Kuv tus me nyuam muaj peb xyoos nug kuv kom kuv ua tus xov tooj ntawm tes. Thaum twg los xij kuv, tej zaum, yuav tsum tsis kam nws, nws nce nqi quaj. Yuav ua li cas nrog no?
Nws tsis yooj yim rau tus me nyuam to taub yog vim li cas qee qho khoom ua si raug tso cai ua si, ces nws yog qhov txwv tsis pub. Kev tsis muaj cwj pwm ntawm cov niam txiv tsis ua rau txhua yam zoo. Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob cia tej xwm txheej no. Tsis txhob cia tus me nyuam ua si nrog koj li cas tom qab tsis kam. Nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no, ua siab ntev. Kev Xaiv - los hloov koj lub xov tooj nrog lub cuab yeej laus.
Kuv niam reproaches kuv rau muab cov khoom ua si ntau me nyuam. Nws ntseeg tias lawv yuav tsum tau muab rau hnub so xwb. Thiab qhov kev xav ntawm cov kws tshwj xeeb hauv no yog li cas?
Koj niam tsis yog qhov tseeb. Yog tias koj muaj lub sijhawm zoo li no, koj yuav tsum cia siab rau koj tus menyuam tsis yog nyob rau xyoo tshiab thiab hnub yug, tiam sis tsuas yog vim li cas koj thiaj li xav tau tus menyuam. Ntawm chav kawm, mus rau ib tug muaj peev xwm. Thiab feem ntau tseem ceeb, tsis txhob siv cov khoom ua si los ntawm tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm. Tsis tas yuav ua rau tus me nyuam muaj mob: "Yog tias koj ua ..., ces kuv ..." Nws zoo dua rau nqi zog rau tus me nyuam uas nws xav tau, nrog rau cov lus: "Kuv hlub koj heev! Koj zoo hnub no! Tuav nws! ".
Kuv tus tub tsis mus pw kom tsis muaj dais plaub. Nws tsis kam mus tsis muaj nws hauv lub tsheb. Nws puas muaj nqis pandering rau nws whims? Kuv thaum yau kuj muaj cov khoom ua si nyiam, tab sis qhov kuv coj nws raws li nws ...
Qhov teeb meem yuav tsum tsis txhob ua rau koj tsis ncaj ncees. Nws zoo siab tias koj tus menyuam muaj qhov khoom ua si nrog nws xav tias nws muaj kev nyab xeeb. Psychologists ntseeg hais tias muaj ib qho khoom ua si "tsiaj" pab tus me nyuam kov yeej txoj kev ntshai ntawm kev kho siab, tsaug zog. Nws muaj peev xwm entrust nws cov innermost kev xav rau nws. Cov kws kho mob txawm qhia tawm kom tau ib qho khoom ua si, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias tus me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab muaj kev cuam tshuam. Los ntawm txoj kev, xws li "phooj ywg-ntxhais-phooj ywg" feem ntau nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm cov mos mos, zaek, dev - pom ntawm animate creatures. Animate, tab sis tsis muaj peev xwm hais lus zoo li ib tug txiv neej. Yog li feem ntau nws tsis yog roj hmab. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, tsis tshua muaj thaum lawv ua robots, transformers thiab cov zoo li.
Tsis txhob hnov qab tias kev ua si nruj heev yuav tsis nco qab, koj yuav tsum saib xyuas lawv cov ntsiab lus thiab kev nyab xeeb rau menyuam yaus. Ncaj nraim cov me nyuam txoj kev ua phem tawm tsam "ntiaj teb kev phem".
Yuav ua li cas zoo dua qub nrog cov laus, tawg ua si thiab nrog cov uas tus me nyuam twb "loj hlob"?
Muab cov khoom ua si uas tsis tseem ceeb pov tseg koj yuav tsum saib ob txoj cai. Ua ntej, tsis txhob yuam tus me nyuam muab cov khoom ua si pov tseg, txawm tias lawv tawg lawm. Nrog rau txhua tus ntawm lawv, tus me nyuam muaj tus cwj pwm zoo thiab kev paub zoo. Cov khoom ua si yog nws cov phooj ywg, koom tes hauv kev ua si. Qhov kev ua kom zoo li no yuav ua rau tus menyuam raug mob. Yog tias tseem tshuav ib qho kev sib koom tes, nws zoo dua rau khib nyiab, qhia lawv tias koj khaws, coj lawv mus rau tus tswv uas yuav kho lawv, thiab tom qab ntawd muab rau cov menyuam uas tsis muaj cov khoom ua si hlo li. Yog li ntawd, lawv yuav raug muab "ob lub neej" - txhua tus yuav zoo siab. Qhov thib ob, tsis txhob muab cov khoom ua si pov tseg ntawm koj tus kheej txoj kev pom zoo. Los ntawm lub caij nyoog koj tuaj yeem tsis pub tus me nyuam ntawm koj cov khoom ua si nyiam. Hais tias nws cia li zoo li ntawd, tej zaum koj yuav tsis txawm twv - nws yuav zoo li tsis zoo thiab txawm tawg.
Tus menyuam tsuas yog "tub rog" xwb, nws tsuas yog ua si hauv cov khoom ua si ntawm cov tub rog - nws yog qhov zoo tshaj rau kev tig mus rau tus kws kho mob tus kws kho mob. Nws yuav pab kom nkag siab txog qhov ua rau tus cwj pwm no thiab nrog nws.
Kuv tus phooj ywg thuam kuv vim kuv yuav ib tug violet ntxhw (4 xyoos) rau kuv tus ntxhais. Tab sis dab tsi yog qhov txhaum ntawd? Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam nyiam txhua yam kev kaj siab?
Hais tias tus me nyuam tsis distorted xaav ntawm lub ntiaj teb no, sim tsis txhob yuav ib tug me nyuam liab qab nas thiab ntsuab bears, ntau dua "cim" coj txawv txawv; Xav txog tias qhov khoom ua si no yuav zoo li cas rau koj tus me nyuam. Cov menyuam yaus xav tau cov neeg uas muaj kev cuam tshuam qhov tseeb uas paub txog lawv. Thiab tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas koj lub tswv yim "Doll-fashionista", uas muaj cov ntawv luam ntawm cov khoom siv rau kev lag luam, koj tus ntxhais plaub xyoos yuav muaj feem ntau nrog ua si nrog tus da dej. Ua tsaug rau peb cov tswv yim rau cov niam txiv ntawm xaiv cov khoom ua si rau cov me nyuam uas koj tuaj yeem to taub thiab nkag siab ntau.
Kuv tabtom tiv thaiv tub rog cov khoom ua si, uas yog, tub rog. Ib tug txivneej yeem coj lawv mus rau nws tus tub. Peb pom tsis yog kev sib txawv ntawm lub siab xwb. Peb tau txais cov haujlwm ua tsis ncaj. Ib me ntsis ntxiv thiab nws yuav tuaj sib nrauj. Leej twg thiaj yog?
Txhua tus ntawm koj muaj cai rau nws qhov kev xam pom txog cov khoom ua si thiab cov khoom ua si nruj heev. Tus kheej, koj yuav tsum xav tias feem ntau cov khoom ua si ntawm kev ua si muaj kev cuam tshuam rau tus me nyuam lub siab - nws muab lub sijhawm zoo rau hauv daim ntawv "legal" rau lub ntuj tsim kev kub ntxhov tam sim no rau txhua tus me nyuam. Koj tus me nyuam raug ntau lub hnub nyiag tuaj yeem: koj tsis tuaj yeem ua kom tsis tau miv nyob hauv tsev, txawm tias nws raug khawb, thiab hauv kindergarten - ib tug ntxhais, uas raug, tom, ntawm txoj kev ... Qhov twg yuav txeej tag nrho cov kev tsis txaus siab no? Ua si "Kev tua" - ib txoj kev zoo.
Thiab tsis tas li ntawd, qhov kev xav tau yog "tus yeej" yuav muaj kev cuam tshuam rau nws tus kheej.
Tab sis txhoj puab heev thiab kev ua si ua si yog tam sim ntawd raug xa mus rau kev sib ceg. Lub hom phiaj ntawm nws "tra-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta" yuav tsum yog los tiv thaiv cov neeg hlub, tseg ib tus ntxhais huab tais zoo, tiv thaiv tsiaj los ntawm cov neeg ua dej caw. Qhov no, "kev ua si nruj heev", hauv koj lub tswv yim, yuav tsuas muaj feem xyuam zoo. Tus me nyuam kawm paub tias koj yuav tsum ua tus neeg nrog cev thiab, thaum koj loj hlob, nws yuav muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv cov neeg hlub thiab cov uas qaug zog. Tsis zoo li cov neeg uas tau raug tshem tawm ntawm tej kev ua si hauv lawv cov menyuam yaus.
Kuv tus me nyuam tau npaj ib qho "kev hais kwv txhiaj" hauv ib qho khoom ua si toy. Nws nug tias nws tsis tshua tau mus tawm ntawm tsis muaj muas. Yuav kom tsis kam nws tsuas yog tsis muaj tseeb, thiab ntawm qhov kev tes, kuv ntshai mus laub nws.
Koj qhov kev ntshai yog qhov tseeb. Hauv hysterics, uas dov tau los ntawm qee cov menyuam yaus hauv khw muag khoom, niam txiv, thawj zaug ntawm tag nrho, yuav tsum kiam. Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm tswj tau lawv lub siab xav thiab kev xav zoo li cov laus, tshwj xeeb heev tsawg. Thiab kom ntsuam xyuas qhov peev xwm no tsis tsim nyog nws. Yuav ib qho khoom ua si txhua lub sijhawm, koj yuav tsis tsuas yog lwj tus me nyuam, tab sis kuj txhim kho tus qauv ntawm kev coj cwj pwm. Thiab yog tias txhua zaus koj coj deb ntawm lub khw muag khoom tsis muaj khoom ua si, koj tuaj yeem mob siab rau lub hlwb. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog kom tsis txhob tsav tsheb tus me nyuam mus rau qhov chaw muaj ntau yam kev sim siab. Tsuas yog thaum koj npaj yuav yuav koj tus menyuam khoom plig, coj nws mus rau tom khw thiab muab nws ua kev zoo siab rau hnub so.
Kuv tus me nyuam muaj ob xyoos tsis yeem tsis kam qhia nws cov khoom ua si nrog lwm cov me nyuam. Koj tuaj yeem qhia nws qhov no li cas?
Nyob rau hauv ob xyoos lub sij hawm mus qhia, tau tsis tau tuaj. Cov menyuam yaus txoj kev coj ncaj ncees mus txog rau peb lub xyoos yog ib yam ua tau. Ib tug menyuam yaus muaj cai tsis pub nws cov khoom ua si kom txog thaum nws ua si txaus nws tus kheej. Qhov no, los ntawm txoj kev, yuav pab kom nkag siab tias lwm tus me nyuam tsis muab nws cov khoom ua si. Tus crumb pom nws cov khoom ua ib feem ntawm nws tus kheej. Rau ib tug me nyuam, nws tus kheej thiab nws cov khoom ua si yog ib qho. Tus menyuam loj hlob tuaj tsuas paub tias nws cov khoom nws yuav tsis tso tseg nws yog hais tias ib tug neeg coj lawv mus. Tiam sis tom qab peb xyoos, tus me nyuam pib tsim tej yam zoo li no ua siab zoo, muaj lub siab xav ua kom tus neeg zoo siab, thiab koj txoj hauj lwm yog los txhawb nws. Xyoo 3-4, cov me nyuam pib muaj lub siab xav tsis tsuas yog los qhia, tab sis kuj yuav tsum ua khoom plig. Thiab nws ua rau kev txiav txim zoo nrog tus me nyuam tham txog yam khoom ua si uas koj tuaj yeem muab, thiab cov twg yog cov - tsis yog. Tom qab tag nrho, koj tsis zoo yuav zoo siab yog tias koj tus ntxhais muab ib tug phooj ywg nyob hauv chaw ua si nws tus scooter.
Tam sim no muaj ntau cov khoom ua si zoo ib yam hauv cov khw, tib lub sij hawm lawv cov nqi sib txawv heev. Tej zaum qhov no nyob ntawm ntau npaum li cas cov khoom zoo? Thov sau cov txheej xwm tseem ceeb rau kev ruaj ntseg ntawm cov khoom ua si.
Kev nyab xeeb yog thawj qhov khoom rau cov niam txiv yuav tsum them nyiaj rau thaum yuav ib qho khoom ua si. Qhov ntawd yog, thawj zaug koj tshuaj xyuas qhov khoom ua si ntawm nws qhov kev nyab xeeb thiab tsuas yog, xav txog lwm yam teeb meem.
Sim tsuas yog cov khoom pov thawj.
Them tus kws muag khoom. Zoo, yog hais tias tus neeg tsim khoom ntawm qhov khoom ua si koj tau ntsib hauv khw muag khoom sib txawv, thiab tsis yog ib xyoos. Nws ua rau cov neeg paub txog cov npe ntawm cov khoom ua si.
Nco ntsoov txog cov yam ntxwv ntawm hnub nyoog (piv txwv li, cov me nyuam tsis tau muaj hnub nyoog peb xyoos yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav cov khoom ua si uas muaj qhov me me).
Tuav tus khoom ua si rau hauv koj txhais tes, txaus siab rau nws lub zog, xyuam xim rau qhov nyhav ntawm cov khoom ua si, tshwj xeeb yog rattles.
Them rau qhov khoom ua si nrog ib qho khoom ua si muag. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws xaiv - sintepon (ua npuas nyob rau hauv 6 lub hlis yuav pib tso tawm cov teeb meem tshuaj). Yog tias qhov khoom ua si muaj cov khoom me me, ntsuas lub zog ntawm qhov teeb meem ntawm qhov khoom ua si yog sewn. Them seb yuav ua li cas nruj nreem koj lub qhov muag, lub qhov ntswg.
Hnov yas thiab cov khoom ua si roj hmab (tsis txhob ntshai ua rau lwm tus neeg luag), koj tuaj yeem sim sim lawv cov hniav (yog tias koj, tau raug tso cai). Qhov tsw thiab saj ntawm koj yog alarming - nws yog zoo dua rau tso tseg lawv yuav khoom, lawv muaj peev xwm ua tau tsis zoo.
Rau tag nrho cov khoom ua si uas tau ntawv pov thawj hauv Tebchaws Nplog, daim ntawv cej thab xo raug txuas nrog thiab ib qho kev qhia hauv lus Suav. Siv cov cai ntawm kev nyeem ntawv!
Kuv tus ntxhais tsis xav ua si hauv kev ua si (piv txwv li, nrog tus tsim qauv, kev sib tw, kev sib tw). Rau hnub nws plays nrog cov khoom ua si muag - ces tus kindergarten yuav npaj, ces pub lawv. Yuav ua li cas kom nws ua si hauv kev ua si?
Koj tus ntxhais yuav tsum tsis txhob raug yuam ua si hauv kev ua si. Qhov no koj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txog lawv. Siv sij hawm so. Thiab tseem nco ntsoov tias chav ua si ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis zoo li lub tsev kawm ntawv chav. Thiab txawm hais tias lub sijhawm mus txog 5 xyoo yog qhov zoo rau txoj kev txawj ntse ntawm kev txawj ntse, kev nco, kev xaav, qhov no tsis txhais hais tias tam sim no tsuas tshwj xeeb "cov khoom ua si kev kawm" uas xav tau. Qhov tseeb tiag, cov me nyuam tau txais kev paub ntau tshaj plaws hauv kev ua si thiab kev tshawb nrhiav dawb hauv ntiaj teb nyob ib ncig ntawm lawv. Qhov no yog li cas ib txoj kev hlub rau kev paub yog instilled. Txhua qhov kev ua si "seem" muaj lub ntsiab tob tob.
Raws li kev pabcuam, koj tuaj yeem siv cov phau ntawv nrog duab.
Kuv tus me nyuam ntxhais rau kuv tau thov kuv mus yuav nws tus dev. Tsis muaj kev kho mob dabtsi. Tab sis kuv muaj ib qho kev xav tias nws yuav kho nws zoo li ib qho khoom ua si. Qhia tawm yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob muaj qhov no?
Koj qhov kev ntshai yog ib nrab yeej muaj tseeb, tab sis qhov ntawd tsis txhais hais tias koj tsis tas yuav yuav ib tus tsiaj. Tham nrog tus ntxhais txog kev xav tau ntawm kev nyob - thaum muaj rau xyoo nws yeej nkag siab txog nws. Them koj tus ntxhais nrog kev ua dej num yooj yim los tu tus tsiaj, piv txwv li, los saib xyuas cov dej hauv lub tais. Thiab txhua tus yuav zoo siab.
Kuv tus me nyuam muaj 4 xyoos nyiam nyiam ua si cov khoom ua si. Tus txiv yog hauv ib qho ntshai. Kuv tsis pom dab tsi txaus ntshai hauv no. Leej twg thiaj yog?
Txaus siab cia koj tus txiv. Hauv 4 xyoos tsis muaj kev txhawj txog. Cov me nyuam yuav nyiam ua ntau yam khoom ua si, nrog rau cov me nyuam uas nyiam coj tus cwj pwm txawv. Txhob txaj muag tus menyuam los yog txwv tsis pub nws ua si "girly" games. Feem ntau cov menyuam yuav ua rau nws txaus siab thiab rov qab pib ntawm cov khoom ua si ntawm "macho". Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, nws yuav tseem ceeb npaum li cas lub sij hawm nws them rau kev ua si "nrog me nyuam roj hmab" thiab seb nws plays nyob rau hauv boyish.
Psychologists qhia kom tsis txhob puag ncig tus me nyuam nrog ntau cov khoom ua si. Qhov no dispels mloog, thiab raws li ib tug tshwm sim, lub me nyuam tsis ua si nrog ib tug.
Cov me nyuam chav pw ntawm peb cov phooj ywg tsuas muab cov khoom ua si cia. Tab sis lawv tus ntxhais tsis ua si nrog lawv. Thiab lawv tag nrho cov tshiab. Yuav ua li cas muaj ntau cov khoom ua si yuav tsum nyob ib ncig ntawm lub pob zeb?
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau cov lus teb thiab cov lus teb tsis sib haum. Cov khoom ua si nyob ntawm seb tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog li cas, thiab lawv lub hom phiaj zoo. Thiab koj cov phooj ywg, koj tuaj yeem qhia kom ua raws li cov khoom ua si ntawm qhov chaw zov me nyuam thiab ua rau nws hloov. "Hloov" txhais hais tias tsis yog hloov tshiab xwb. Cov niam txiv paub cov khoom ua si kom huv si, uas tus me nyuam tsis chwv li ob peb hnub. Extracted los ntawm mezzanines tom qab ob peb lub hlis, lawv ua rau tus tshiab kev txaus siab rau tus me nyuam.
Yuav ua li cas tsis ua yuam kev hauv kev xaiv ib qho khoom ua si rau koj tus me nyuam, vim tias lub assortment zoo li ntawd? Nws tsis yooj yim rau kev xav txog cov kev cai dab tsi yuav tsum tau ua thawj coj.
Xav txog kev tsim cov khoom ua si no: kev xav, kev xav, kev loj hlob, kev sib txuas lus, kev tsim kho, tus kheej zoo, kev tswj yus tus kheej ... Tau txais kev pabcuam los teb lo lus nug no, nco ntsoov cov khoom ua si puas yog nyob hauv arsenal ntawm tus menyuam?
Tej zaum, rau txoj kev loj hlob ntawm no los yog qhov zoo, crumbs twb muaj txaus cov khoom ua si, thiab lub sijhawm no nws yog zoo dua yuav ib qho khoom ua si nrog lwm lub hom phiaj.
Nco ntsoov, yam khoom ua si uas tus me nyuam ua npau suav txog, uas koj tau ua tib zoo saib hauv khw, Dab Tsi Frost tau sau txog dab tsi.
Nco qab cov khoom ua si nws nco txog los ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm koj cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg uas koj paub.
Nco ntsoov nug koj tus kheej, tab sis koj tus kheej xav tau txais cov khoom ua si ntawm lub hnub nyoog tsim nyog? Yog tias tus me nyuam hluas dhau lawm, xav txog seb nws nyiam nws li cas.