoo yuav saib xyuas cov me nyuam, thiab ua rau lawv xav tau ntau yam. Tab sis tsis txhob cia siab rau nws, txhua yam muaj peev xwm tshwm sim, thiab tus me nyuam yuav nkag mus rau hauv kev txaj muag los yog tsis zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, los soj ntsuam tag nrho cov me nyuam tib lub sijhawm, txawm tias ib tug xib hwb muaj kev paub thiab tus kws kho mob tseem tsis tau. Yog li, txoj kev npaj cov menyuam rau kindergarten yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev.