Ua ntej, kom meej meej qhia seb yog vim li cas rau lub sijhawm koj tus neeg koj hlub lossis koj tus hlub. Txij thaum koj xub pib to taub qhov ua rau, thiab tom qab ntawd ces twb nrhiav kev tawm.
Ntau zaus peb tsis nco qab txog cov peculiarities ntawm poj niam thiab txiv neej psychology. Raws li lawv hais, cov txiv neej ntawm Mars, thiab cov poj niam ntawm Venus, yog li nws nyuaj rau lawv to taub sib. Tab sis koj ua tau ... Ntawm no qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog to taub txog qee yam.
Hais txog txoj kev xav, sim nkag siab koj tus kheej ua ntej thiab to taub dab tsi ua rau koj mob siab rau: mob siab rau, kev hlub, kev xav ntawm mercenary, kua zaub ntsuab, thiab lwm yam.
Muaj ntau cov qauv ntawm lub neej, tab sis peb yuav hais ib.
Ib tug ntxhais tau poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog ib tug txiv leej tub uas zoo li nws txoj kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws. Txhua tus yuav tsis muaj dab tsi, tab sis nws tau tshwm sim hais tias nws tau xeeb tub. Nws tsis xav tau ib tug me nyuam, thiab yog li ntawd nws tau mus rau ib tug rho menyuam. Ob peb lub tshuaj thiab txhua yam yog npaj txhij. Los ntawm nws tus naiv, nws xav tias lawv yuav nyob ua ke. Tab sis nws muaj lwm yam kev npaj rau ntawm qhov qhab nees no. Nws tso nws tsis paub txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev rho menyuam. Tom qab ntawd, nws sim nyob rau hauv vain rov qab nws ...
Thiab ntawm no yog qhov piv txwv thib ob. Ib tug ntxhais tau ntsib nws tus hluas nraug peb xyoos. Lawv tau pom kev sib raug zoo, tab sis nws tau pib pom tias nws tsis xav ua kom nws tuaj xyuas nws. Muaj thawj zaug xav tsis thoob. Tshaj Tawm nws pib siv sijhawm nrog phooj ywg thiab tus phooj ywg, raws li nws tau hais. Thiab nws yog qhov tseeb, yog tsis yog rau ib tug xws li ntawm no yog nws tus hluas nkauj. Lawv tau phooj ywg txij thaum yau thiab tsis muaj dab tsi yuav muaj lawm. Tab sis nws tus hluas nkauj twb tau ntsib lawv ob peb zaug nyob rau hauv ib qho café, embracing "nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev phooj ywg," raws li lawv nyiam teb. Tab sis lub qhov muag tsis tau dag, tab sis ntawm no muaj ib qhov tseeb ntawm lub ntsej muag. Nws txawb nws, thiab nws tau tuaj rau nws lub tsev hnub tom qab thiab nrog ib lub paj nruag loj ntawm nws nyiam camomiles. Tab sis, alas, nws tsis zam txim ... Ua ntej nws muaj lus nug: yuav ua li cas rov qab thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug neeg hlub?
Cov txiv neej xav hais tias ib pob paj ntawm roses, khoom plig thiab cov lus zoo nkauj yog txhua yam uas tus poj niam xav tau txoj kev hlub thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo, tab sis lawv tau yuam kev. Poj niam qhov kev xav yog qhov nyuaj, tab sis nws yeej tsis dag. Thiab peb paub zoo txog qhov hloov me ntsis ntawm peb tus xaiv. Yog li ntawd, cov lus tseem ceeb ua rau peb lub siab thiab tus ntsuj plig mob siab, thiab qhov no tsis tsim nyog rau txhua tus txiv neej.
Qhov thib ob, nug koj tus kheej: nws puas tsim nyog rov qab tau txoj kev hlub no thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tus neeg hlub? Los ntawm qhov teeb meem tau piav saum toj no nws yog tseeb hais tias kev hlub yog nyob rau hauv ib tes, thiab nws tus kheej kev xav rau lwm tus. Nws hlub nws, thiab nws cia nws tus kheej los hlub nws. Thiab yog li nyob rau hauv feem ntau cov kev sib raug zoo. Tab sis peb tsis nco qab nug peb tus kheej cov lus nug: vim li cas rov qab tuaj? Peb puas xav tau qhov no tiag tiag? Lub khob tawg tsis txuas ntxiv ua ke, thiab yog hais tias nws ua tau tiav, tias qhov keej yuav nyob twj ywm, thiab yuav nco nws tus kheej.
Thirdly, nco ntsoov hais tias nyob ib ncig ntawm koj muaj ntau tus neeg, cov phooj ywg uas npaj txhij pab koj thiab txhawb nqa koj. Thov hu rau koj cov phooj ywg. Tshaj li ib ntus, thiab koj yuav zoo dua. Thiab tom qab ntawd nrog cov kev xav tshiab sim kom to taub qhov teeb meem.
Yog tias qhov teeb meem no nyuaj heev rau koj tus kheej tsis tuaj yeem paub, ces koj yuav tsum tau mus ntsib ib tus kws kho mob siab uas yuav sim pab.
Ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb, nws yuav tsis qhia koj txog koj txoj kev npaj, tab sis yuav pab txiav txim siab txog qee qhov tseeb ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus tswv cuab. Nws yuav pab koj xaiv ua qhov zoo, muab piv txwv. Psychologists feem ntau tsis muab cov kev daws rau qhov teeb meem, tiam sis sim coj tus neeg mus cuag.
Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog, ntseeg hais tias txhua yam yuav zoo! Cov kev xav zoo nyiam cov neeg zoo.
Yog tias koj txiav txim siab rov qab txoj kev hlub, tus neeg no, tsim nyog txaus rau koj ua. Koj yuav tsum paub meej txog koj cov kev ua. Qee cov neeg tsis paub yuav ua li cas hlub thiab tsis muaj ib yam dabtsi los ua ntawm no. Txawm tias cev xeeb tub los ntawm nws, tsis yog qhov tseeb tias nws yuav nrog koj nyob. Thiab yog tias nws tseem nyob, ces lub hli yuav nyob lwm qhov thiab tseem tawm mus. Yog li xav zoo zoo ua ntej koj rov qab hlub.